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 Apr 10 2008, 12:43 AM
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How do you make yourself not get back with your bf/gf after you two break up? I always fail, miserably.
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Apr 15 2008, 08:22 PM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 15 2008, 05:11 PM)  ^ yeah, cuz saying that to someone who's just broken up with their boyfriend of almost 3 years totally helps. |
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Apr 15 2008, 10:20 PM
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Ok whatever.. That's just how I feel about men. I mean you'll get over it eventually. You just have to go out there again and find someone else.
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Apr 15 2008, 10:24 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well, if you don't have anything helpful to say, might as well not say anything at all.
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Apr 15 2008, 11:04 PM
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I have been keeping myself really busy the last few days. Saturday, I was at my cousin's bridal shower all day; Sunday, I was with Christina most of the day; Monday, I was in Los Angeles all day. Today, I didn't go to school, so all I could do was think of him (I texted him by like 8:30 in the morning).
Don't worry, I wasn't begging for him back. I just wanted to see what was up. I can understand why I am being told to forget about him already and not give him the time or day (I'm telling myself the same thing). However, it's pretty hard because, like Yanlin mentioned, I've been with him for three years. I can't stop loving him over night, or be happy with cutting him out of my life completely. Anyway, at this point, we're going to remain friends. This is good for me because there will be no more fighting like there was when we were together, and I wont be sad because I haven't talked to him. I think I can slowly move on from there. |
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Apr 15 2008, 11:05 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Kill em. Simple enough.
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Apr 15 2008, 11:05 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Kill em. Simple enough.
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Apr 15 2008, 11:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
No D:
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Apr 15 2008, 11:07 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
or have someone else do it for you.
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Apr 15 2008, 11:24 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Yeah, see. Just keep yourself occupy with other things. Be active, so you don't think about him too much.
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Apr 16 2008, 09:54 AM
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you should be strong *n.n* and not to be weak even though its hard for you to not get back with him... has had happen to me... i gone through alot of drama shiit.... lol yeah not good but haha im past all that and living on a fun happy life (":
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Apr 16 2008, 11:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
Am I stupid for still wanting to get back with him?
I need to re-read this topic again... and again... and again. |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:41 AM
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Elbaaaa, don't do it!
 You can hold back, I know you can! Remember, you deserve so much better! Just look at everything he's already put you through. You KNOW you can do better.
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Apr 16 2008, 01:00 PM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 15 2008, 11:24 PM) well, if you don't have anything helpful to say, might as well not say anything at all. Like you are... |
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Apr 16 2008, 03:31 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
oh yeah. because I'm calling someone who's just broken up with her boyfriend "pathetic" for missing him. So I might not be giving her advice in every single thing I post in this thread for getting over him, because many people have done so already, but at least I'm supporting her.
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Apr 16 2008, 04:31 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
elba, you're being so strong!
i'm really happy that you haven't asked him for another try at the relationship. if you have that urge again-like most people have already said, just think about all the bad things he's done to you in the last few years and think if it's truly worth it for you to go through that again. and it's really great that you're occupying yourself with fun things, and not making yourself miserable over this :) |
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Apr 16 2008, 04:34 PM
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Tis might sound really f**king retarded but after I broke it off with my ex I signed up for some yoga classes and It kept my mind off things and helped me relaxand sure enough I found someone that i had 10 times more fun with and much more in common.
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