Guys, I know you've probably heard this story over and over from many people but please bear with me. I've like this girl since early September. I've kept on liking her even if i was in a relationship between September and a few weeks ago. I just thought it would go away but it didn't. Just a few weeks ago also I found out that this guy was falling for the girl I liked and they made out this past week. But she trying to stop liking the guy. Me and her are really good friends but i don't know. I'm tired of trying and getting nowhere. Maybe I should just man up and tell her? I don't knowwww. --"
Advice pleasee?

Just man up and tell her how you feel, and tell her that whatever she believes is best for each other's relationship, you'll respect it. And you must respect it, if she turns you down.

Just explain how you truly feel, after you finish explaining to her... ask her to be yours. Trust me... it might just sound like poetry to her ears.

Grab your balls and go tell her how you feel. Sitting around whining about how you like her isn't going to get you no where. You're not trying hard enough the way I see it. If you like her so much and you don't want her to get out of your grasp then you better hurry up.

Thanks. Just had some rough times in the past with these situations. I think I'm just going to grow balls like you said and tell her.

yeah, you should man up and tell her. even if you've had bad experience in these situations. its called taking chances, sometimes there'll be bad results, sometimes good. you never know; but if you never do it, you'll never know what could have happened. whether good or bad.

Yea you should go along with what everyone else is saying and tell her; it'll be weight lifted off your shoulders once it's out & then you'd know what can happen, if anything after that

we learn from our failures... that's the greatness of knowledge. Must experience it to acknowledge it.

Just step it up, talk to her maybe somewhere where you two can be alone, or something.. tell her how you feel. But do it in a nice way, write a poem expressing your feelings, wrap it in a ribbon and tie it in a bow so you undoes the bow and opens the letter, sometimes its easier writing things down right? then let her read it in front of you or by herself and then talk about it.

or just be mad straight and tell her all your feelings to her face. goodluck