I think you're misunderstanding what I meant. Of course age doesn't matter, but HOW LONG you've been dating matters. That's why I asked how long you two have been dating. People say they love each other so easily, and then they easily take it back, especially if they've only been dating for a short time. this is not always the case, but I know it's happened too often to deny it. Age does not matter because I fell in love when I was only 14 (eh.. I guess 15) and I honestly knew that my current boyfriend is "the one".

Regardless, an hour and 45 minutes is not so bad, but at last you two will be in the same time zone. If you two really care about each other, then it will work out on it's own. If you two can't contact each other that often, at least email or text each other, that's not so hard. Honestly, if you've put 8 months into this, why not keep it going? Just remember that college changes people, and as long as you're willing to accept what might happen, then it'll be fine, especially since you are confident that he will never cheat on you.

Chillax, Michael was making a funny.



Lol. "truly in love" yeah mmmkay. Anyway, love isn't always the answer. Just because two people truly care about each other doesn't make the distance any easier or make the temptations of college disappear. It's not fair to ask either one of them to give up going out and partying, because that's part of the college experience and if they do give it up, they are going to feel like they are missing out on something. It's not fair to ask someone to give up something like experiencing college just because you are in a committed relationships.

Honestly, most people who go to college with a significant other don't last through the first semester, let alone year. It takes a real commitment to eachother and to making it work. You are going to have to give up things and talk to eachother everyday.

Why can you only see eachother *maybe* once a month? Golf shouldn't take up too much of his life and if it does, where is the fun in college?

editt::///

Right. Maybe that's what you think right now, but it's going to keep being a high school relationship until you make it through at least a year of college.

Do you realize how much a person changes in that one year of college? Tremendously. Even if you don't cheat on each other, when you meet up again for, say, Christmas break, you might realize that you've become two entirely different people.

I've known people who were together for 4-5 years and ended up breaking up within that first year.

Everyone thinks they'll make it, but you really just never know.

All year long?

lol "golf practice"

start getting suspicious when he sounds all winded and out of breath when you call him late at night and he says "oh, i just got back from golf practice!"

LMAO guys!!

ya. even worse when you two in bad mood some day.

this is how i felt about a year ago because my boyfriend was going away to college. the good thing was that his college was only 40mins away from where I lived.

Overall, this can seriously determine your relationship. you don't know how strong your relationship until you two face an obstacle. all i see you can do is take it and try to make it work.

yeah, aint gonna lie, but chances are it wont work out, but who am i to judge

Then you said in another thread:



So, like um... was this thread a complete lie or something?
(No I am not trying to join in on the bashing. I just wanted to know about this thread because I feel that other members have wasted their time posting in such a useless topic if it was all a lie)

=0

8 months with a guys she didn't really like... ?

^ Liar alert? Haha. Making up excuses for his supposedly ugliness. Hahahahaha.

really, the only way to make it work is if you both feel you are it for eachother and want it to work.
i was in the same situation and my realtionship was amazing. we saw eachother once month and he had been away for a year.
it will be hard, but in the end it's always worth it. if you believe it can work it will.
you just need to communicate.

Woah this has been bumped...Oh i see why haha



Your a good lier

Anyways hey christina i don't really care what you say actually. Drop it. Why do you have issues with me?

THINGS CHANGE! people can relate to the topic and not really respond to the situation

Understand this:

1.I didn't like him
2.then i liked him
3.then i hated him
4.then dumped him
then it's over

get it? got it? good

Sandra: you the last one to say who is good looking or not

^ oh snap...! aimee going all out on yall bi3tcheszzz owning sandra and christina 2 killz wit 1 stoneee...

and oh yeah this won't work. i went to college, and my gf was a senior in hs, and it didn't work out. we broke up.

LOL Aimee. Damn American who doesn't understand the English language. I said 'supposedly'. Care to read my sentence again? HUM? Pay more attention in your English class kiddo.

And who is to say they aren't tempting to young women too. Girls can be just as slutty.

a milli a milli a milli a milli

ROFLROFLROFL

I hate that song.

I thought those students partied the most.

Well, this was a while ago but I was going out with my ex daniel and we were graduating from junior high soon (yeah i know) and our relationship began to get rocky when we entered high school cause we went to different schools and had different friends. Not sure if that counts.

I heard that too. Work hard, party hard. =P

gtfo