Honestly, the people who believe in not having sex before marriage is setting themselves for a huge risk. Why you ask? You're about to marry someone you've never had sex with, and after you're married, they are going to be your sex partner for the rest of your life.

People who say sex isn't a big deal and that important in a healthy relationship are kidding themselves. There are those who have sexual chemistry, and some who just have general personality chemistry. Also, of course you can have both. What I'm saying is that, why set yourself up for a risk and marry someone you haven't sexually experienced yet? You two could be have the best relationship and get married. However, what happens after you guys get married, and your partner totally sucks at sex? You're screwed, and stuck with that person for the rest of your life, until maybe you want a divorce. But why go through all that, and deal with the financial burden of one?

Also, it's also a good thing, to live with someone you're about to marry. Again, you're going to be with your spouse for quite some time under the same roof after you're married. I've seen too many times couples who never lived with one another, get married, and move in together for the first time. They have so much problems with living with one another.

So I say, f**k the no sex before marriage rule. Have all the sex you can get in the relationship before getting married, and know what you are getting yourself into.


edit: oops posted in wrong forums. mod move to relationship plox.

back on topic please, everyone.

Tama not to go against you and your morals because I agree you have made good points. But isn't one of the BIGGEST sins in Islam JUDGING others?

damn.

But different people find different things wrong. If one person decides that someone else is doing something wrong. That's basically judging. No matter what it is.

Not saying you're a bad person though. I mean even I at this moment am judging by saying you're judging.

Take it to PM. And quote what I judged.

No no no, I'm not starting an argument lol. I'm just putting up what I think that's all.

Mind Closed.

-.- I'm not trying to start an argument, I'm askin you where did I judge...

I believe if you see someone stealing, you can simply call them a thief. That's judging right? Right... but because it's obvious they're stealing it's not wrong to judge them as a thief.

Anyways, I'll leave the thread in peace.

What if they're stealing for the good?

On a lighter note: Sex is good. I wish you all best of luck in all of your sexual adventures.

^^
Good, now seriously lets stay on topic, this is getting ridiculous.



Sooo, back to topic -- I think its funny how America is so 'sex-crazed' apparently but at the same time so sexually repressed compared to some places in Europe and whatnot hm?

but like I said earlier, to each his own as long as you don't shove it down ones throat. Seriously.

Can you please quote the part where I started to shove my opinion down anyone's throat in this thread? NO WHERE did I mention this is how we as humans HAVE to live. I simply implied what the point of sex was in the first place. Nothin more nothing less... I didn't judge anyone for different way of life nor did I tell them that I'm better than them because of their choices with sex.


So quote me. Obviously sulfur failed at quoting me on my so called "judging", poor kid doesn't even know what judging is.

i dont think she was necessarily even talking to you specifically. slow your roll and stop instigating shit.

I'm quoting you now.

Instead of singling someone out because you don't take the time to read the thread, why don't you take a step back and realize how narcissistic you are on the forum. Just because you're in a thread, and there's a dispute, doesn't mean it's directed toward you. Get the f**k outta here with that bullshit.

And with all the assumptions after my first post in this thread by Just Dream, superstitious, and tungmyBANANA, you're gonna tell me that someone's not gonna agree with them (most likey dislike me) and add with no names an agreement with the others by mentioning, "shoving opinions down others throats?... I can tell what they're implying... you can take a look at the rest of the thread and you'll see no one's shoving anything down anyone's throat. Until the moronic assumptions began.

Right...

She was responding to the opening post. This board and the posts made on it do not revolve around you. Steph rarely gets involved with forum drama.

Actually she's taking my opinion of America's "sex craze" and agreeing with superstitious' "sex repression" compared to Europe... nothin to do with the first post of the thread actually.

Anyways I'm outs.

Just because she's agreeing with what other people have said does not mean that she is in any way responding to anything you've said.

Oh for christs stake Tama whatever. Trish makes a good point, I don't hate the drama here but I don't feel the need to get involved. Honest to god, why do you think it all revolves around you? You really aren't that important, especially not to me. I was trying to get back on topic and just stating a fact I noticed about America and Europe. Notice I said America is BOTH sex-crazed and repressed somehow? Although people, NOT JUST YOU, view America as more sex-crazed than some places in Europe AND other parts of the world.


And actually dude...the 'shove it down ones throat' was a general statement and I meant more so in a way - as long as no one tries to shove their opinion down ANYONE's, NOT JUST YOU.


Jeezuz. Just calm the eff down, and lets all get over this cause this is getting really ridiculous.

K

i agree.
just use a condom.

your sig is too big.

LMAO O RLY?

NO WAIIIIII. Wouldn't that be premarital sex? Make sure you have babies, okay?