have you ever felt like you weren't good enough? |
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 Dec 7 2007, 11:56 PM
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I have low self esteem sometimes about the way I look but I'm okay with myself and body. I think I'm above average but not supermodel material
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Dec 8 2007, 12:32 AM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
Never, I kick way to much ass for that kind of thought process to go on. If anything they aren't good enough for me
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Dec 9 2007, 05:07 AM
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All the time. My family nick-named me "fatty" so now I think that I'm too fat, and thats why guys don't like me.
 It has lead to some eating disorders.... 
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Dec 9 2007, 05:13 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(guilinger123 @ Dec 9 2007, 05:07 AM)  All the time. My family nick-named me "fatty" so now I think that I'm too fat, and thats why guys don't like me. It has lead to some eating disorders.... You think your to fat because someone said something? You can't take everything to heart like that, or your going to go down a very sad and lonely path filled with feelings of worthlessness and self-pity, I couldn't even imagine what I would be like if I took what everyone said to heart and acted on it  And as for guys not liking you, is that based on the fact that guys seriously come up to you and say I don't like you because your fat, or do you tell yourself that so much that you actually start to believe it and avoid romance all together? |
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Dec 21 2007, 01:51 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Nov 12 2007, 12:54 PM) just wondering about this. bc i get this feeling alot. sometimes i just don't feel like i'll ever be good enough. and i hate feeling like that. and i was just wondering if other ppl had this problem too. Nope. I think you're the only one with this problem. Seriously think about your questions. I know I sound like a dick right now, but these are little questions and problems that everyone faces. If you don't like this feeling, then change it. Problem solved. |
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Dec 22 2007, 06:01 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 591,388 |
i think,i needn't be good for a boy ;)
i never felt bad because i know he is not better 
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Dec 28 2007, 02:04 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Oh yeah. Parents, boyfriend (especially), friends, my teacher (piano)... you name it.
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Dec 28 2007, 06:01 PM
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 sweet suicide Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 604,883 |
I feel like that all the time.
But everyone has to feel like that sometimes. From parents/relatives, friends, to guys. I also feel ashamed most of the times. |
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Dec 28 2007, 06:04 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
before when i used to be really down, but not anymore.
too much shit's gone down for me to ever think i'm not good enough, but that doesn't mean that the people that surround me aren't amazing in their own ways. |
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Dec 29 2007, 12:23 PM
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family.. screw them I am better haha
friends.. not really Boyfriend.. All the time.. he does everything and I do nothing. Sometimes I say I am busy when I really am not to show him that I do have a life. -_- |
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Dec 31 2007, 01:13 AM
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 <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,369 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 539,187 |
Yeah, I do feel like that sometimes. But I really try not to. When I do, I just think about how much better off I am then some people, and that I should be glad for what I've got. It helps, y'know :D
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Jan 3 2008, 08:20 PM
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Most of the time. But that's probably 'cause I'm like fricken emotionally challenged or something
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Jan 3 2008, 10:33 PM
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You're not alone. I've felt like i'm never good enough to people i already know including friends& family AND people i have the potential of knowing. The thought comes and goes.
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Jan 5 2008, 11:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 592,401 |
QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Nov 12 2007, 12:54 PM) just wondering about this. bc i get this feeling alot. sometimes i just don't feel like i'll ever be good enough. and i hate feeling like that. and i was just wondering if other ppl had this problem too. yeah every day my brother comes home...from college...my parents give all their attention to him...its stupid. its like i wasnt even born...i hate it becuz they tell me to be more like him..  in their dreams...
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Jan 11 2008, 09:05 PM
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yep, but then i realized,
wtfff. i shouldnt have to be good enough for anyone. |
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Jan 11 2008, 10:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,032 |
i kno exactly how u feel.
it kinda go thru it everyday, well mostly everyone does. =( |
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Feb 18 2008, 05:02 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
Pshhh whoever up there voted no on the poll are just fckin liars.
Oh, & am I the only one who finds the fact that the person who made this made has the username 'barbieeedollxo' funny? |
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Feb 18 2008, 06:23 PM
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 Beautiful Madness Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 620,642 |
I have done.
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Feb 18 2008, 06:24 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
no, i've always known i was better than everyone.
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Feb 18 2008, 10:10 PM
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 Free the Caged Bird. Let it Sing. Group: Member Posts: 168 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 622,056 |
yeah. =/ it seems like everyone has ONE THING they're good at. I'm....average at everything? average average average. never good enough to be the BEST at something.
Oh well....that doesn't mean I can't have fun in life. 
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Feb 18 2008, 10:12 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I have been feeling this way for the past 3 or 4 weeks, and it gets worse every day.
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Feb 18 2008, 10:13 PM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
who hasnt?
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Feb 18 2008, 10:16 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
For somebody like me, it just doesn't happen easily. I am literally just not myself anymore.
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Feb 19 2008, 12:14 AM
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I have times when I feel like I suck at life, and other times when I feel on top of the world. But who hasn't had those moments when you feel like nothing but a meaningless speck?
Life goes on, and if you work hard you can prove anyone who thinks you're nothing wrong. |
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Feb 19 2008, 11:48 AM
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All the time, my parents make me feel that way just about everyday. And then I start to think that way for everyone. :/
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