Cry if I died?, Our conversation... |
 May 29 2004, 12:03 AM
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 durian  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860  |
I often feel like my boyfriend, Tony, is slipping away. He doesn't seem to be liking any other girl, but I feel like all he cares about are cars. That he doesn't have time to think about me... Yesterday, i was talking to him at lunch time..
It goes something like this... QUOTE Christina: If I died, would you cry? Tony: No Christina: Really? Not even a tear? Tony: I'll be sad, but probably not cry. I'm not that kind of guy. I wouldn't mourn. I'd be really sad though. Christina: Really? I see... You don't love me enough to cry, huh? Tony: I wouldn't cry if my parents died. I'd be sad but that's about it. I wouldn't feel like crying. Christina: Meaning you dn't love me enough to cry. Tony: ... Would you cry for me? Christina: Of course I would. I'd even cry if we broke up. You know I would. I'd cry day and night because I'd miss you too much. Tony: Aww... I love you. Christina: ... But... what about if you crashed your car? Tony: Hell yea I'd cry! I'd mourn my smashed car too. Christina: I knew cars would always be first place... Tony: ... Christina: *teardrop* You once did cry for me... Not anymore.. *teardrop* Tony: aww... Today... (ewnt SOMETHING like this) QUOTE Christina: Really, what we talked about yesterday, you'd never cry for me? Tony: Well okay, maybe a little but I wouldn't really mourn. Or maybe I'd mourn a little but not cry. Christina: Oh okay... I see... And yet you'd cry so much and mourn for your car... Tony: ... Christina: ... I Love You. *hug* Tony: I love you more so there. Christina: Morest and mostest.  I don't know what's going on... =( What does it mean? I really do care alot about him, I do love him (yews I do =P). I don't know what to think about anymore... |
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Apr 9 2008, 01:41 PM
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How are you gonna ask, "you don't love me enough to cry about my death"? You do realize there's people out there that actually praise someone's death because they've entered a new realm, they've left the physical plain and entered a spiritual one. You shouldn't be upset because he told you he doesn't cry over death.
Last person I cried for when they died was my cousin, I've lost a few friends and family members after him but I didn't cry for them, doesn't mean I'm cold hearted, just means I accept death as part of life. I don't let death bother me nor should it bother anyone else. We're not immortal. |
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Apr 9 2008, 02:25 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 9 2008, 09:00 PM)  i'll cry if you die christina |
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Apr 9 2008, 06:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Christina, do you want this closed? People are still replying to it even though it's so old. You and Tony have been together for five years now, anyway. xD
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Apr 9 2008, 06:25 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
^ quit being a party pooper.
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Apr 9 2008, 07:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
Seriously... mods need to close the old threads. This is a waste of our time. I've already posted in like 6 old ass threads for nothing, EFFING NOTHIN!!!
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Apr 9 2008, 07:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Not our fault if you don't look at the date when the topic was originally posted.
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Apr 9 2008, 08:39 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
he is just to prideful to say that he really would cry.
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Apr 9 2008, 11:12 PM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 9 2008, 11:41 AM) How are you gonna ask, "you don't love me enough to cry about my death"? You do realize there's people out there that actually praise someone's death because they've entered a new realm, they've left the physical plain and entered a spiritual one. You shouldn't be upset because he told you he doesn't cry over death. Last person I cried for when they died was my cousin, I've lost a few friends and family members after him but I didn't cry for them, doesn't mean I'm cold hearted, just means I accept death as part of life. I don't let death bother me nor should it bother anyone else. We're not immortal. You do realize that I posted this shit almost 4 years ago, right? I was naive though, I admit. Well my boyfriend has changed his mind anyway, as I've bought this up before. He's broken down his emotional barrier shortly after this thread was made anyway, so we're cool. I totally understand that we're not immortal, but I'd like to know that at least he'd be sad that I'm gone. Are you saying that if I was hit by a car and died, that he should be happy? There's different kinds of deaths, but they all lead to the same outcome. Plus, I'm not into that spiritual stuff, so I'd rather not get into that. I still totally understand where your coming from, but my values are different from yours. Anyways, wtf Tung stop bumping my topics, lol. And at least I won't pretend to tell people that I died just for people to cry for me, or tell people that my sister died.  But that's sweet of you two, JC and Yanlin, if you guys really mean that. 
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Apr 9 2008, 11:23 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
I DOOOOOOOO.
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Apr 10 2008, 11:39 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
Close old threads... or at least ask for the thread to be closed -.-
www.bodybuilding.com/forum moderators.. and admins.. go here ^ and learn how to be real mods. 
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Apr 10 2008, 11:43 AM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
maybe you should go there and stay there with the real mods, if cb isn't good enough for you
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Apr 10 2008, 11:57 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 10 2008, 12:43 PM) maybe you should go there and stay there with the real mods, if cb isn't good enough for you no wai... I like my fun here. I only use that forum board to help others and receive help on dietary supplements and new work out regime. |
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Apr 10 2008, 12:05 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
He was obviously joking about the car thing. I think he really loves you but hes shy about it.
As a guy I can tell you that %90 of guys will not admit that they would cry over somebody. |
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Apr 10 2008, 02:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Closed because it's so dated.
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