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post Aug 16 2007, 11:03 PM
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punch walls? punch people? kick your pets? bitch out people on cb?


If I'm online I usually write out a bunch of A:LSKJFA:LDKFJA:DLKFJDAs, but when my mom throws my clothes in the garbage I walk out of the house. Otherwise, I call up my friends and talk things out.


 
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HakunaMatata
post Aug 16 2007, 11:15 PM
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I am the absolute worst with venting. Usually, I just go online and pray that someone who I want to vent to is on AIM. I can't do the writing stuff or the punching stuff, I'm not patient nor strong enough for that stuff, and yet...venting never felt all that..I dunno, good.

Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? Even when I go on AIM and vent to someone, I feel dumb during and afterwards. It just feels like I'm saying a bunch of stuff that I know I'll be looking back on and feel stupid because I'm not mad about it anymore.
 
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post Aug 16 2007, 11:20 PM
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Sometimes I stick my face in a pillow and yell until I want to stop. Other times I call someone and talk... but I get really bad at lashing out at people.

I never get physical with anger so I guess that's good.
 
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post Aug 16 2007, 11:21 PM
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Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? Even when I go on AIM and vent to someone, I feel dumb during and afterwards. It just feels like I'm saying a bunch of stuff that I know I'll be looking back on and feel stupid because I'm not mad about it anymore.


Completely agreed. I have only a few people I come to voluntarily when I'm really pissed (which doesnt happen all that often, but even as I'm telling people, I feel so stupid and like I shouldn't be mad about it at all. Usually I just kind of ignore it when I'm angry, and eventually it just goes away.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:05 AM
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I just start crying. I get so frustrated and I'm the type of person who would rather be completely stoic than show weakness by having extreme emotions, so I let things build up and just break down.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:17 AM
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I scream in my pillow.

Or sing screamo. laugh.gif
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:23 AM
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QUOTE(HakunaMatata @ Aug 16 2007, 09:15 PM) *
Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting?


I consider complaining venting..! complaining is another one of my ways to calm me down when I'm mad about something, especially if it comes down to something about my friends. I love my friends and all, but everyone has their faults and sometimes i just need to complain about certain things for a while; then I can get over the faults and move on, and just love my friends again.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:45 AM
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I either self injure or I do the scream in a pillow thing or I write. And the punch walls thing I sometimes do that too.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:53 AM
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1st I cry, 'cause I cry when I'm soooo angry!
2nd I call all my friends to go drinking!
3rd I dress up really really cute and drink the night away!!

-yea...that's the only way to get me totally wasted...when I'm pissed! biggrin.gif
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:53 AM
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QUOTE(HakunaMatata @ Aug 17 2007, 12:15 AM) *
Complaining actually helps me feel better...but venting? Even when I go on AIM and vent to someone, I feel dumb during and afterwards. It just feels like I'm saying a bunch of stuff that I know I'll be looking back on and feel stupid because I'm not mad about it anymore.

Same here. _unsure.gif And uh.. I let it build up... which is really bad, but I do.

Sometimes I'll vent to friends about little things that made me upset/angry/etc, and during it I just think "Wow, this is a really dumb reason to be upset, WHY am I so upset about this?"
aaaand sometimes I just yell at the people who are making me mad, and make them mad as well. Which never turns out good.

But if there is no one to talk to, I just sit quietly in my room and just think about everything.
Or blog about it on an anonymous blog I have.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:01 AM
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i would like to punch on a punching bag but right now i don't have one. For now i sleep it off.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:01 AM
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I'll vent to my boyfriend usually or best friend. I usually end up crying it out though...I cry pretty easily and in the end I usually feel a bit better.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:14 AM
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QUOTE(ersatz @ Aug 16 2007, 10:05 PM) *
I just start crying. I get so frustrated and I'm the type of person who would rather be completely stoic than show weakness by having extreme emotions, so I let things build up and just break down.
I'm like that too, up to the point where I can start listing out all the problems I have in my life.

I blog a lot - for me, that's actually pretty effective...hopefully someone reads it.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:18 AM
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i cry, sit there and stare, think about shit, sleep, lock myself in a room.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:19 AM
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wow I always thought I was the only who did that and then I would feel really stupid after since no one in my house actually cares enough to pay attention.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:20 AM
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I always talk to my friends or family. _smile.gif I can tell them anything.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 02:32 AM
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I usually just yell at people and if i am online then i will vent my anger on anybody
 
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I run over the neighbors dog with my lawn mower. XD
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 10:35 AM
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I write in my diary. *flips bangs*

Usually, I just take a walk to the park and play handball. Pretending that the person's head is the handball as I angrily smack it. thumbsup.gif
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:53 PM
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I scream and throw things. I got in a fist fight with my mom a few times to..we forgot all about that though. Sometimes I just sit on the computer and listen to music too.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 12:55 PM
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QUOTE(sugar_street @ Aug 17 2007, 02:18 AM) *
i cry, sit there and stare, think about shit, sleep, lock myself in a room.



QUOTE(whabam @ Aug 17 2007, 02:19 AM) *
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wow I always thought I was the only who did that and then I would feel really stupid after since no one in my house actually cares enough to pay attention.


You guys arnt the only ones. I do that too.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:01 PM
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same for me...
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:05 PM
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...I talk to myself... and I lock myself in my room and cry.
 
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post Aug 17 2007, 01:18 PM
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i write in livejournal.
and i yell. a lot.
 
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