i once was in love, & i still am. |
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 Feb 4 2009, 06:42 PM
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so about 2 weeks ago, i was madly in love with my girlfriend. she is exactly perfect for me and i for her. now i know that there is no such thing as perfect, but trust me on this one. i thought i was in love before, but i never quite felt anything like the way i did with her. well we had to break up because of her parents and well we made promises to meet up somehow in the future, but any way..i know that its silly to do things like that and her favorite saying was "i dont make promises, but i keep my word" but..theres just something that feels so..RIGHT.
so my question here is...DO I KEEP MY HEART SET ON HER, OR SHOULD I JUST MOVE ON?.. i dont want to feel like an idiot for believing in these promises for the longest time only to find out that she didnt pull through. but then again i dont want to be the other idiot who just missed out on the chance of finding their once in a lifetime.  my parents tell me to just get over it and move on.but i want other opinions =[ |
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Feb 4 2009, 06:56 PM
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QUOTE(Dabme @ Feb 4 2009, 06:42 PM)  so about 2 weeks ago, i was madly in love with my girlfriend. So you aren't anymore? QUOTE stubborn.gif my parents tell me to just get over it and move on. but i want other opinions =[ What good is it dwelling on something that might or might not happen? You need to just go with the flow. If 10 years down the line, you meet up again, then it'll happen. But that's 10 years down the line. |
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Feb 4 2009, 07:01 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
it seems like your not in love with her :/! if you were, i think you wouldn't have let her go. and you would be with her right now, maybe you need to think about this and just infatuated. if you love her, you will keep her and will be with her now. i think your using the wrong words "madly in love"
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Feb 4 2009, 07:02 PM
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Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
^That's a little unfair to assume just because they broke up, they weren't in love.
Sometimes, wanting to be with each other and loving each other is not enough. |
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Feb 4 2009, 08:08 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
parents? you're obviously very young.
trust me, move on. things will be very different. what you do when you're young, you will look back at with embarrassment. |
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Feb 10 2009, 10:47 PM
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dude forget that bitch she dont deserve you. i on the other hand am very happy with where i am and am getting ass every night =]
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Feb 10 2009, 11:25 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
LOL! ^ how's your broken leg steven?
and i think, you really have to move on. have you talked to her lately? |
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Feb 11 2009, 11:27 PM
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Well waiting for her and all is a romantic idea, but it's not practical in the real world.
It may sound nice in a book but seriously, if there's like only a rare chance of seeing her again then move on. Or...you'll move on eventually. |
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Feb 13 2009, 05:03 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
My boyfriend &I went through something kind of like this, except his parents kind of gave up.
What are her parents so upset over? |
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