I am most definitely a real woman with pride. Because I am a real woman I don't whore myself around so I have never been in a situation like this, they are really easy to avoid
I don't hate this girl, I hate how she makes ignorant people like you look down on women.

And please quit double posting.

am i not a real woman because i'm assertive?
what about missfits? she knows what she wants, and clearly she can argue her point perfectly (and with much more class than i do).

there's a big difference between stuck in the situation of whether i should do physics or apush as opposed to one guy or another.

the amount of people interested in you isn't even slightly related to "what you're doing right," unless you just have shit morals. sorry. deal with it.

thank you for responding to my tristan and isolde comment.

please stop throwing out such backless comments about how being indecisive is in all women's dna.

edit;


i'm glad again that you're basing real life off fictional stories. hitch is a great movie :)

also because i know you are extremely well-educated, have you ever read The Scarlet Letter? nathaniel hawthorne, ftw.

you seem to be suggesting metaphorically that hester prynne was not cheating on her husband because her husband left her in a puritan community in MA for two years while he was abroad. in this case, would sleeping with someone else and having a child still constitute as cheating? discuss.

this is a test grade!

You're right, she's not being a whore, she's being a two-faced cockteaser because she can, and this is somehow "right" to you? She tells one guy one thing, and she runs off to tell another guy, her boyfriend, other things. Being unable to make up your mind about food is not the same as being unable to make sense of your feelings, because in the process of making up your mind about two guys, you are playing with their emotions and heads. It is not only inconsiderate but it is selfish to put people on the edge because she's trying to "sort out her feelings." Just don't be in a relationship at all.

so your calling her a whore
because

1. she's not like you.
[apparently not a reall woman either]

and
2. she's stuck between two possibly great guys.

its not even about the fact that she has two guys &&
thats what you dumbasses keep focusing on.

its the fact that right now in her high school life,
she thinks she's found the one with the topic starter.
but at the same time, she's had time to grow
with her long distance boyfriend,
& thinks its retarted to leave him because she
really feels him now.


love makes you do crazy things.
&& apparently that entails the topic starter
feeling on her boobs!
he even said himself that
she said his touch is like no other.
you can't get that in long distance!
you can't get that anywhere unless its true!
its not about horniness
its about the senses responding to what
it knows is right.
he knows how she feels and she knows in reciprocal




&& women are indecisive indecisive indecisive!!!!

she's not playin tease.
she playing:
"whose in it for the long run?"
you have to see that.
put yourself int othat girls shoes.
you think she's just playin like she a mackk?
i can tell you right now this girl
has spent nights crying over
which one not to hurt.


you basically gettin' at her like she a ruthless bitch!

i wonder if you have ever been scorned by love?

you sound bitter!

you see that!
she's cried.
she's not a teaser.
she was dedicated && then got distracted.
everything happens for a reason.
she gon end up with this dude.
trust.

bloody hell. if women are so indecisive, then just change your f**king mind and agree with me. you obviously lack the morals that common people do to see this in a more educated light.

again, pick up a book.
this was entertaining at first and now it's just a waste of time... until we get more people in here and then it'll be entertaining again. w00t

But on the flip side, it is unfair to the guys who are far more confused than her, and at the same time, worrying who she's going to pick. It is not healthy; it doesn't matter that, in the off-chance, she's spending nights crying. She needs to get her shit straight, for the sake of her well-being, too.

No, I'm not bitter, I just don't condone this type of thinking. My boyfriend? I've loved only him, far longer than we've dated. I've never had to choose between guys because my head isn't up my ass. I'm committed to him, and vice-versa, and it will stay that way. I know what I want, and if I didn't? I can tell you that I wouldn't put everyone on the edge due to my issues.

Just because she is not getting what she needs out of her relationship with her boyfriend doesn't mean it's okay to f**k around with another guy. She needs to break up with her boyfriend and quit leading this guy on.
She obviously doesn't love either of the guys because if you really love someone you don't f**k around with their emotions or cheat on them. Mistakes happen but a prolonged affair is f**ked up.

And, thank you revoltaire. I think your posts are always very well thought out.

you know what missfit
i believe you to a point.
but i mean you sound real irrational right now.
life forreal.
you, to me, are coming off
like you've bever had the chance to make
that decision.
lackk of game perhaps i dont know.
now im not sayin
that you gotta be in that situation
to have game, but im sayin' that
she was dedicated to a point.
but how lonesome can a women get?
honestly.
you should know that from
whenever your boyfriend
leaves for days at a time or just hours.
she did'nt go on a hunt looking for the next best thing because her boyfriend wasnt around to catch her.
because if that was the case
she would have left long distance dude,
right when she found the topic starter.
i'm just sayin you gotta see it from her point
put yo self in her shoes.

the topic starter never
said anything about the girl
saying she didnt like the long distance dude.
she said she loves them both.
she not toying with any one of them


girl you lucky you got that 1 man
cuz you aint never got to worry about nothing like this
unless yo dude flippin if you know what i mean.

haha.

&& revoltaire ..


shut the f**k up you middle man with no sense!!!
you contradict yourself with everything you say && you need to stop playin kiss ass to missfit.

you f**kin dike.

No, I have never been with a guy and f**ked around with another guy.
Lack of game? No, I could do if I felt the need but as I've stated before I am not a whore. If you are with someone and you f**k around that's whorish.
Yeah, I do miss my boyfriend when he is not around but that doesn't mean I am going to go out and flirt with other guys.
If you are only dedicated to a point you shouldn't be with that person. If you can't be completely faithful you don't need to be in a relationship at all.
This is something that really pushes my buttons. I can't stand unfaithful people that claim to be in love. It makes me feel like it means less when I say it.

thank you captian obvious.
so we've established that she's in like.
not love.

thank you for the update.
she's in high school what do yu expect.


whose to sayy these guys aren't cool with what she's doing either?
if they care about her like your making it
they would respect her wishes
&& hold off on both of them like she's doing.
not neccessarily breaking up witht he dude or telling the topic starter he's not the one.
are you married?
engaged?
glued to your spouse?

please update so i can make my next statement more clear.

I was just talking to you in the thread you made, I am happily engaged.

I don't see how that affects this post, though.

no textual evidence. :(

the only way i've seen myself even slightly contradict myself in this small discussion was when i called you out for using fictional stories to compare to real life, while i just recently used TSL. however, the story that i used actually had a situation that was very similar to the one proposed and is actually historical fiction instead of a legend.

i was merely complimenting missfits for being able to respond to your irrational comments with sensibility, while reading your posts cause me to slowly lose my mind. :( tell me that her posts are no good, i dare you. an elementary school child wouldn't be able to down her with reason.

and for the record, i've got my one man, and i haven't drifted since 2003. sure makes me a d*ke, hm?

okay well


1st:
go to sleep revolatire!
please.
i know its past yo bed time.

&& second:
you are really closed minded for someone whose getting married.
was he the only guy you ever dated prior to getting engaged?

because if so, thats why your saying all these things.
you had it set in your mind that this guy was it.
after whatevr time period you and your fiance were together before he proposed you already had in your mind that he was the one

dedication dedication dedication!

am i right?

&& for this girl
she's in high school.
regardless of what age or grade she 's in
she's been brought up that you have to kiss a bunch of frogs
to find her prince charming.
she has her whole life to not ever be in this situation again.

its killing her more than you think.
you think she's just some chilidish little girl who plays games with peoples hearts.

&& you might not want to admit it to me
& thats fine cuz ima stranger & i dont blame you
but you been hurt by love.
&& i dnt know if it was the same situation, but you been hurt.
&& thats understandable for you to think that that one person is that one person at that time.

but you cant force anything to work out if it aint meant to be,

hence, the topic starter turning into the lover from the friend.

hey revoltaire...



dike dike dike dike dike!!!


you a cover up dike.

i don't think i'll be sleeping until 3:30 this morning at the earliest. my physics teacher has this notion that a fifty question assessment is a quiz and not a test, so she's giving them out by the handfuls this week. what's ironic is that all the quizzes she's giving out this week have more material on them than our exam will. ho hum

have you read up on tristan and isolde yet? :)

i'm so very hurt by your name-calling.

I'm confused why you keep the defending the girl when the original poster was a guy who had a question about what he should do. Look, it doesn't matter if she is dying on the inside, she is leading guys on and clearly confusing him, for crying out loud. It's entirely selfish of her, and the guy should not get romantically involved further and spend his spare time writing on this girl's rack. Who in her right mind would allow another guy to do this while she's in a relationship? Let me throw out a concept to you, once again: two-faced. She is "playin'" in your words.

ummmm .. why do we care about that??


not to be rude but ...


well no i take that back.
its to be rude.

aww, so cute!

you wanted me to go to sleep, and i just explained myself.


and we care about tristan and isolde because you referenced it. QQ

who is she confusing?
honestly!
she's made her feelings clear
to the topic starter, & he knows the deal.
there has been no talk of the long distance dude
& whether he knows or is cool about he situation.

to me its up to the guy.

if the long distance dude cares about her like your implying,
then he would be man enough to let her choose with her heart.
which is what she's tryna do.

&& obviously thats what the topic starter is doing because he
hasnt excactly given the girl an "either // or" scenario.

he wants this girl badly but he knows her situation.
if he was getting played,
he would've known a long time ago.
if she didnt care she wouldnt have cried.
you dont just cry to cry people.
emotions evoke tears.

well from me seeing the movie & reading the book i became to infer that it is a true story.
now counter that with some evidence & i'll will humbly bow down to the fact that i was wrong. otherwise beddy bye bye hunney!

i kind of did that with lord of the rings too, and then i couldn't find any hobbits. cried my eyes out.

http://www.encyclopedia.com/SearchResults....stan+and+isolde
knock yourself out, baby.

and if you want essays on it, just let me know.