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 May 21 2008, 07:23 PM
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 [Insert something Witty Here]  Group: Member Posts: 363 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,828  |
Ok. I was with this one girl who was really great and we have been friends for a long time (but she broke up with me for no apparent reason). What should I do, I can't really find anyone else, and I feel guilty.
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May 21 2008, 07:27 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
Why do you feel guilty? How long have you guys been broken up? If it's been a short amount of time and there are lingering feelings, it's next to impossible to find someone else because you are constantly thinking of your ex.
Try focusing on not being with anyone and enjoy life solo. Someone will probably come along when you least expect it. |
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May 21 2008, 07:30 PM
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[Insert something Witty Here] Group: Member Posts: 363 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,828 |
Its been 3 weeks :(.
I usually bounce back about this stuff, but, she was different. Its hard for me to imagine life solo. I try to ask people but, its not really the same :( |
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May 21 2008, 07:47 PM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
Why would you feel guilty? she broke it off with you! There is nothing you could have done to prevent it. And it’s only been three weeks. You can’t expect to find another girl in that short of time.
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May 21 2008, 08:07 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
omg, i hate those couples that don't break up because they think they can't find someone else. seriously.
you shouldn't feel guilty, if anything, you should feel bad. and why won't you find anyone else? there's like a kajillion people in the world. there's bound to be someone else. don't dwell on your past because you will stay living in the past with the mentality that your ex is the only one for you. if anything, its her loss. and you will find someone else, someone who actually deserves to be with you and appreciates your relationship. |
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May 22 2008, 12:09 AM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
If you didnt do anything then there's no reason for you to feel guilty. You are young. Relationships come and go; there is always someone else out there. It might be hard to deal with or get over at this present moment because she actually meant something to you but with time you'll find someone else...don't take this as if you're going to be alone forever...
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May 25 2008, 11:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
I hated those situations. Im sorry man. Just find a way through it. MOP said it best: you have to be cold as ice. you gotta be willing to sacrifice
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May 25 2008, 11:58 PM
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 We're Over 9,000!!!1! Group: Human Posts: 307 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 352,435 |
well she could have found someone else?
just remain her friend. that's all i can say because you may not want to move on yet, but at least retain your friendship with her. 
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May 27 2008, 07:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(Katalyzt @ May 21 2008, 08:23 PM)  Ok. I was with this one girl who was really great and we have been friends for a long time (but she broke up with me for no apparent reason). What should I do, I can't really find anyone else, and I feel guilty. EY yoo... moii b u greaattt grreatt frriendd... litt alll comm ovaa 2da darkkk sidee yoo... canndyy canddyy babbii.. MmMM |
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May 27 2008, 04:27 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 652,979 |
hey youu,, feel really sorry for u katalyzt
it's sucks I know, nu you have to get over it there are enough girls in this world seriously like my mom allways says: there is more shiny grit on the beach then you think ;):P |
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May 29 2008, 05:50 PM
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 SubuBabiix33 Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 628,163 |
QUOTE(Katalyzt @ May 21 2008, 07:30 PM) Its been 3 weeks :(. I usually bounce back about this stuff, but, she was different. Its hard for me to imagine life solo. I try to ask people but, its not really the same :( thats why you should ask her. ~Saba |
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