When people stare...Do you care?, hmmm... |
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When people stare...Do you care?, hmmm... |
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Just wondering...because right now as I'm typing these girls beside me are laughing and staring. Hopefully I have nothing sticking out. Yeah I'm paranoid.
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#2
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i dont get a lot of stares, and if so, theyre from my friends who would gladly tell me if there's something wrong. otherwise, if i look in the mirror and see something off, then i start to wonder if anyone else saw.
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#3
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That's really immature. When people stare or laugh, and make it so clear, I just think that they have really low self-esteem. They want others to feel insecure just so they can feel bigger. They want the feeling that they can control others. Okay, I might have a booger sticking out of my nose or something. But heck, you wasting your
I'm not going to lie. I used to be one of those people but now, I know what it feels like to be a victim. |
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#4
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I don't care that they are laughing because they are just not good looking people lol. If they were I would be insecure but they are laughing for no good reason. I really think that people should get a life other than to laugh at a random person.
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#5
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people who laugh and stare just assume you're not gonna bring it up. if you actually ask them wtf they're mindlessly giggling about they'll most likely be surprised. unless they wanted you to confront them... that's when you can just punch the bitches.
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#6
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It depends. I get a lot of stares due to my big friends and my crazy colored hair. If they just stare, that's understandable. If they stare and mean mug or break their neck trying to look at me then I will ask if there is a problem.
It doesn't make me self conscience it makes me angry that some people can's accept other peoples differences. |
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#7
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![]() Addict ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 ![]() |
I'm gorgeous, people stare.
Whoops, need to take my anti-ego pills. One second. ... People stare just to make themselves feel more in control of a situation. Or because they've just gone to the zone-out zone. Less paranoia, more pride! |
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#8
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It depends. I get a lot of stares due to my big friends and my crazy colored hair. If they just stare, that's understandable. If they stare and mean mug or break their neck trying to look at me then I will ask if there is a problem. It doesn't make me self conscience it makes me angry that some people can's accept other peoples differences. yeah, but with your hair, i'd have to stare a lot more to absorb your weirdness. |
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#9
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 ![]() |
yeah, but with your hair, i'd have to stare a lot more to absorb your weirdness. How does that make me weird? I love everything Cotton Candy, and I wanted my hair that color too. I really don't see how that is so strange. A LOT of other people do it. I think it is beautiful. |
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#10
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I get a little paranoid when people stare at me when I know there's nothing wrong with my appearance that day, then whisper and/or laugh to each other. :/ I usually just brush it off and try not to care. I don't know them, so their opinion doesn't matter to me.
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#11
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Well, I do care I guess.
I'm usually curious about WHAT they're staring it x_o; And, I usually stare back at them in a completely demented way. Oobeh dementedly. ![]() |
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#12
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![]() we jerkin' ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 ![]() |
who doesnt care? its how much...
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#13
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![]() *aSh* =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 ![]() |
oh yeah. it makes me very nervous! especially when you walk past some people and all of a sudden they bust out laughing. =\
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#14
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
I love it when people stare. I am always looking fly, so I love the stares. If I am that important to warrant a stare, then I must be doing something right.
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#15
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t-t-t-toyaaa ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 ![]() |
![]() um Sometimes I get paranoid haha |
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#16
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![]() ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 ![]() |
I love it when people stare at me. Maybe I'm arrogant and conceited, but the fact that people stare at me, makes me feel important, and if they are jealous of me and laugh, so be it. However, most likely, they are staring because they think I'm cute.
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#17
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
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#18
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I guess it depends on the kind of stare. If it's old man staring at me, I get
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#19
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![]() <33 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 ![]() |
I pretty much do care if people stare actually.
![]() It's a really uncomfortable feeling and just like you I'm a little paranoid myself. I try to ignore it sometimes. |
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#20
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![]() cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 ![]() |
i hate it when people stare at me. especially old people. but like i dont get too mad cause i stare also when i check people out. hahaha
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#21
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Yeah it bothers me. That`s one of my biggest pet peeves.
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#22
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![]() cake or DEATH ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 ![]() |
Honestly, it does make me feel uncomfortable. But at the same time... they probably wish they had my hair or something.
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#23
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Staring in what matter? Like, a hot guy checking me out? Well then that's good.
But no, if they're glaring, then I glare back. It's only a matter of balance. |
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#24
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![]() Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 ![]() |
I don't really like it. It really makes me uncomfortable.
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#25
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![]() This bag is not a toy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 ![]() |
Haha, it's REALLY awkward but I always end up doing something stupid like staring back, smiling, waving, or any combination of the three. Most often I'll keep looking back up, meet eyes with them, then quickly look back down.
Eventually I get up and walk away and trip and fall or something equally embarrassing because I'm all nervous by the knowledge that someone is watching me. ..it's not always that creepy though, sometimes it's just a blanked out stare that just lasts for a couple of seconds. By the time I notice they're staring at me, their face suddenly wakes up and they snap back into whatever they were doing. No big deal. xD |
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