my standards aren't high. i just finished reading this whole topic. if you mean that my standards are the highest in this topic then yea sure. but cleanliness, tallness, and fatter than me aren't so high. well those are the least of the qualities i would like. and i can easily find a guy like that in europe . hey were you born in vietnam and then moved to an english speaking country? just wondering.

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I think looks matter alot because you can't not be physically attracted to someone and love them. It just doesn't work. I think the physical attraction draw a person near && then the personaility keeps the person staying in the relationship. I know it's harsh, but it's the truth.

They are not the most important thing for me but they matter... I mean everyone cares atleast a little bit...

yeah and if your whole relationship is based on looks, you shouldn't even be in one.

Looks aren't too important, heart is.

lmao I thought you were going to mention sex. Like, "Looks aren't too important. As long as there's great sex."


I see you in a different light now!

HAHA- Hey it's not always about sex with me!

Looks ARE important but however its not the only looks its also their personality that counts the most *n.n* but i go for personality more than the looks though. ever heard of this quote "Never judge a book by its cover unless you read the inside of it"?

looks aren't too important. cause i know damn sure that most people look uglier (physically) to me when their personality is ugly. i don't want to be with some nice looking person if they keep cheating, acting immature, etc. but i gotta be physically attracted to them too.

plus i don't wanna be with someone really attractive if i know people are gonna be thinking "how the hell did that girl get with that guy?" it'll make me super sad inside =(

I know a girl who's probably around my kind of rating --- me and her are both I guess slightly above average looking, in my point of view. But anyways, she used to date this guy who was pretty hot. I mean sure he was hot looking (haha even I thought he was hot and he was Japanese too!), but she did really like him and it goes to show that guys aren't always really superficial. And a girl doesn't have to be hot to get a hot guy. And at times I was like "damn how'd you snag such a hot guy?" She's like "idk >_<"" Haha =X

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I remember when I was an immature and use to believe that looks never mattered, but yea its not true. I have to be attracted to them so they better look pretty damn good in my book at least. I don't really rate it by numbers or anything that just sounds stupid and that your only looking at them as an object and putting it on a scale.

To be in a relationship with someone you have to be attracted to them, end of story.

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nguoicasison, I'd like to nominate my other half as one of the ten/billion

Have you ever posted a picture of yourself in Member's Photos?

^No I don't think he has, in his cute/hot girl topic he said if someone made a hot boy topic he would post his picture..

Lets make one. Josh is first XD



I think your fine, sometimes people just hit that time in their life when their not concerned about certain things. You'll get out of it eventually its nothing to worry about. Most things that happen to anyone are pretty normal and nothing to worry about ;]

oh if it doesn't come back within the next year or a few months after...I would suggest worrying at that point xD

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Muahaha, agreed.

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looks not important at all. i appreciate everyones being... male or female, regardless of appearance.
i was born with lymphangioma and have had about 18 surgeries in my lifetime. now that i am finally getting some selfconfidence, i know that i would never ever ever want anyone to feel the way i felt most of my life.
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but just the same i think phil is effing hot. ;)

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no for sure. looks are needed. i mean, you cant be looking deeply into someones eyes and be thinkingmy god, this person looks deformed"
all im saying is that looks is never what comes first.

by the way, dispite the surgeries, im still hot. ;)

Haha says a guy who rates himself 7-8. You're a 3 in my book anyway. If you're so great, post pictures. Oh, no time? Obviously you have time to post, when it's very easy to take a picture. Or do you not have a camera?

Anyways, how can you say "oh girls care about feelings, but guys don't."And then you say a hot girl doesn't even phase you? You're being inconsistent.

Honestly, I never said looks are not important. Merely that looks are not the only factor, although it is true that they partake in the instant of attraction. Do keep up, won't you? You post threads asking about this and that, then you say only people ages 19-25 would know about how it feels to be dumped based on looks. That's not the case. You wouldn't know, since you're not even 19 yet. So don't act like you know and then isolate yourself from your "statistics."

I just realized something because I was bored:
How important IS looks to you...LMAO

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