Would You Date Your Friends Ex? |
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 Jul 3 2007, 01:09 AM
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Jul 3 2007, 11:54 AM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
QUOTE(kayali @ Jul 3 2007, 02:04 AM)  Yeah.. why not? Why ask your friend for permission... If theyre over- its done, yup? Shouldnt need anyones permision, she/he/friend can get over it  But what if you guys are tight and would still be hanging out a lot? Even so, it's just being considerate towards a friend's feelings because they might be sore about it but at least they'll know you didn't backstab them. |
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Jul 3 2007, 12:16 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
if they were over each other, why not.
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Jul 3 2007, 10:03 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
I've gone out with my best friend's crush of 2 years. I've gone out with my best friend's ex (who's not my best friend any more, she can burn in hell
 ). Uhh... I've had crushes on guys my friends liked. I've flirted with their boyfriends or crushes and ended up going out with them. I've broken pretty much every friend/boy rule in the book. My friends and I have no problems with it at all (mostly because the guys here are a bunch of losers not worth fighting over). It's like a game to us. We're so tight it doesn't even matter. But that's just us!! So don't go doing it like it's all fine and dandy. Things are different here, I guess. Our group doesn't do drama. |
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Jul 3 2007, 10:15 PM
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i did
except my "friend" at the time had already moved on and plus she wasn't my friend that much at the time. i guess there are some exceptions because i know that if my friend dated my ex then i would get kind of upset. i think it's just a matter of whether said friend has 1. gotten over it and 2. isn't mad at him |
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Jul 3 2007, 10:20 PM
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It definitely depends on which one of my friends it is. But usually there's a rule between me and my guy friends that states "Never date one of your friends' ex girlfriends".
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Jul 7 2007, 11:44 AM
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niko «3 Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,278 |
not really. i cant imagine me with my friends ex :o
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Jul 20 2007, 10:19 AM
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QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 14 2007, 01:19 PM) It depends on if my friend is completely over the ex or not. And it depends on why they broke up. When I was 15 years old I did, since I'm older and smarter hell no. It's an unspoken rule. Just imagine how the other person will feel, if someone dated your ex you would be mad as hell! |
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Jul 20 2007, 10:27 AM
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Yup.My so called "friend" more like an acquaintance in 7th grade dated the girl I liked.While he dated her,I made her fall in love with me too :P.So yes I would definitely date my friends ex.I mean their just a friend.If its my best friend.Thats a diff story,I'd let them know first.
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Jul 20 2007, 10:32 AM
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It depends on when they went out and when they broke up, and why. Like, if they "went out" in the eighth grade or something, that really doesn't count. But if they were together for two years or something, I would feel really weird about it. And, I guess it also depended on how close I was to my friend at the time when they were together.
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Jul 20 2007, 12:17 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
I'd never say never.
If I start liking my friend's ex, I'd definitely tell my friend first and ask her if she'd be okay with it. My friends know that they can be honest, so if she were to say no, then I wouldn't dare to go any further. I also have to take into consideration the reason for their break-up. |
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Jul 20 2007, 12:31 PM
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F.U.C.K. NO. Especially if they were once in a serious relationship... man f**k that.
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Jul 20 2007, 12:33 PM
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Lol that would cause huge drama.
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Jul 20 2007, 06:02 PM
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hells no!! you think i`d want leftovers?!!?! ahahhaha
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Jul 20 2007, 06:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jul 20 2007, 01:33 PM) Lol that would cause huge drama. Highly Agreed x100000000000 |
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Jul 21 2007, 01:37 AM
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i wouldn`t cuhz i don`t want leftovers from a friend of mine .
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Jul 21 2007, 03:09 AM
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QUOTE(me1issaaaa @ Jul 20 2007, 08:32 AM) It depends on when they went out and when they broke up, and why. Like, if they "went out" in the eighth grade or something, that really doesn't count. But if they were together for two years or something, I would feel really weird about it. And, I guess it also depended on how close I was to my friend at the time when they were together. Completely agree. And honestly, unless I saw the relationship having long term potential, I wouldn't risk a friend for it. |
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Jul 21 2007, 10:51 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Yeah, if I liked her and he didn't care. Why not? Just because my friend dated her, doesn't discard her as a person and potential ass.
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Aug 1 2007, 11:04 PM
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I would. But only if your friend says it doesn't bother them and if the reason they broke has a possibility of repeating, like cheating or being too possesive. In my case dating your friends ex happens alot with me and ppl I know because I go to a small high school and live in a small town. :P
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Aug 1 2007, 11:41 PM
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well it depends. if my friends ex did sumthin really mean/stupid i wudnt date them. and yea it is their ex unless they still have feelings for them.
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Aug 2 2007, 12:11 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jun 14 2007, 03:31 PM) Uhhh...NOOOOOO. That seems like a left over to me. Unless their ex's name was Lupe Fiasco or Allen Iverson, probably not. what about michael jackson?  i think this is more of a girl thing because i know guys could really care less, but you get those guys to where if anyone touches the girl even after they're over, they'll try to act tough and try to beat the guy up. i guess it's a form of flattery if he thinks he's the best thing that happened to the girl...especially when they're not together. |
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Aug 2 2007, 12:31 AM
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yeah...i dated this girl then her best friend dated me behind her back. but i was kind of lied to because the friend told me her best friend was ok with it.
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Aug 2 2007, 04:37 PM
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Yeah I would.
But I'd make sure its at least 2 months after their relationship. |
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Aug 3 2007, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(nerjalover2007 @ Aug 2 2007, 04:37 PM) Yeah I would. fuuuuuuuuuuck that. if someone was your true friend, they wouldn't care, over them or not. just because you dated him does not mean there is a label placed on his forehead saying he has once been claimed.But I'd make sure its at least 2 months after their relationship. girls are confusing. just date the person you like and move on. |
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Aug 3 2007, 07:56 AM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
My best friend's ex was my longest and most serious relationship.
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