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 Aug 25 2008, 05:39 PM
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I hope I'm not stretching the forums.. Anyways, I've liked this guy. Hope you guys get a snack and a drink and kick back.
This guy was 5'9" and a asian person with spikey hair and dressed all urban. This currently happened when I was in 6th and he was in 7th. The first one was a guy that I met at lunchtime, he was sitting by himself. I became friends with him quickly. We'd always talked about what shows we watched, and how classes were.. Soon we began to flirt with each other (like a playful thing) and soon he grabbed my butt. It felt weird, but I liked it. I wanted my revenged so I tried to grab him, but somehow I grabbed his DANGER ZONE. He was like "Woahhh." Soon after weeks, we followed each other to classes and we sat next to the stairways and I listened to his iPod with him. He even let me borrowed his! On the last day of school, I told him to go out with this plumpy girl. He was like "EWWWHHH. HELL NO!" The summer came, and soon they went out. I did not know that he was a player person, who' would go out with another girl the next day. When I was in 7th and he was in 8th(FINAL YEAR) things started to go downhill. We got into a big arguement, and people made us fight. I was smart enough to say "Sorry, I don't fight my hands." The guy I liked said "You're a sissy. I bet he can't even fight." And soon, we started to pretend we were strangers. He basically ignores me and so does his brother. One day I was walking with my best friend(and she went out with the guy, and they lived close to each other) and the guy i liked, plus this other guy that always makes fun of me. The Guy I liked said "NUH UH! He's not following us. He's probably lying. I'll bet you when we talk to the stop sign, he'll probably run back to the parent pick up." As we were walking to my friend's house, the guy that made fun of me kept taunting me with threats, and my best friend told me to hide behind the guy I liked. I refused! Eventually some bumble bees chased us, and the mean guy that I hated left. On the last day of school, when it was after school, It was a rainy day. I had to meet up with my friends at a store, and when I was walking, Jacky(Yes' I'll now admit it) was ahead of me. He had an umbrella with him, and he was walking also. I was crying because I did not know what to do, If I should run up behind and hug him, or just forget about him. He began to cross the street(J WALKING :D) and I lost my chance.. I began to cry more, and sat all by myself at the Plaza. My friends eventually found me, and they were like "What's wrong?" I said " It's just the rain. these are not tears.." I'm in eighth now, and so Jacky goes to the high school next to my middle school. What do you guys suggest? Oh here's his current picture.  |
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Aug 25 2008, 05:45 PM
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Awww, that's such a sad story . I suggest you forget about him, since he's not showing any interest in you . If you do happen to see him though, ask him about it or something .
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Aug 25 2008, 06:04 PM
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QUOTE(ChesterRevolver @ Aug 25 2008, 02:45 PM)  Awww, that's such a sad story . I suggest you forget about him, since he's not showing any interest in you . If you do happen to see him though, ask him about it or something . yeah, it's funny how that his mom and my mom used to be co-workers.. QUOTE(kreios @ Aug 25 2008, 02:49 PM) I just kind of went through a similar situation, but the guy that I liked was straight. If he's not really out, or anything, you didn't really give a lot of background on his sexuality or anything. But if he doesn't think anything's going on, he's not going to make any kind of social/physical move around you. You kind of have to let him know that you still want him, or something of that nature. On the other hand. You really should explain one story at a time. I'm still kind confused about who you were talking about in the beginning with the flirting and stuff. Was that with Jacky, or some other dude? That's kinda confusing to me still. The way that I handled my problem, though I'm a lot older than you are. Is you have to talk to that person 1 on 1, without any arguing or yelling. Just have a peaceful conversation with him. Don't try and hold anything back. If he still has feelings for you, the only way that you'll get him to say that is if you say something to him about it. Otherwise, you're stuck. I told my straight friend that I liked him, according to kinsey statistics if you know anything about that, no guy is 100% heterosexual, So I had a 1% chance with this guy. Well, it really didn't work out for me. Because soon after I told him, we kinda fell apart. Or at least I think so, we still hang out all the time, just not as much anymore. And we really hardly do anything with just the two of us. (that would just cause more awkwardness/tension). But anyway, after a while we kinda settled our differences, he got over the fact that I had a crush on him. And we're pretty normal now. good luck oh i'm sorry, i mean it's the same guy(his name is Jacky) but yeah, now his brother thinks i'm weird and so does his little sister. :/ |
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Aug 25 2008, 06:15 PM
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QUOTE(kreios @ Aug 25 2008, 03:05 PM) Well, if you guys haven't talked about it, I'd suggest you do. Even settling a problem can have it's own reward. yeah i agree, but it's too late now. i'm just concerned now about school and impressing my parents, so i'll have to wait until I graduate middle school. |
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Aug 25 2008, 08:54 PM
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The story touched me
but take my words cause i have been in that situation DONT GIVE UP ON HIM you really should try to become friends with him again cause obviously there was some chemistry between you guys. even lie to him say YOUR SORRY and this was all your fault (even though it wasn't) but sometimes we have to take a blame we dont want i had a crush on a guy for such a long time. but i was too shy to even hang out with him (of course we talked and all) but it wasn't good enough! i wanted to tell him so bad how i felt about him but i pulled back too long, now hes gone to college (im like two years younger) and ill prolly never have the chance to tell him |
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Aug 26 2008, 12:48 AM
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You're only in middle school, so..I say forget it.
There's high school. Why get caught up in drama now?? Focus on other stuff. If a guy is making you super flustered and crying like that..well, I know I wouldn't pursue anything. |
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Aug 27 2008, 05:54 AM
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QUOTE(MissUchiha @ Aug 25 2008, 05:54 PM) The story touched me but take my words cause i have been in that situation DONT GIVE UP ON HIM you really should try to become friends with him again cause obviously there was some chemistry between you guys. even lie to him say YOUR SORRY and this was all your fault (even though it wasn't) but sometimes we have to take a blame we dont want i had a crush on a guy for such a long time. but i was too shy to even hang out with him (of course we talked and all) but it wasn't good enough! i wanted to tell him so bad how i felt about him but i pulled back too long, now hes gone to college (im like two years younger) and ill prolly never have the chance to tell him I guess we're in the same boat. :/ QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 25 2008, 09:48 PM) You're only in middle school, so..I say forget it. There's high school. Why get caught up in drama now?? Focus on other stuff. If a guy is making you super flustered and crying like that..well, I know I wouldn't pursue anything. Yeah, but it's hard to let go.  |
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Aug 27 2008, 07:22 PM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Letting go is almost never easy.
Trust me, I've been there before. But once you do...it feels good. The thoughts of him won't weigh you down anymore. |
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Aug 28 2008, 05:24 AM
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QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 27 2008, 04:22 PM) Letting go is almost never easy. Trust me, I've been there before. But once you do...it feels good. The thoughts of him won't weigh you down anymore. ehh, I'll try... Thanks you guys so much! I'll keep all of everyone's advice in my notepad.     
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