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What are ten things that LOVE and SEX mean to you, So, I'm reading this book...
Uronacid
post Nov 14 2007, 06:55 PM
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So, I'm reading this book, and they say it's a good practice to get to know yourself by asking yourself some questions. I don't usually write things down, but I'll just copy the paragraph directly from the book, and you guys can participate with me:

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Take the time to sit down with a piece of paper INTERNET and write the following headings. In case you think this sounds silly, bear in mind that therapists use exactly the same technique with their clients - but they charge by the hour! This therapeutic technique is called "listing".
  1. Ten things that love means to me
  2. Ten things that sex means to me
Be has honest and truthful as possible. Pretend this list is for your eyes only, so don't hold back - write what you really feel. When you've written your lists, read them over carefully and think about what you've written - especially if you find that you're a little surprised by some of the answers.


So lets do this.
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 06:59 PM
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I'll go first as an example, but I'll be real about it:

Ten things that love means to me:
  1. Hugs
  2. Talking
  3. Careing
  4. Being together
  5. Spending time with eachother
  6. Crying
  7. Laughing
  8. Taking long rides in the car together
  9. Saying you're sorry
  10. Forgiving
Ten things that sex means to me:
  1. Lots of Kisses
  2. Little Nibbles
  3. Surprises
  4. Touching
  5. Breathing
  6. Fucking
  7. Playful
  8. Foreplay
  9. Wet
  10. Condom... -_-

*says it out loud*

I feel so fucking free right now (Aside from that condom).
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:09 PM
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What Loves means to me:
  • Caring
  • Honesty
  • listening & talking
  • Spending time with each other
  • kisses
  • hugs
  • Open Hearts/Open Minds
  • Respect
  • Passion
  • Sharing
What sex means to me:
  • love
  • Comfortableness
  • Trust
  • Kisses
  • Playfulness
  • Closeness
  • nurturing of a relationship O_o that sounds odd
  • freedom
  • breathing
  • foreplay
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:28 PM
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What love means to me
-Honesty
-Compromise
-Sharing
-Passion
-Trust
-Respect
-Maturity
-FOREVER
-Open hearts
-Open minds

What Sex Means to me
-LOVE
-passion
-Freedom
-comfort with yourself
-comfort with your partner
-Trust
-Beauty
-Closeness (I don't know if that's a word or not)
-lust
-Mutual attraction

My marriage counselor actually asked us this, but it was only 5 things to list.
I have the big packet somewhere around here.
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:33 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 14 2007, 09:28 PM) *
What love means to me
-Honesty
-Compromise
-Sharing
-Passion
-Trust
-Respect
-Maturity
-FOREVER
-Open hearts
-Open minds

What Sex Means to me
-LOVE
-passion
-Freedom
-comfort with yourself
-comfort with your partner
-Trust
-Beauty
-Closeness (I don't know if that's a word or not)
-lust
-Mutual attraction

My marriage counselor actually asked us this, but it was only 5 things to list.
I have the big packet somewhere around here.


Damn, you put my list to shame. LOL, I guess I just thought of mine really fast.
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:35 PM
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I didn't mean to show anyone up. tongue.gif
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:40 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 14 2007, 09:35 PM) *
I didn't mean to show anyone up. tongue.gif


Lol, I think you did a very good job. You put me to shame, I'm jealous. *wink* Lucky man you have there.
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:47 PM
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I really excel at list making.

Thanks, though, I am a really lucky gal. He is a straight up hep cat.
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 14 2007, 09:47 PM) *
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I really excel at list making.

Thanks, though, I am a really lucky gal. He is a straight up hep cat.


Nice!
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 09:55 PM
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I think more people should start saying hep. And cat while they are at it.

I am going to start the revolution. When you guys see it on MTV, you know where it started laugh.gif
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 10:00 PM
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Sex
>attraction
>lust
>satisfaction
>spontanious
>daring
>comfort
>playful
>hott
>no commitment
>desiring

Love
>caring
>trust
>giving
>honest
>accepting
>longing
>commitment
>true
>understanding
>being there for each other
 
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post Nov 14 2007, 11:15 PM
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Ten things that love means to me:

1. connection
2. social life
3. money
4. gifts
5. compliments
6. -
7. -
8. -
9.-
10. -

Ten things that sex means to me:

1. laying there dead waiting
2. pregnancy tests from freaking out
3. gossiping
4. -
5. -
6. -
7. -
8. -
9. -
10. Condom

yeah, that's why im not in a relationship and love being single lol.

maybe in like 5 years
 
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post Nov 15 2007, 08:51 AM
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Remember to say them out loud guys!
 
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post Nov 15 2007, 02:00 PM
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I read mine to John, does that count? Or do I have to say them to myself?
 
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post Nov 15 2007, 02:03 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 15 2007, 02:00 PM) *
I read mine to John, does that count? Or do I have to say them to myself?


Of course that counts. ;]
 
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post Nov 15 2007, 04:24 PM
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In all honesty. NOTE: this is the first time I'm admitting to somethings.

Love

1) Laughter
2) Passion
3) Happiness
4) Friendship
5) Compromise
6) Faithfulness
7) Honesty
8) Maturity
9) Understanding
10) Growth

Sex

1) Closeness
2) Love
3) Respect
4) Desire
5) Warmth
6) Fufilling
7) Sharing
8) Togetherness
9) Openess
10) Fun
 
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post Nov 15 2007, 08:06 PM
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^That's really cool.
 
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post Nov 16 2007, 02:42 PM
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LOVE
Understanding a person
Knowing a person
Excitement
Favorite person
Sharing
Comfort
Elation
Liberation
Acceptance
Not expecting anything

SEX
Passion
Lust
Satisfaction
Intertwining, physically and mentally
Selflessness
Awkwardness
Loss of control
Honesty
Attraction
Intimacy

That was dumb.
 
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post Nov 16 2007, 02:50 PM
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LOVE
<3
</3
wahhhh
ooh!
<3
</3
noooooo
<3<3
:0
:(

SEX
Bacon
Sausage
Gravy
Biscuits
Pancakes
Syrup
Butter
Toast
Jam
Breakfast I don't have to make
 
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post Nov 16 2007, 03:00 PM
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QUOTE(sheridan_whiteside @ Nov 16 2007, 02:50 PM) *
LOVE
<3
</3
wahhhh
ooh!
<3
</3
noooooo
<3<3
:0
:(

SEX
Bacon
Sausage
Gravy
Biscuits
Pancakes
Syrup
Butter
Toast
Jam
Breakfast I don't have to make


Ditto thumbsup.gif
 
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post Nov 18 2007, 05:11 PM
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post Nov 18 2007, 09:42 PM
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LOVE:
1. trust
2. passion
3. caring
4. kisses
5. hugs
6. best friend
7. relationship
8. pain
9. talks
10. you and me.. lolz


SEX
1. lust
2. amazing
3. love
4. passion
5. intimacy
6. tiring
7. commitment
8. maturity
9. trust
10. giving
 
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post Nov 19 2007, 04:35 AM
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Hm, interesting topic. I like it.

Love

1. Being completely open
2. Freedom
3. Honesty
4. Loyalty
5. Sacrifice
6. Comfort
7. Trusting
8. Everlasting
9. Reliability
10. Respect

Sex

1. Passion
2. Love
3. Intimacy - physically & emotionally
4. Sensuality
5. Raw emotion
6. Freedom
7. Attraction
8. Foreplay
9. Open-ness with your partner
10. Being comfortable with each other and yourself
 
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post Nov 19 2007, 08:52 AM
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love

1. trust and being open
2. conversations
3. loyalty
4. comfort
5. laugh
6. cry
7. kisses
8. compromise
9. understanding
10. respect

sex

1. love
2. intimacy
3. breathing
4. comfort
5. orgasm
6. foreplay
7. lust
8. selflessness
9. queeeeef
10. sex
 
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post Nov 19 2007, 08:32 PM
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What love means to me:

1. My girlfriend, she means the world to me every second that passes by makes our love stronger.

What Sex means to me:

1. With her it doesn't matter if we do it or don't its up to her.
 
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