well.. the topic kinda speaks for itself. but anyways.. since his parents are gone till like sunday morning. and i got back in town last sat... i spent 2nights with him and stuff like that. then i went home monday... and i was a little sick. but w.e.. getting back to the topic.. XD. well I was at my house that night and most of the day and then I ended up going to the gym with him that night and i spent the night with him again.. =] but then he told me he didnt have to go to work the next day so i just stayed with him for the 4th time. and granted my boyfriend is VERY sweet.. (kisses me on my hand, and forehead, and kisses me out of the blue and does such sweet things for me as much as he can) but anyways... like i have asked him if i have annoyed him anyway... he said no. and i know he is pretty honest about what he says... but in the long run i know i have been with him ALOT and i dont know if this is to much?? and its spending to much time im guessing... but at the same time i kinda dont want to go home..and im just not getting along with my rents. so i just dont want to be there.. i like to be here and just yea... but i dont know what to do.. help ? thanks =]

You just have to get use to spending that much time together it could be awkward in the beginning, and if you asked him if you were bothering him or annoying him in anyway and he said no then don't keep thinking to yourself that you're spending "too much time" together because then you're going to start acting different towards him and that may cause him to get irritated at why youre acting different and then yea...you get it lol?

yeah I get it. Like right now about an hour ago he went off to work and im just at his house alone.. and i mean he said if i want to come back and such i can get get the key. yeah i mean i dont act differently if it seems im spending to much time with him ... i just feel different inside. i mean if i think about it... he seems that he isnt affected by that im here and such... its just me i guess... but still i mean i feel bad for doing that.. bc i know he is a very independent guy... and such. but at the same time i just want to be with him.. and like this week is the only week i get to really spend alone time with him and such at his house. so i mean i dont know what to think honestly. bleh.


and plus i dont know if this makes a difference but we have been only been going out for like 1 month.

Ooh.. Well I guess you guys are moving kinda fast!but i cant really talk i started falling asleep at my bfs house within the first two months too lol...Anyway..he does seem to enjoy you being there if he let you stay there while hes working im sure if he had a problem with you being there he would have said ok ill take you home so i can go to work and pick you up later or something along those lines.. And if you really do feel that you are spending too much time together talk it over with him because you don't want to rush into things too fast if one of you is ready and the other one is not you got to make sure yuo're on the same page as each-other and if you really do want to go home for maybe tonight and then come back over tommorow tell him be like "Hey I think i'm gonna go home for the night" Or something along those lines and if he gets mad or upset maybe you two aren't on the same page in your relation ship ya digg?

You can NEVER spend TO much time with the one you love... I have been with my b/f for almost a year and we have only had 3 nights that we spent apart... sounds dumb really haha... But thats just my personal opinion

I think there is such a thing as spending too much time together. But since this is most likely a one-time thing of sleeping in the same place and hanging out a lot, I think it's fine. Just don't do it all the time otherwise you'll get tired of each other. You should have separate activities and lives.

yeah i understand. and yeah i think its a one time thing for awhile now... beacuse his rents are out of town. so i mean im making the best of it,.. and its nice once in awhile... and like when we do have our own ways we only get to see each other so little because he has all day work basically. and his only day off sometimes is sunday. so i mean yea.