there's this guy named dillon. i've been good friends with him for almost two years. i thought he was cute to begin with, but i didn't have any desire to date him at that point. over time though, i think i'm starting to really like him. everyone keeps saying that we should date, but whenever i think about it, i have doubts and i don't know why. i do have a desire to date him now, but sometimes i just don't have any interest at all. i've been having dreams about him. but not like...bad ones, you know. so i'm not sure if it's just a little crush or not.

I think you should give it a try. You probably don't want to risk losing his friendship if the relationship doesn't go well, but it's worth a shot. Or see what he thinks about it

It sounds like you want to date him but your scared that if you two go out it might wreck your friendship. The best thing I think is that you should talk it over with him and see if he feels the same way about you and if he goes just give it a shot. If it fails, im sure you guys would still be good friends.

a bit. i haven't seen him all summer. he used to call me alot, but not now. and everytime i call him i get his answering machine. i miss him, which is another sign. and my mom says that it's extremely obvious.
i mailed him on myspace(stupid, i know, but i couldn't talk to him on the phone)about it, and he just read it and didn't reply.
our conversation. it was sent on june the first, and he hasn't been online since then, that i know of. it's kindof random but, i think i got my point across.

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heyy. i have a question.
uhmmmm. do you like me as more than a friend. b/c everyone keeps saying that we'd make a good couple and poo. and...yeah.
either way, i still want to be friends or whatever. [:

and guess what. i get my monroe tomorrow. ahhh.

Talk to him about it.
I may seem weird to just bring it up, but it's really not that big of a deal
:)

aww sounds like me and my crush!! i've liked this guy for like 2 years too, and we JUST kissed last thursday...
but yeah i can see your doubts. i always thought he was cute and a great guy but i had no idea if he liked me that way or even had interest. well he does, but we're not together or anything..yet. i would just talk to him. if you guys have been friends for that long, as long as the relationship doesn't end badly, you guys will stay friends no matter what. thats kinda how i feel about my guy. i want to give it a try, why not? and why not just see what happens? you never know until you try!

well, he finally got on myspace. before, i had left him the message above, and after i saw he read it and didn't reply, i sent him another that said something along the lines of "you should reply when people ask you questions." and red and didn't reply to that one either. i also left him this comment a while ago.

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this makes me mad. we're out of school and i never get to see you. and you're never online. you don't call me anymore and anytime i think about calling you it's at like one in the morning. i miss you and it gets on my nerves. poo.
and i'm not a potty mouth.

and he replyed today with...

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haha lol. haven't logged in for a while.. i forgot about myspace lol

and nothing else. no i'm having my doubts. usually, that either means that they don't like you and they don't want to hurt your feelings or they really like you but their too shy to tell you. so now i'm even more confused. i'll probably call him tomorrow and talk to him about it, if i get the nerve. i really hate relating this whole topic to myspace, but i have no other way of talking to him until he picks up his phone.
it's funny though, because i do like him, but i don't feel nervous around him. usually with guys you like(especially me), you act strange and i don't around him. i can be myself and i feel like i can trust him with anything, which is strange. also, a while ago when i liked this guy named lee, i told dillon because he kept asking who i was obsessing over. i finally told him, and he seemed kindof jelous. but i trusted him, and he didn't tell lee.

I think maybe you should just keep trying top call him and email him for maybe a couple days. Maybe hes grounded? Try sending him another email saying "I like you please reply ^-^" and he probably will, I mean who cant resist please and ^-^?

so i just got done talking to him on the phone. he mentioned the myspace messages, and just said that he checked them and i sent three.
and right when i was about to tell him, he said he had to go.

i say you go for what your heart feels is the best desicion!
that always works?

He does seeem a bit stand-off-ish. But, maybe he's just too afraid of going to fast, or losing as a friend, or whatever. Or, maybe he just doesn't want to date you. There really is no way to know, unless you ask him. And, he's like ignoring you.

My best friend's going through this situation to, and I had no idea what to tell her. She finally ended up just not talking to him for a few days. [Which just started today] I think that's what you should do. Maybe when you back off, he'll think you might change your mind, and make a move. :]

that's what i was thinking. he's like that around lots of people though. he's shy. i probably will end up backing off and seeing how he takes it. thanks.

eh. i'm pretty sure he doesn't like me much, which is fine.

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heyy.
it's kindof obvious that i like you. and it's kindof obvious that you don't like me. i'm way over lee. anyways. [:
it doesn't really hurt my feelings that you don't like me or whatever. so don't feel bad, mkay? i can understand why you don't though.
what are you up to?

and he said something along the lines of chicken noodle soup or something. he's random. and stand-off-ish. so i'll let our friendship be, i suppose. thanks.

Hmm. I guess it's better he replied with something random, than being a dick. Lawlz.

It's good you didn't get really hurt over the whole thing.

now i'm confused again. yesterday i posted this stupid survey thing on a bulliten when i was bored. it was just a random survey, and one of the questions was do you think anyone likes you. i said i doubt it. nowhere did i say anyone's name. and he mailed me asking why i thought he didn't like me. so i'm not sure if he does or if he doesn't. i think i'm going to ask him straight out so i can get an answer.

guys are confusing as hell. especially when your talking on the internet cuz they always make things simple and dont say much.

i would try to maybe hang out with him somtime..meh idk what. but then you ask him what his true feelings about you are.

he's definitly trying to avoid answering your questions. try to meet him one day and ask him then, so he won't be able to just ignore you.

so, my friends and i are going to sx flags in a couple of weeks. they're inviting their boyfriends, so figured i'd invite him. i called him to invite him, and he said he had his friend on the other line and that he'd three-way me. so i hung up the phone and started talking to my friend that called. i went over to her house and told her that had no one to go with yet. so she took it upon herself to call this guy who 've kindof liked for a while and ask him if he would go. and he said yes. i haven't talked to the guy that was supposed to call me back yet. so that's the position i'm in now. also, there are two other people that are trying to hook me up with two other guys. ehhh. this is so confusing.