is your relationship based on love or lust? be honest.

mine is completely based on love and compassion.

Love... hell we haven't even had one argument yet. Seems like we're perfectly made for each other. True Soul Mates.

I just realized that on July 7th... it'll be one year :D

Both I suppose.

both

it's always both for everybody. even if it's just a little lust.

well for me. it's love and it will always be love for me.

I don't lust. I've never conformed with our society. Not even porn turns me on (Yes I'm 100% physically/psychologically healthy).

haha wow. so you never thought of it?
well.. i guess for most of the people it's both. even if it's just a little.

but if you look at the bigger picture.
it's either love or lust i guess.

Society didn't teach me to like porn.

I wouldn't actually say "love". I'd say its based on how I feel for them emotionally. Sure, looks and everything are nice, but they're not what make up a relationship.

SEX ONLY SEX SEX SEX

Definitely both in some way, but more so love.

i agree, except, maybe my views of love are different from yours, but i think "love" is built on emotional understanding and compatibility (plus a whole lot more)



and i dont think its healthy to not lust.... in fact that might be unhealthy considering, by rights you guys should because of tetosterone levels...
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and no.... relationships are not based on both. it can include both, but it cannot be based on both. i think some are not really understanding the question... here, ill ask it another way, um.... ok.... is love the solid foundation of your relationship, or is lust?

It is based on love. But that does not mean we can keep our hands off of each other.

Your 100% full of yourself.

Listen little emo child, get off my cock. lol

yobaka has searched all my posts and making remarks to all my posts. What a immature child.

Nope, I refresh and see your stupid name on my stupid forum and it drives me nuts.

And if I got anywhere near your cock, I promise you, I wouldn't be on it, I would be kicking it.

Buuut at the same time I do think your 100% full of yourself. GOSH, why can't I just share my OPINION?

the last month, its been lust. cuz its kinda hard to love over the internet ya know? not that there isnt love..but the foundation has been lust. but as soon as i see him againt and can talk to him on anything other than the net, it'll switch over.

Right. Can the two of you please drop it? yobaka, if he is causing you so much agro, then stop replying to him.

Tama, I understand if this is irritating you, but please refrain from replying, it doesn't help. 'Listen little emo cild, get off my cock,' is hardly constructive.

*edit*

fathomlessdame beat me to it. that was addressed to Tamacracker and yobaka3, just to be clear.

I agree, I already dropped the heat. Sorry yobaka for disrespecting you. I'll try to ignore your posts

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That was my effort.

Well true, but what does testosterone levels have to do with feelings? Lust by definition:

1. intense sexual desire or appetite.
2. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
3. a passionate or overmastering desire or craving (usually fol. by for): a lust for power.
4. ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish: an enviable lust for life.
5. Obsolete.
a. pleasure or delight.
b. desire; inclination; wish.
–verb (used without object)
6. to have intense sexual desire.
7. to have a yearning or desire; have a strong or excessive craving (often fol. by for or after).

So when you say, is your relationship of lust or love. I'm assuming you're asking;
Is your relationship of feelings/affections or
Is your relationship of sexual desire/meaningless relationship?


Now you COULD call a sexual urge a form of lust, yes. But what if that sexual urge with your loved one has a lot of feelings and loving thoughts behind it?. And you think of your partner and what they're thinking, how they're feeling, while you make love.

Unlike lust, lust would be more about your physical/sexual gratification. It would be a selfish sexual urge. Lust would be meaningless, you'd randomly have sex, even if you're stress out, you'd use sex as a form of not just physical release but stress release/relief as well. Lust is a grave sin, and is definitely not permissible in the sake of morality.

With my last ex boyfriend (I'm hoping we get back together), it's all about lust. We don't want 'love'. I don't think I'm ready for all that yet.

Im engaged so its love.
Im not gonna get into the mushy details

usually the first thought i have with my girls is something along the lines of "Man! I would split her in half" then i proceed to court them if necessary, however, in college, it rarely is

on my side, love
on his, lust

ex.