what does it mean when a guy completely ignores you after you have sent him a message and he has replied? he looks at you when you look away and you try to make eye contct but he doesnt look your way even though he knows your looking?
i know this is a stupid question and i probably know the answer myself. i just want to know what others think.

that paragraph doesnt make sense. can you retype it?

basically theres this guy and i posted a message on his bebo and he replied. now he wont look at me the way he use to. he looks when im not looking. when i try to make eye contact he wont look at me even though he knows im looking. when i get out of the bus he looks at me then out of the window?

maybe he's just too shy to approach you...

if you're shy too, then why don't you try talking to him more online?

i have i asked him if he goes on the bus with his brother and he replied saying he does. i then asked how he was to keep the converstaion going. it had to be suttle. im waiting for his reply. if he replies do you think i should ask if i can add him? mabey it will make me more confiedent when i actually get round to talking to him because i will know that i have to because he is on my contact list.

add him and seee what happens. just start with small talk, and tehn ecventually youll get thre.

i had that problem once. we ended up talking everyday allllll day online and then at school, we wouldnt realy talk to each lol it was funny, but then one day i had the balls to sit by him adn start a random convo. then he asked if i wanned to do the project with him and that was the als time we talked .. after we finished the project, cuz he realized that he was actaully falling for me and he didnt want a gf or anything. i mean it sucked but at the same time knowin that he liked me back was good enough.

he doesnt go to my school btw.

what did you say in the message? // if i may ask...

i asked if he takes the bus with his brother
he said "ye i take the his with my brother"
then i asked how he was...
and im waiting for a reply

hm. wait. so how do you know him? im confused on how you know eachother.

well i dont know him know him. i know him as in ive seen him on the bus with his brother for over a year.

sometimes "how are you?" can be too broad of a question, and the other person might find it dull and not want to answer.

i'm not saying this is what he was thinking, but it's something to consider. try bringing a little humor to that same question or ask something else.

and you should just add him. i don't think you have to ask.

lol wait how is "how are you?" a broad question? hes not exactly going to tell me his life story lol. it was the only thing i could think of that was suttle.i thought if i asked him how he was he would reply and ask me if i was ok so its not me just asking questions, and so the conversation keeps going. and how do u put humour into questions like that?
he should reply since he has replied to my first comment. if he doesnt it just proves hes rude. but i doubt he will just ignore that comment.

Wait, sorry. Was the message through bebo? If it was, he probably just doesn`t know you, so he`ll wonder why the hell you`re asking him that.

As for the eye contact thing, that`s kind of weird.

Have you talked at all?

This is what I wake up to? Just be upfront with him and find out what the deal is. It is much better to find out then to leave things unclear.

i say you should sit next to him on the bus, everyday for a week so that he becomes more comfortable around you, but try not to talk to him to much, or you'll scare him off.
Slow and Steady

HE REPLIED.HE KNOWS WHO I AM. HE KNOWS I GO ON THE BUS!

i would do that its just well, the first time i started taking the bus i stoood on the bottom deck with my friend. i never actually sat next to him, he wouldnt want to sit next to me anyway, lol. Then after a few times me and my friend went upstairs to sit. So it'll just look strange if i start suddenly sitting on the bottom deck again after all this time. He's not stupid he will know what i am trying to do. He will freek out.

or maybe he's not interested. dood. im-ing goes nowhere. either stop being such a coward and approach the kid or find another guy.