sweet sixteen and never been kissed..., anyone? |
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 Jan 21 2008, 12:39 AM
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 dream*  Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,061  |
so i'm 16 (almost 17!) and still no boyfriend, no kiss, no nothing. a lot of my friends have bfs now and i kind of feel out of the loop... at the same time, lots of my friends are in the same boat as me and we're not all freaks (i don't think...
 ) is it normal that i haven't gotten my first kiss yet? am i doomed to be an old spinster with 27 cats? and why do i always fall for the guys who are out of reach!? |
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Jan 21 2008, 01:31 AM
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 hello Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,878 |
well if it's unnormal than i'm unnormal too. i'm 17 and i just got my first kiss a couple months ago. whatever just wait for the right moment ya know.
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Jan 21 2008, 01:33 AM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
Don't you have better things to worry about? Honestly.
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Jan 21 2008, 01:35 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
I can't help but notice your signature is the exact same one Amber uses. I'm suspicious. Where's Jeanna when you need her LMAO.
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Jan 21 2008, 02:17 AM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
um, would you rather have some sleezeball hobo take your first kiss or someone awesome?
I mean when it comes down to it I rather wait for someone i want to kiss. Which i did XD |
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Jan 21 2008, 07:29 AM
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 Number 1 Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 379,503 |
I was 16 when I had my first full on kiss. I also gave him head and then we had sex. So pretty much lost it all in one drunken night. Don't be worried about it not happening, because it will. And hopefully it will be a special moment, and not one of drunken stupidity.
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Jan 21 2008, 09:11 AM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
I wouldn't worry too much about it. I mean i know how you feel when you say all your friends have boyfriends, and I guess it kinda sucks, but your time will come. Sometimes things like that come unexpected, ya'know?
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Jan 21 2008, 12:04 PM
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Don't Worry About It.
It's Not Weird. Just Majority Of Us Tends To Be Sluts. Haa. Joke. Nahh. Most Of Us Probably Didn't Enjoy/Like Our First Kiss, But Don't Fret, Good Things'll Happen Soon. :] Plus, My Friend, She's Sixteen And She Still Hasn't Had Her First Kiss, Even If she Does Have a Boyfriend... =/ He's Too Shy. She's Waiting For Him To Make A Move. Can't Win Eh. So Don't Worry about It. |
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Jan 21 2008, 03:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
You'll get your first kiss when the right guy comes along. There's no need to rush it just because some of your friends have already been kissed.
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Jan 21 2008, 03:11 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
^ Yeah, I agree with Cristy. I know how it feels, too. Completely normal. It's like.. puberty. Some people get it earlier while others wait. ... Okay, bad example but you get me, right?
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Jan 21 2008, 10:28 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
Honestly, you're 16/17, which means you're nearing college applications and it also means you're still young. Therefore, you have plenty of other things to worry about or concentrate on and you have your whole life ahead of you. Just because you didn't get a boyfriend yet doesn't doom the rest of your life to being alone. How come girls just can't take things slow? Why does EVERYBODY having a boyfriend mean you have to have one too? Obviously, you really haven't found someone to connect with. Just take things slow. Trust me, if you rush and grab whatever guy is available to get your first kiss over with just for the sake of being able to say you got your first kiss, you'll regret it. Relax. |
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Jan 21 2008, 10:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(smileyworld010 @ Jan 21 2008, 12:39 AM)  so i'm 16 (almost 17!) and still no boyfriend, no kiss, no nothing. a lot of my friends have bfs now and i kind of feel out of the loop... at the same time, lots of my friends are in the same boat as me and we're not all freaks (i don't think... ) is it normal that i haven't gotten my first kiss yet? am i doomed to be an old spinster with 27 cats? and why do i always fall for the guys who are out of reach!? BOOO HOOO!! goo cryy u EMOO!!!! |
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Jan 21 2008, 10:48 PM
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Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 21 2008, 10:40 PM) BOOO HOOO!! goo cryy u EMOO!!!! Every time I see you post, I wonder, "What the hell is he doing?" Please, respect yourself and represent your intellect a little better. Unless, you don't have the intelligence to type correctly and eloquently. |
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Jan 21 2008, 10:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,558 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 589,690 |
don't kiss anyone or you'll get mononucleolis!!!!!!
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Jan 21 2008, 11:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(resplendence @ Jan 21 2008, 10:48 PM) Every time I see you post, I wonder, "What the hell is he doing?" Please, respect yourself and represent your intellect a little better. Unless, you don't have the intelligence to type correctly and eloquently. OoOo.. PISHH POSHH.. BOOO HOO you goo cryy 2 u EMOO!!! 
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Jan 22 2008, 12:14 AM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 21 2008, 08:57 PM) OoOo.. PISHH POSHH.. BOOO HOO you goo cryy 2 u EMOO!!! man.... stfu |
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Jan 22 2008, 12:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
how bout you go to bed u lil gurll..!!
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Jan 22 2008, 12:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
awww no it's not abnormal at all!
i didn't get my first boyfriend until i was like 16 turning 17. and i didn't even genuinely liked him! i just wanted a boyfriend because i felt peer pressure and felt like "why not?" everyone's just starts dating at different times in their life! it doesn't mean if you start late you're gonna marry late or get less "game." like i started late (compared to all my friends) but now i'm 18 and i've been dating this guy for 14 months, someone i actually care about. so just be patient. i think you rather date a guy you like than a guy you MIGHT like |
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Jan 22 2008, 12:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
turnnn gay..
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Jan 22 2008, 12:27 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
dont worry about anything its totally normal some people just dont kiss the first boy or girl they see. Some peoples lives have more issues than a boy or girl and time will come and your first kiss will prolly be more important than other kids.
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Jan 22 2008, 12:36 AM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
good things come to those who wait.
& im in the same situation as you, but it doesnt bother me too much cuz i know it'll happen one day. (dang i sound like a 40 year old virgin to be!) |
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Jan 22 2008, 12:39 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,558 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 589,690 |
lmao no you dont jocelyn
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Jan 22 2008, 01:27 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
QUOTE(Joss-eh-lime @ Jan 21 2008, 09:36 PM) good things come to those who wait. Agreed. If you stop worrying about it , it won't mean so much. I understand how you may feel out of the loop, because I feel the same when my friends bring up certain topics. But really it'll happen so just don't worry about it. Enjoy being 17. At least when you're 17. |
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Jan 22 2008, 02:51 AM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
actually in 9 minutes, then same.
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Jan 22 2008, 03:21 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
why worry? it'll happen before you even realize it (assuming that you have potential)... or you can kiss betty.
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