We need to really toughen up our bashing policy.I mean yea, I know we are personified as Nazis, but it's not fair to have members get pushed away because of people like that.

Some people seem to forget that this site does not operate on their terms. Multiple people start shit just to start shit because they think it livens up the place.IT DOESN'T. IT PUSHES PEOPLE AWAY INTO THINKING WE ARE A BUNCH OF ASSHOLES.

When there are truly GOOD people on here, there's again the concern about how we are Nazis, but this accusation has come from a bunch of bitter "has-beens". What I'm thinking is that the simple verbal warning and warning doesn't work. Because you bust them in one topic and tell them "If you bash them lalalallal its a verbal warning" and they stop for 2 hours and then when they hear something they don't like or find foolish they go at it again like 2 teenage lovers. It's bullshit.

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Some of us, including myself have been guilty of in the past, come in to these kind of topics to "mock" or insult someone because they are young and are sexually exploring. I, personally, as much as I find some of the questions silly, have come to realize that they don't deserve this kind of treatment as they have come to a forum to ask for advice and help from people similar in age asking for things they might not be comfortable asking a friend IRL or searching online because they are afraid their parents might check up on them or something. The least we as a community can do is make them feel welcome and try to help them as best as we can. Even if she's 14 and didn't know the reason as to why she let her BF finger her, that's none of our business to belittle her on. It's her body; let her learn the good parts of that and the bad. That's whats it's all about.

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Some of this wasn't so bad.. but a good majority of this was bickering and arguing and downgrading. As you can see the original poster was having some serious issues. Why should this person have to put up with name calling and stuff like that?

And then not to mention there the people who do the "Quote-reply with "LOL UR SO FUNNY". Shit like that adds gas to the fire. At some schools when a fight goes on, the people who fight get in trouble along with the people who watch/instigate the fight. That should be something to consider too. Maybe not a warning but reprimanding or giving a verbal warning might suffice.

I know this has been addressed so many times but...this is starting to becomes cB's reputation of spammers, assholes, n00bs and "Nazis".

This kind of behavior is something we shouldn't have to tolerate or put up with..

Sorry guy. Rome is burning, and I've got a fiddle to play.

I hope you weren't referring to this:

It's people like you with such a negative attitude that makes CB an unfriendly place. Don't put the blame completely on the mods. It's only member bashing if you break the member bashing rule. I'm sure you would hate for me to quote it for you.

Really now. I remember a time with some really cool people here. And that time is now. If you miss your cool people, join them. Suggestions for improvement are always appreciated. You know what your problem is? You can no longer use tact when you're doing it.

I dunno, it seems like I've made quite a few friends recently.



I love how you guys seem to think that I'm the only one.

They are welcome to leave with you too.Infact,Why dont you make your own forum..and do what you want on there?

Why the generalization? And what makes you think that? I was quoting you. Hence, whatever I said would apply to you. There are others but you're the one who is most vocal and most tactless, imho.

Ohoho, who's being unwelcoming now?

Like I said, I have a fiddle to play.

Im not saying your not welcome here.Because I was here for a bit when you were really sweet.But you have yourself made it known that you do not like this place,that you do not want to be here..Then why bother with all the trouble?

It's no trouble for me. In fact, it seems like you guys are the ones having a lot of trouble coming up with excuses to ban me.

Don't tell me this is just an act to be banned. Banning is used as a last resort; surely you would know that.

Speaking of last resorts...

No witty response to my post? :(

I was referring to the "joining them" part, but nice try.

Heh.

I think people need to just calm down in general. It's fine and dandy when the entire community makes shit up about people and then bashes the hell out of them, basically LYNCHES them until they get fed up and leave the forum for a long term of absence (which HAS happened to at least 3 people).

But if it's one person against the community, all shit hits the fan, and mods start putting people in time-out.

I remember when we gave out suspensions and bans for REAL reasons, not for merely criticizing people maybe a little too harshly. There's no rule here that states you have to have a certain amount of tact.

After all people like kryo and I have done for this forum in the past, I think dealing with a little attitude is not a lot to ask for.

Oh, how soon they forget.

HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH.

From what I've seen, it's not a little attitude (and generally, a little attitude is tolerated) but even still, that shouldn't be a reason to excuse him.

If it werent for him and a few other of the original xangans members, this place probably wouldnt be as successful as it is today. You think about that and learn to have some appreciation.

but that doesn't give him or any original xangans members the right to be an a-hole.

yes, sometimes he's entertaining and tells things blunt and like it is, but more often than not, he does things to start shit and to be needlessly mean. that does not deserve any appreciation, no matter how long he's been here or what he's done.

I wonder, has Jusun ever said anything about how many times I've bitched out other members just for having no sense of style?

Has he said anything about kyro's current attitude?

I remember when I raised some slight concern over seon ho's attitude in the past, and he just laughed it off.

the point is... who f**king cares?

Wait wait wait, WHAT?

i love how still no one has addressed my first post in this thread about how if its the entire community against one person for no f**king reason, bashing them to the point of forcing them to leave, it's just no big deal. it's all fun and games. if it's the other way around, everyone has to raise a big f**king stink.

I believe I vaguely reffered to incidents involving at least 3 people.

Either way, this forum was a lot better when mods and admins were stern but also didnt have a stick two feet up their asses.

Who is "bashing" James?

WTF are you talking about?

I'm waiting for an answer.