Could you handle having a gay best friend? |
 May 26 2007, 02:31 PM
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So, I've been wondering. . .how many of you guys could handle having a gay best friend? Feel free to post as to why or why not that situation would work for you.
I would be totally comfortable with it myself. I already have many gay friends and they're all cool people. They understand the difference between us being friends and us being something more. If they were to develop feelings for me, they know they'd be able to say something and I'd be ok with it and we could work it out. - - - - - - - |
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Jul 8 2007, 07:02 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
it'd be like when you're eating something, and someone asks for a bite and i'm like No.
bite? Bite? BITE?! omfg...EFFING NO!  uh, that was my analogy for the day. 
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Jul 8 2007, 08:19 PM
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Bone?
Bone? PLEASE BONE?! |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Jul 8 2007, 10:14 PM
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Bone?er?
Bone?er? PLEASE BONE ME?! 
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Jul 11 2007, 02:20 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Shit, I'm gay and I have more friends than I could possibly imagine.
 Though, honestly, I feel uncomfortable hanging out with straight guys because sometimes they're just idiots and I want to punch them in their effing faces. Let me address some myths: 1) I WILL NOT HIT ON YOU. Okay, first of all, you're probably too ugly. Secondly, you probably have a brain of a fly. Finally, I hit on guys who like other guys thank you very much.  2) Not all gay guys are flamboyant fruit cakes. Some act as normal as straight guys if not "straighter" to prove that they're not pussies. 3) I don't get why straight guys think that they have to work so hard to talk to us. Seriously, you can talk about girls to me. Although I would never bang a girl, I can still say if they're ugly as shit or not, etc. etc. 4) Homophobes, go suck a goat. That's all I can think of right now. Kthxbi. PS: And what the f**k? What's with gay guys hitting on straight guys these days? QUOTE all you'd have to say it "no". then if they keep doing, than that's just rude. If they keep doing it, then they're effing desperate and need to get a life. |
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Jul 14 2007, 06:08 PM
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Had one. Disaster.
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Jul 14 2007, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(ThomasC @ Jul 11 2007, 02:13 PM)  yobaka3, SinfullySweet. I have no idea what your posts have to do with having a gay best friend  LOL. Okayyy Thomas. I have handled having gay friends. Its nothing new. Some of my best friends are. And Mini is right, alot of people should throw away their stereotypical ideas that all gays are fruitcaked trannys. Its not true at all. Most of the gays I know act, look, talk, and react the same as straight boys. |
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Jul 14 2007, 07:27 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i just get annoyed when girls want to be my best friend based soley on the fact that i'm gay.
like we're all just one-demensional.
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Jul 14 2007, 08:24 PM
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i think it shouldnt matter
let people live the way they want to live and not having to have other people run your life for you |
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Jul 15 2007, 11:08 AM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
I agree with Mini (I'm not gay, but everything else).
I hate how people act as if gay people are a species and not actual people. Just because they're gay doesn't mean that they like you. It makes no sense at all to me when people think that. So yes, I could handle a gay best friend. Afterall, they'd be my best friend, so what would it matter if they were gay? |
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| *Sandraaa* |
Jul 15 2007, 12:28 PM
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I'm pretty sure that the majority of those who are saying 'yes' can't handle it finally. My friends are like that too ... 'oh, I could so handle it, it's just their orientation' but when they come accross homosexuals, they're like 'eww, nasty people'.
Being that I'm bisexual, it isn't a problem, plus my brother is gay. |
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Jul 19 2007, 05:53 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Jul 14 2007, 07:08 PM) Had one. Disaster. I can be your new gay best friend. QUOTE i just get annoyed when girls want to be my best friend based soley on the fact that i'm gay. like we're all just one-demensional. stubborn.gif Haha, that's weird. I never had that happen to me.
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Jul 20 2007, 12:02 AM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 19 2007, 05:53 PM) Haha, that's weird. I never had that happen to me. it's cuz they all think that i'm gonna tell them when they're hair looks good or bad. Or that i'm going to go shopping with them... and i'm like, i only care about my own hair. And i only like shopping for myself...by myself. 
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Jul 20 2007, 01:06 AM
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QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 19 2007, 06:53 PM) I can be your new gay best friend. ^:O be mine xP. Anyway,I'm bi.My close friends know it.They love me.So yeah I can handle having one.Just don't hit on me. . . especially in front of my mom or dad. . . they will shoot you and bury you in front of train tracks and watch you get run over O.O |
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Jul 21 2007, 06:05 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(Frankie @ Jul 20 2007, 01:02 AM) it's cuz they all think that i'm gonna tell them when they're hair looks good or bad. Or that i'm going to go shopping with them... and i'm like, i only care about my own hair. And i only like shopping for myself...by myself. Haha. You're selfish! But no, the reason no one does that to me is because I'm really mean towards a lot of people (not cruelly but jokingly). So most of them are too intimidated unless they genuinely like me. QUOTE ust don't hit on me. . . especially in front of my mom or dad. . . they will shoot you and bury you in front of train tracks and watch you get run over O.O Obviously people would know better seeing how most parents are ultra traditional and conservative. |
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Jul 22 2007, 02:18 AM
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 Get at me Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964 |
if he wasn't didn't look at me in that gay way than yeah.
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Jul 22 2007, 03:09 AM
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 The more things change,The more they stay the same. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,319 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,600 |
I would be totally Ok with it!
I mean,You were their friend before,So I mean as long as they are the same person I wouldnt have a problem with that! |
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Jul 30 2007, 05:05 PM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
It shouldn't be a problem. They are the same person, and you wouldn't be much of a friend if you stopped liking them for that reason.
I wouldn't have a problem with it. |
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Aug 5 2007, 03:23 AM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Jul 8 2007, 08:14 PM) PLEASE BONE ME?! Tsk tsk, this isn't the first time you asked. |
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Aug 5 2007, 06:04 AM
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 I'm like a leaf on the wind, watch how I soar Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 555,605 |
I'd be fine with it. Just because someone is gay, it doesn't mean that they're going to hit on me. And if they do, just tell them you don't swing that way. But people seem to think that just because someone is gay and you're a guy, that said gay person is immediately going to lust after you like a fly on some very seductive manure. (Futurama FTW) So I'd have no problem with it. It wouldn't be fair to reject them, it's not their 'fault' that they're gay. |
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Sep 11 2007, 07:22 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
Yes
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| *IVIike* |
Sep 11 2007, 07:44 PM
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QUOTE(Ma Ass is WOW @ May 28 2007, 09:44 PM) Gay guys are pretty good wingmen. yeah they are
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Sep 12 2007, 07:13 PM
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I probably can. I wouldn't mind. I know one or two gay people and they're pretty cool to be around with.
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Sep 12 2007, 07:25 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I think i could handle it.
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Sep 13 2007, 05:14 AM
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i actually have a gay best friend
so it dosent bother me i mean they r still human after all i jus get sick of people who protest against them i dont see whats wrong wif it ? they have rights jus like the rest of us 
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Sep 19 2007, 02:37 PM
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im not a guy but yes. I hate when people say "lyke omg they will like me! ewwww" um no okay? lol thats just dumb
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