Oral Sex? Is it wrong for me to not give head? |
 Apr 15 2008, 09:59 PM
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In my personal opinion, I really don't want to give head/oral sex to ANY guy. I think it's disgusting but no offense to other girls who do it. I just don't like, I don't want to do it, and i've been with my boyfriend for 10 months already and we've talked about this. He said he understands me and that he respects me far too much to ever let me do that. But some people and "friends" pressure me to do it. And just the other day this guy told me "All girls will blow a guy. You'll do it someday." It made me feel really uncomfortable and the thought of myself ever doing it is even more uncomfortable. I don't know what to do. I just don't like and I also want to know if there's older girls out there from ages 19 and up to tell me if they don't like it either. I need to know if i'm alone on this.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:03 AM
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I model for Preen Magazine. Unfortunately, they haven't put in my pictures yet, so you won't see me on there anytime soon.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:05 AM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 12:59 AM)  I just saw Samantha's picture and she is pretty cute, but I won't go any further, since I just notice she's only 14.  Oh yeah? Where do you model at? Be completely honest. I don't mind, i've had a 26 year old hit on me. Can't get any worst than that. |
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Apr 16 2008, 01:28 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
What do you mean when you say be completely honest.
I'm 19 btw.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:39 AM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 01:28 AM) What do you mean when you say be completely honest. I'm 19 btw.Are you sure i'm just cute? And I know, but i'm not trying to get anyone on here to hook up with me so I don't really care I just want people's honest opinions on me and the way I look. =/ I think i'm flat out FUGLY. |
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Apr 16 2008, 01:39 AM
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It is a mandatory requirement that my girl stick my dick in her mouth or else she isn't worthy of my presence. She is deemed unfuckwithable and thus she doesn't deserve to breathe the same air I breathe within a certain radius. *Dusts off prada shoes*
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Apr 16 2008, 01:42 AM
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QUOTE(ImDaBestIDidIt @ Apr 16 2008, 01:39 AM) It is a mandatory requirement that my girl stick my dick in her mouth or else she isn't worthy of my presence. She is deemed unfuckwithable and thus she doesn't deserve to breathe the same air I breathe within a certain radius. *Dusts off prada shoes* OMG you have prada shoes?! Sweet!  |
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Apr 16 2008, 01:43 AM
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QUOTE(tilaaaaa @ Apr 16 2008, 01:42 AM) OMG you have prada shoes?! Sweet! Yeah, I got them for cheap too. |
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Apr 16 2008, 01:51 AM
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QUOTE(SAMANTHAfamous @ Apr 15 2008, 11:39 PM) Are you sure i'm just cute? And I know, but i'm not trying to get anyone on here to hook up with me so I don't really care I just want people's honest opinions on me and the way I look. =/ I think i'm flat out FUGLY. Yeah, you're cute, but that's all I can say, since your pic is hard to determine, since it's a myspace angled pic so hard to tell. Honest opinion from the pic I see, is that you got a good set of racks there.  I need to see another pic to make further comments.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:53 AM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 01:51 AM) Yeah, you're cute, but that's all I can say, since your pic is hard to determine, since it's a myspace angled pic so hard to tell. Honest opinion from the pic I see, is that you got a good set of racks there. I need to see another pic to make further comments. Haha. Well thanks. 
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Apr 16 2008, 01:53 AM
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QUOTE(ImDaBestIDidIt @ Apr 16 2008, 01:43 AM) Yeah, I got them for cheap too. Hook me up with some.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:54 AM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 15 2008, 11:51 PM) Yeah, you're cute, but that's all I can say, since your pic is hard to determine, since it's a myspace angled pic so hard to tell. Honest opinion from the pic I see, is that you got a good set of racks there. I need to see another pic to make further comments. Pedophile!!!! hahah jk tung Do you not need to give oral sex if you don't want to. Forget the others, they're stupid. Samantha, from that picture, i think you look pretty. |
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Apr 16 2008, 01:57 AM
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QUOTE(Castaway @ Apr 16 2008, 01:54 AM) Pedophile!!!! hahah jk tung Do you not need to give oral sex if you don't want to. Forget the others, they're stupid. Samantha, from that picture, i think you look pretty. Thank you for both of your opinions.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:59 AM
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Damn see Samantha. Because you wanted my honest opinion, when I said I won't say any further, now Castaway is saying I'm a pedo rofl.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:59 AM
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QUOTE(tilaaaaa @ Apr 16 2008, 02:53 AM) Hook me up with some. LOL but whats in this for me? 
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Apr 16 2008, 02:00 AM
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QUOTE(ImDaBestIDidIt @ Apr 15 2008, 11:59 PM) LOL but whats in this for me? Maybe fellatio? |
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Apr 16 2008, 02:05 AM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 03:00 AM) Maybe fellatio? 
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Apr 16 2008, 08:29 AM
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You're not alone - there are a lot of girls that draw the line at oral sex. Some girls think it's demeaning, others simply don't like any aspect of it - the great thing is that you have a choice so no worries. Oral sex is something very intimate and you may find your opinion changes as you begin to explore your sexuality.
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Apr 16 2008, 10:04 AM
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I also agree that its your ultimate decision to make. As for the peer pressure, it will always be there. Just try to let it not get to you. If your friends know your viewpoint on the situation of not wanting to blow a guy for shits and giggles, then they should be friends and not push it on to you. Like S Majere said, a lot of girls find oral sex demeaning. You aren't alone. I respect you for your decision, especially at such a young age.
And here I am being cliche and following the crowd -- you're very pretty ^^ |
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Apr 16 2008, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(Joss-eh-lime @ Apr 15 2008, 10:37 PM) don't let your friends pressure you. make a choice and stick with it, all the way. I like this answer too.  Few little words make a big difference. |
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Apr 16 2008, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 03:00 AM) Maybe fellatio? http://video.aol.com/video-detail/colonel-...home/1006723244 "Colonel Angus, the pleasure is all mine." |
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Apr 16 2008, 10:06 PM
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FU_CKINGSKANKWHORESLUT HOW DARE YOU NOT BLOW HIM!
But seriously though, I don't think they'll say anything like that if you don't. |
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Apr 16 2008, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Apr 16 2008, 10:06 PM) FU_CKINGSKANKWHORESLUT HOW DARE YOU NOT BLOW HIM! But seriously though, I don't think they'll say anything like that if you don't. Some guys will...but not mine. He insisted I not do it. |
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Apr 16 2008, 10:14 PM
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Requesting pix of Samantha.
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Apr 16 2008, 10:16 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 10:14 PM) Requesting pix of Samantha. You want pics of me? |
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Apr 16 2008, 10:18 PM
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that's what I requested right?
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