Who should make the first move? |
 Nov 18 2007, 04:58 PM
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Nov 18 2007, 06:38 PM
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the boy has to do it.
the end. ;] oh and I like it when the boy makes the first move, or well I like it when this one boy makes the first move 
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Nov 18 2007, 06:45 PM
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Nov 18 2007, 07:16 PM
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Girls Likes Guys To Make The First Move
And Guys Likes Girls To Make The First Move Too So I Guess Both Gotta Try At The Same Time? |
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Nov 19 2007, 10:22 AM
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Nov 19 2007, 10:28 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 08:45 PM)  Why wouldn't you make the first move? What if you really like a boy, would you still wait for him to make the first move, even you really really like him? Um. It really depends on the personalities of the people. If I really liked a guy and he was too shy to make the move I would tell him how I felt. I guess that the guys sometimes deserve to get those butterflies in their tummies that people get when they are getting asked out. I'd do it, but some girls are too shy. |
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Nov 19 2007, 10:35 AM
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Nov 19 2007, 11:02 AM
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In my case...I am terrified to talk to girls that I like, but when my friend likes a girl...I'll go and do the talking for them. Weird eh!?
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Nov 19 2007, 11:18 AM
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my guy friend is really shy but i told him earlier this year i liked him and i played the "oh it's ok if you don't like meeeeee." and he said, "well i didn't say no." yet didn't say he agreed. idk.
he has had like 2 girlfriends and slept with 1. lol. so i guess i can imagine the reason why he is shy. but i wouldn't make the first move. no way. |
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Nov 19 2007, 12:50 PM
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I have always liked agressive girls, but there is nothing like a shy good ole girl to make your heart feel good.
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Nov 19 2007, 01:05 PM
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Nov 19 2007, 02:04 PM
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Whoever. Doesn't matter.
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Nov 19 2007, 02:14 PM
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The boy made the first move. I liked that.
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Nov 19 2007, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Nov 18 2007, 06:38 PM) the boy has to do it. the end. ;] I hate when girls tell me that, why can't they do it, there human too lol. |
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Nov 19 2007, 06:16 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 19 2007, 12:35 PM) What if you've never talk to him before, but see each other once in awhile? Would you get to know him first or just go for the kill? If you want to get to know him, what would you do in his presence to show you want to get to know him? I would, personally, get to know someone before I ever dated them. It's pretty ridiculous to date someone you don't know. When I wanted to get to know a guy I would just talk to them, maybe give them my number, invite them to a party I was going to be at. I really think it depends on what kind of girl we are talking about. |
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Nov 20 2007, 01:53 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 20 2007, 04:22 AM) How can both people try at the same, it's either the boy or the girl. So what's the final answer? Okay Well Let's Say.. If Your A Girl And Is Waiting For The Guy To Make The First Move.. And He Is Waiting For You To Make The First Move At The Same Time.. And Both Of You Will End Up Waiting For Each Other Make The First Move.. And Yehh It's Best To Just Do It At The Same Time.. |
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Nov 20 2007, 04:23 AM
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Doesn't matter to me. Some people prefer to, while others prefer to wait. Depends on the personalities and the specific people I think. Personally though...I wouldn't mind making the move...but I prefer to wait it out a little. If I get impatient, then I'll make the move.
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Nov 20 2007, 08:24 AM
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 So basically the guys are supposed to make the first move in the end huh. *put clothes on*... *walk out the door*... *checking out the girl i like*... *work my magic*... To be continue.. |
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Nov 20 2007, 11:29 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 19 2007, 02:05 PM) Why not? like you said, rejection. i don't do anything unless i know 100% sure when it comes to boys and stuff. |
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Nov 20 2007, 12:08 PM
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Yeah like what if you make the move, and it is all for nothing? The egg would really be all over your face then eh?
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Nov 20 2007, 12:42 PM
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It doesnt really matter. I prefer that the boy makes the first move, but when he's really shy you shouldnt wait for that to come along. You could always try to hint him/her when you want him/her to make the first move. =)
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Nov 20 2007, 12:45 PM
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Some people are oblivious to hints lol
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Nov 20 2007, 02:22 PM
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White always makes the first move. Smoke before fire.
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Nov 20 2007, 10:11 PM
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QUOTE(xFaith @ Nov 20 2007, 01:42 PM) It doesnt really matter. I prefer that the boy makes the first move, but when he's really shy you shouldnt wait for that to come along. You could always try to hint him/her when you want him/her to make the first move. =) lol i always TALK instead of body language the most. i hate secrets so i always say, "ok let's get this straight, i like you." or something |
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Nov 20 2007, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 20 2007, 10:11 PM) lol i always TALK instead of body language the most. i hate secrets so i always say, "ok let's get this straight, i like you." or something we need more women like you in this world
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