Could you handle having a gay best friend? |
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 May 26 2007, 02:31 PM
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So, I've been wondering. . .how many of you guys could handle having a gay best friend? Feel free to post as to why or why not that situation would work for you.
I would be totally comfortable with it myself. I already have many gay friends and they're all cool people. They understand the difference between us being friends and us being something more. If they were to develop feelings for me, they know they'd be able to say something and I'd be ok with it and we could work it out. - - - - - - - |
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May 26 2007, 02:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I'm a girl, and one of my close was bisexual. I was completely fine with it. I think that having someone so close to me be bi opened my mind to homosexuality.
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May 26 2007, 03:09 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
There's nothing wrong with it at all. So yes I could handle it.
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| *steve330* |
May 26 2007, 03:11 PM
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Yeah, aint nothing wrong with that. Found out one of my best friends used to be bisexual with a tendency to go for the guy side, though he's since changed his orientation towards women.
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May 26 2007, 04:00 PM
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so, he turned straight? what? lol. |
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May 26 2007, 04:49 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
if he were gay he wouldn't be my friend
lurk moar plz |
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May 26 2007, 05:05 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I think that I could handle it unless he/she started hitting on me @_@
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May 26 2007, 05:31 PM
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 vengeance. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
I'm a girl, I have a gay friend. He has alot of friends, I don't think they mind it.
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May 26 2007, 06:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,291 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 503,024 |
I guess i could handle it until he starts getting all physical and stuff.
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May 27 2007, 08:54 AM
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 hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
Yeah i'd be fine aslong as he did things i was not comfortable with. Pretty much anythng homo.
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May 27 2007, 11:23 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 527,288 |
There aren't really any actions that can be deemed homosexual. We have our stereotypical image of how a gay person should act, but that's not always the case.
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| *IVIike* |
May 27 2007, 07:55 PM
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probably as long as i knew they wern't interested in me
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| *SayBloodyMary* |
May 28 2007, 08:48 AM
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Well, yes. I mean, assuming that he or she was also a pleasant person, of course.
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May 28 2007, 10:44 AM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I think I have more straight guys who do stereotypical gay tendencies more then the 2 actual gay guys I'm friends with. It makes me wonder about my straight friends who do that. I wouldn't really mind if I had my 2 gay friends interested in me. Aslong as they knew I was straight and they don't do anything I'm uncomfortable with.
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May 28 2007, 11:03 AM
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 zen-nation Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 488,292 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ May 26 2007, 11:05 PM)  Well my best friend is a guy..if he turned gay right now, I wouldn't stop being friends with him. Unless he changed who he was. Not just his sexual preference.. Yeah I agree..but one thing bothers me is that some people I have came across always makesure that other's know they are gay/lesbian/bi.. and it is a huge let down cause they're not distiguishing their personality but instead their sexuality towards random people... I dunno if that makes sense? 
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May 28 2007, 03:09 PM
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 Don't touch me you drink! Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,707 |
my best friend is Gay....and I love him to death, and the thing is... I didn't really know until he told me, even though I was suspicious that he was....but I have no problem with it.
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May 28 2007, 08:44 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
Gay guys are pretty good wingmen.
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Jun 2 2007, 09:01 PM
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The sexuality of my friends doesn't really affect how close i become to them. However, I do understand how it would be awkward if my best friend was gay and liked me, or if my best friend was a girl and she had began to develop different types of emotions for me.
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Jun 10 2007, 08:44 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
Well I wouldn't have a problem with it. Most of my friends already have a suspicion cuz of my effeminate tendencies, but i dont think they'd really care if I was until I just randomly made advances on them. But frankly, I wouldn't care: I have several friends who are open lesbians/bis.
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Jun 10 2007, 10:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
when did gay people are generally more active than straight in this forum.
where are the straight guys just ... like me? Lol. |
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Jun 10 2007, 10:32 PM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(Fist @ Jun 10 2007, 11:24 PM) when did gay people are generally more active than straight in this forum. where are the straight guys just ... like me? Lol. LMAO, cause they are hiding in the other threads. |
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Jun 10 2007, 10:43 PM
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 x_pinaystyle_x Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 366,326 |
yeahhh!! having gay best friends are freakin awesome!!
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Jun 11 2007, 08:27 PM
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probably.. but if they started hitting on me,
i'd probably start walking away from them.. that would be really weird, and make me feel really incomfortable.. sorry 
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Jun 12 2007, 01:48 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
I have a lot of friends that are gay. I actually had one of my friends come out of the closet, recently. It was fun. :]
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Jun 13 2007, 01:17 AM
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Does it really matter, as long as they were the same person?
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