Who should make the first move? |
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 Nov 20 2007, 11:41 PM
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I prefer if the guy does, but if I really like him then I will let him know. I told one of my friends that I liked him (before the summer), but my feelings faded after I got to know him better. hahahaha
I am somewhat like Jeanna though. Talking > body language. |
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Nov 21 2007, 09:59 AM
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Nov 21 2007, 11:05 AM
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 hello. Group: Official Designer Posts: 211 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,566 |
GUYS MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Nov 21 2007, 11:43 AM
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 ^ dgratie.deviantart.com Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 592,675 |
I personally don't think it should matter who makes the first move. My ex was the first to kiss me. I didn't know what to think at first. But since both partners are able to make a move it shouldn't matter who it comes from.
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Nov 21 2007, 02:14 PM
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hahaha for me the guys have to do it, if they dont then sure, i wouldnt mind first talking to them *n.n*
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Nov 21 2007, 02:17 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
Personally I'd prefer to make the first move, I feel more in control, and I don't think I've ever really found a girl that makes the first move...ok well there was this one slut girl I hooked up with...but that wasn't a relationship. I'd prefer to be the one doing the action, not the one sitting around waiting to "see what happens", or doesn't happen.
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Nov 21 2007, 02:19 PM
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i like making the first move :-D
which is surprising cuz im a shy person. |
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Nov 21 2007, 02:51 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 06:45 PM)  Why wouldn't you make the first move? What if you really like a boy, would you still wait for him to make the first move, even you really really like him? Nope I still wouldn't do it. I think the guy should be confident enough to make the first move  Its just what I have grained into my head.
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Nov 21 2007, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Nov 21 2007, 01:51 PM) Nope I still wouldn't do it. I think the guy should be confident enough to make the first move Its just what I have grained into my head.Yo, that's unhealthy. |
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Nov 22 2007, 12:42 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:54 AM
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I make the move a lot of the times but when the guys does..its really nice. :)
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Nov 23 2007, 01:11 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
For me, I think it depends on the situation. I've had guys make the first move on me...those were nice. However, I made the first move on my boyfriend...and that worked out nicely too.
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Nov 23 2007, 01:13 AM
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 Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
I'm part of that group of people that believe that the guy should make the first move.
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Nov 23 2007, 11:57 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 19 2007, 11:35 AM) What if you've never talk to him before, but see each other once in awhile? Would you get to know him first or just go for the kill? If you want to get to know him, what would you do in his presence to show you want to get to know him? if i've never talked to a guy before, but i've seen him around, i wouldn't be attracted to him. but i definitely do just approach people i see regularly and say "hey, i've seen you around" and introduce myself. why would i try to send out subliminal messages by flipping my phone and smirking and shit?  not that that's possible because my phone doesn't flip anyway... haha.i suppose i make the first move usually because i start up conversations faster, but it's usually the guy who asks if i want to go out. if i'm impatient, then i don't ask - i TELL him to hang out with me. 
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Dec 1 2007, 04:33 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
It depends, but usually the guy should do it.
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Dec 1 2007, 04:38 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
If there's a mutual attraction and you can just tell, I'm usually aggressive enough to make the first move or say something about it. I don't mind it. I'm a time-saver.
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Dec 1 2007, 04:39 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
its a guy job.
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