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how do you feel about this? |
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![]() Melieized ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 ![]() |
i was watching this show taboo on national geographic, and it was talking about the taboos of sex changes.
now, recently a pregnant man just gave birth to a little girl. (the man was born a woman, married another woman but because the wife had a hysterectomy, he was the one that carried and birthed the child). how do you feel about their need to be accepted in society but still wanting to still conceive a child? personally, i have a strong disagreement with this. if they want us to accept the fact that they changed their whole appearance and attitude then that i can do. but if a woman who changes into a man, still has her reproductive organs and then wants to conceive a child, i don't agree with. if you want us to accept you as a man, then that's what you are. but i will not accept you for being a woman, who wanted to be a man, and now wants to be a woman and conceive a child, then i feel that they should be a woman again. you can't have both worlds and expect society to accept you as who you are. unless you're a hermaphrodite. |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
my view on this is...who cares? i don't care what people wanna do in their own private relationships with each other. it doesn't effect me, who i'm with, or my family so i don't personally see the problem. why do you care what other couples do if it's not harming you?
"society" is too concerned with things that shouldn't even really matter to them personally unless they are somehow involved. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,095 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 171,080 ![]() |
why do people make such a big deal out of this human being a "man" and having a kid? how many other transgender people do you think have had kids? why is this couple any different?
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 ![]() |
To each his own.
Who are we to judge? |
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Banned ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 700 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 658,432 ![]() |
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![]() Jooleeah <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 687 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 662,481 ![]() |
my view on this is...who cares? i don't care what people wanna do in their own private relationships with each other. it doesn't effect me, who i'm with, or my family so i don't personally see the problem. why do you care what other couples do if it's not harming you? "society" is too concerned with things that shouldn't even really matter to them personally unless they are somehow involved. Ditto. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 387,078 ![]() |
I honestly don't care. As long as they're not hurting anyone, I don't care what they do with their private lives.
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![]() That's what she said. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 ![]() |
Yeah, we'll probably never really know the full story.
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#9
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
i don't really get though all that hype about him being the first man to give birth if he wasn't really a man anyway...that doesn't even count.
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
It is a little weird. If I saw a pregnant man walking around, I'd probably stare. I wouldn't gawk, but I would deffinitely have to look twice. I don't really care what he/she does, it doesn't affect me. I have better things to waste my time on.
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![]() u dont know wut ur missin until it shows up at ur door ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 503,053 ![]() |
Ok, why the need to worry about what everyone else does with their body? Ok yeah someone acting and looking like a man having a baby is weird, but you know what times are changing and no one is the same. Let people live their lives and everyone else move on with theirs!
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![]() James killed the radio star. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,095 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 589,855 ![]() |
my view on this is...who cares? i don't care what people wanna do in their own private relationships with each other. it doesn't effect me, who i'm with, or my family so i don't personally see the problem. why do you care what other couples do if it's not harming you? "society" is too concerned with things that shouldn't even really matter to them personally unless they are somehow involved. Amen. This is one of those things which to me is just like 'if you don't lie it, then don't DO it, and shut the f**k up.' |
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![]() Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 673,965 ![]() |
QUOTE i was watching this show taboo on national geographic, and it was talking about the taboos of sex changes. now, recently a pregnant man just gave birth to a little girl. (the man was born a woman, married another woman but because the wife had a hysterectomy, he was the one that carried and birthed the child). how do you feel about their need to be accepted in society but still wanting to still conceive a child? personally, i have a strong disagreement with this. if they want us to accept the fact that they changed their whole appearance and attitude then that i can do. but if a woman who changes into a man, still has her reproductive organs and then wants to conceive a child, i don\\\'t agree with. if you want us to accept you as a man, then that\\\'s what you are. but i will not accept you for being a woman, who wanted to be a man, and now wants to be a woman and conceive a child, then i feel that they should be a woman again. you can\\\'t have both worlds and expect society to accept you as who you are. unless you\\\'re a hermaphrodite. i agree i will chop a bitches dick off if she pulls out a dick and says \\\"i was born a man\\\". i do not support that shit at all. its cool if you going to get a sex change but just get the hell away from me. |
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![]() badass nerd ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 660,629 ![]() |
i was watching this show taboo on national geographic, and it was talking about the taboos of sex changes. now, recently a pregnant man just gave birth to a little girl. (the man was born a woman, married another woman but because the wife had a hysterectomy, he was the one that carried and birthed the child). how do you feel about their need to be accepted in society but still wanting to still conceive a child? personally, i have a strong disagreement with this. if they want us to accept the fact that they changed their whole appearance and attitude then that i can do. but if a woman who changes into a man, still has her reproductive organs and then wants to conceive a child, i don't agree with. if you want us to accept you as a man, then that's what you are. but i will not accept you for being a woman, who wanted to be a man, and now wants to be a woman and conceive a child, then i feel that they should be a woman again. you can't have both worlds and expect society to accept you as who you are. unless you're a hermaphrodite. why does this matter to you so much? you were WATCHING IT ON TV. ha. it doesn't affect you whatsoever! and i really don't think (s)he was expecting society to accept (her)him, even before he decided to conceive. if (s)he really wanted us to pay so much attention to (her)him, (s)he would be acting like chris crocker. |
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![]() omnomnom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 ![]() |
I think you're full of shit.
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![]() isketchaholic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 ![]() |
^ I think you need to cut your own shit out.
As far as this topic is concerned, I agree with what seems to be the most prevalent reaction towards this topic: unconcern? I agree in that there are subjects that have absolutely no correlation with my personal life and thus I have no right to force my own ideas upon them. However, there are some cases where I feel that what others do (whether or not their decisions or actions personally affect me) will still warrant a response from me? Ruthless murders are what comes to mind, but that may just be the emotionally unstable side of me talking. /rather off-topic |
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#17
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![]() . ish Happens . ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 ![]() |
Personally I don't care and don't feel the need to judge.
Gay people[[including pregnant ones]] in this society are going though the same thing black people went though back in the day. It's really none of your concern as long as they never come in contact with you. Just accept it because their going no where and as society grows so will pregnant man. Just get over it. ``My Opinion`` |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
^ Someone needs a history lesson.
Ok, why the need to worry about what everyone else does with their body? From the way I see it, that's part of the reason people do it. The world sees the person as a male when they feel like a female. So they change their apperance so that they rest of the world will see them as they feel. And then the outside matches the inside, too. I'd hate to know the full cost of people that go through all those surgeries. |
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![]() . ish Happens . ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 ![]() |
how am i crazy and why do i need a history lesson?
![]() people in todays society don't except gays like white people didn't except black people... now don't get my words twisted black people went through a lot more bull...but...still we weren't excepted...even though we were and still are humans... |
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![]() . ish Happens . ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 665,362 ![]() |
QUOTE black people went through a lot more bull...but...still we weren't excepted forget it... ![]() .OVER.
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 ![]() |
I don't know about you but I haven't heard of any cases of people enslaving homosexuals and lynching them. Gays can use the same waterfoutian as a straight people. They can go to the same schools. I don't see how you can make that comparison. Yes, there are hate crimes against gays, but what I am saying is that the numbers don't add up.
And I'm going to stop now, before this becomes an argument. Just sayin' |
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![]() ◕ ◡ ◕ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 ![]() |
lol sucks that you wasted time
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how am i crazy and why do i need a history lesson? ![]() people in todays society don't except gays like white people didn't except black people... now don't get my words twisted black people went through a lot more bull...but...still we weren't excepted...even though we were and still are humans... Man, wtf? This is practically one of the worse comparaisons I've ever witnessed. If you're trying to point out discrimination, you should probably word it differently. Why not compare AIDS to homosexuality and slavery while you're at it? |
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