i last had sex sometime between december 3rd and the 14th. my period usually comes twords the end of the month. in december i didnt get my period. and now in january i didnt get it. its not un common for me to skip a month or 2 cause since i've started my period ive never had my period for more then 4 months in a row. but ever since the end of december till now i've been so tired, almost always nausious, i've been gettin actional stomach pains and i'm pee'ing more frequently. could i be pregnant? i'm almost 20 and my bf is 20 and i'm no where near wanting kids because i dont have the money or know where im going with my life. the people at work said it could be stress cause me and my bf have been fighting and because ive been haven problems at work.i just don't feel right. i havent taken a prego test yet because i'm so scared. i looked up stuff online and asked people and it could be a number of things. can someone that had a baby help? i need some good advice. i'm seriously crying over here.

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seriously, just take a pregnancy test and get it over with it.

i wrote that...and i do love him. he already said "no matter what i'm here for you." i'm still scared. i probly should get a test. i'l have him buy it. i'm chicken sh*t.

i'm well aware you wrote that.


yeah just take the test, i don't get why you'd wanna sit around and worry about it when you could just find out.

You're 20-years-old. I thought you'd have enough common sense to go out and buy a damned at-home pregnancy test.

go to the docs and get tested there. itll be easier

its one thing to know thats the only reason but i have ALOT of health issues that could be causen this. and like i said i'm scared. it didnt cross my mind that i may be pregnant till about a week ago. i was waiting to see if i got my period before i jumped the gun.

To buy an EPT? They're like, what, 15 dollars? All you do is piss on it, too. To wait it out while you're worried is a stupid idea.

Calm the f**k down.
Go take a pregnancy test. Buy more than one. If it comes back negative do a little jig and call your gynecologists tomorrow.
If it comes back positive cry a bunch and call a prenatal specialist in your area.

Problem solved.

Or you could wait until you start to show.









Just kidding.
Take a pregnancy test. The sooner you do it, the more time you have to make decisions.

yeah...ill have too.

Are you really my age?

^^ S-mag i think shes much younger but thats just my opinion.

take the test.... it will be easyer.....and tell us what it says
good luck

yes, i'm going to be 20 on the 24th... and i plan on getting a test asap

Oh man.

you're pregnant

Isn't this the same chick who was acting like her pussy was f**king good enough to be on display at the Smithsonian? Seriously get the test and good luck with it. Just make sure that whatever the outcome, you stay calm and plan your next steps accordingly.

you sound like you've been through this before...

I have female friends who have been through the whole thing. For some reason all of the girls I know have had the pregnancy scare at 19. I have always been the shoulder to cry on, so I know how to deal with these situations. She definitely has to have a clear head, because stressing will only make matters worst.

You shouldn't avoid taking a pregnancy test just because you're afraid of the outcome. It's better to know and then prepare if you are pregnant. Don't wait till you start to show or something.