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 Apr 8 2008, 10:07 AM
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To make a long story short, my boyfriend lied to me. About talking to his ex-girlfriend. He had said that he was over her, and wasn't talking to her anymore, but just last night he called me to tell me he had lied to me, and he was crying because she wasn't talking to him anymore. That, of course, broke a lot of trust and respect I had for him. He's still in love with her. I can't make him change how he feels, but when he said, "I know" to when I asked that, it completely bothered me. He said he still has feelings for me, and doesn't want to lose me, but he didn't want to lie to me anymore. But despite saying that, that still doesn't change the fact that he loves her, or that he keeps talking to her. How is he going to get over her if he keeps talking to her? I'm not sure whether I should stay with him anymore, because this causes a lot of trust issues. And he did it once... who's to say that he won't do it again?
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Apr 9 2008, 08:27 PM
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No. If I was "proud", the "proud" thing to do would be to flaunt it. I stated it once. Before you assume I'm some cold hearted bitch, get to know me first.
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Apr 9 2008, 08:29 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(Elba @ Apr 8 2008, 11:41 PM)  I would still have feelings for Dani, too.  QUOTE(xTINAA @ Apr 8 2008, 11:42 PM) ^Me too! Me too. I'm a bit in shock about all this, to be honest so I'm walking away from this thread RIGHT NOW. |
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Apr 9 2008, 08:35 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
when he says he wont do it again, i dont think you can trust him. but its up to you whether you let him have your trust back right away, or if you make him earn it back.
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Apr 9 2008, 08:35 PM
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QUOTE(Reconditee @ Apr 9 2008, 06:27 PM) No. If I was "proud", the "proud" thing to do would be to flaunt it. I stated it once. Before you assume I'm some cold hearted bitch, get to know me first. Lol, there was no need to get all defensive. I don't think I want to get to know you. I am just saying, if I were partly the reason for some guy leaving his gf for me, I don't think I would state it--unless of course I was proud of it. But that's just me. Jose is going to just screw you over like he did to the rest. |
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Apr 9 2008, 08:42 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Apr 9 2008, 06:35 PM) Lol, there was no need to get all defensive. Sorry, had a long day at school. :] QUOTE(Elba @ Apr 9 2008, 06:35 PM) Jose is going to just screw you over like he did to the rest. I bet. |
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Apr 9 2008, 08:45 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Do you and Jose see everyday IRL? It might be different this time than with his other ex's though since they were mostly base online.
I have faith in my boi Jose. Although tell him to run once in a while. Dude got freakin fat man. |
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Apr 9 2008, 08:46 PM
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LMAO.
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Apr 9 2008, 08:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 9 2008, 06:45 PM) Do you and Jose see everyday IRL? It might be different this time than with his other ex's though since they were mostly base online. I have faith in my boi Jose. Although tell him to run once in a while. Dude got freakin fat man. Rofl. We see each other 3/7 days a week. He sleeps over at my house on weekends. |
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Apr 9 2008, 10:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,095 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 171,080 |
QUOTE(Reconditee @ Apr 9 2008, 08:49 PM) Rofl. We see each other 3/7 days a week. He sleeps over at my house on weekends. No way, Jose. |
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Apr 9 2008, 10:47 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Spencer @ Apr 10 2008, 11:46 AM) No way, Jose. |
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Apr 9 2008, 10:49 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Yanlin.
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Apr 9 2008, 10:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,095 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 171,080 |
Why are you laughing at Yanlin?
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Apr 9 2008, 10:51 PM
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Spencer
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Apr 9 2008, 10:51 PM
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Tung
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Apr 9 2008, 10:53 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
EPIC FAIL TO THE BOTH OF YOU.
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Apr 9 2008, 10:54 PM
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No, I said what you quoted. That's not failing.
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Apr 9 2008, 10:59 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
So...does jose have a requirement that his girlfriends be part of cb?
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Apr 9 2008, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 9 2008, 08:59 PM) So...does jose have a requirement that his girlfriends be part of cb? PM me Yanlin. |
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Apr 9 2008, 11:06 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 9 2008, 09:00 PM) PM me Yanlin. Do you know what I know? Cause I know something too. Well what can you do? I remember when Jose sang to me on the phone back 3-4 years ago. And I'd have to say that Dani has an AMAZING voice. Her voice would probably sway me too.  Oh yea? I sleep over at my boyfriend's house 6/7 days a week. </end gloat> |
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Apr 9 2008, 11:08 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Apr 9 2008, 09:06 PM) Do you know what I know? Cause I know something too. PM me as well. |
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Apr 9 2008, 11:08 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
you should sleep over at my place instead.
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Apr 9 2008, 11:23 PM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 9 2008, 09:08 PM) you should sleep over at my place instead. Yea so I heard you got a single for next year, huh? The bed would be cozy enough just for me and you 
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Apr 9 2008, 11:24 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
of course. just enough space.
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Apr 10 2008, 06:34 AM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 9 2008, 09:24 PM) of course. just enough space. Oh, how romantic.  Haha are there interesting things to do where you are? :D If so, hey I might visit! I'm serious!
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Apr 10 2008, 09:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
Tung asked a question, I answered it. That isn't flaunting. He asked if I saw Jose IRL everyday. That's a no. And then I stated how many days I see him a week. If you'd rather me not answer anymore of Tung's questions, by all means I won't. Sorry Tung. :(
Honestly, why would I be proud of 3 days a week. That's nothing. When I made this topic, I was anonymous. Danielle wouldn't have known it was me unless she put two and two together. |
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