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Well, I guess this is sort of the same situation, I'm not too sure....

My friend just started dating this guy and since they started going out, her and I haven't talked like, at all. Which annoys the hell out of me. She would always say stuff about my boyfriend and how I could do better, but now I can't say anything. I don't want to lose her as a friend... but I don't really have much of a choice.

Anyway... maybe your friend doesn't realize that actually hanging out with friends will make her feel better. Like, my boyfriend went away for a little while and all I've really been doing is hanging out with friends. It's cheering me up a lot. Call her and talk to her. You never know.

Throw some Ds on that bitch.

Forget her.I mean it know be hard to lose a good friend but still.If she gonna do that then she will one day relize how much she needs you and then she'll remember how she let you go and will come back crawling.So dont even stress it.

Same thing kinda happened to me. My gf broke up with me and she said *oh yea we're still gonna hang and be friends* Then the next week my grandfather passed and when i tried to talk to her she just ignored me. Then one of my friends was stabbed to death and yet again she ignored me. Then I finally sat her down and was just asking you know what's wrong with you why won't you help me. Then she said *I don't want to be your friend, i think it's time to move on. things won't be the same* and there im thinking no shit cause we're not going out how does that affect our friendship. but my other friends were there for me and helped me overcome her acting liek a child.

But not to sound rude or anything but iunno it's over. It's sacifice. Sometimes thing need to be sacrificed in life just for the greater purpose. I know you feel bad now but over time you'll feel better. Self Sacrifice goes a long way, when one door closes a new one is opened. You just have to be brave enough to walk through it.

^ agreed.

Somtimes, you lose friends you love. If you just can't live without her, then you should tell her. And, do your best to see her. =]

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my friend does that, too. i was with my girlfriend for 8 months and cheated on her with one of my ex's. well, i kinda got back together with my ex and my friend hated that. though, while i was going out with the girl that i cheated on, my friend had a boyfriend who i didn't really like, but was forced to hang out with if i'd ever want to hang out with her. i even told her that i didn't care for him. well back to getting with my ex, she was totally against it, though she knew nothing about her and held it against me that she didn't like him. the girl i was with and i split ways and now my friend is happy, but now with her exboyfriend, who i apparently put my 2 cents in about because she's a hypocrit and thinks that what i'm doing is wrong, though she did the same.

i dont think that made sense, but i'm not reading over it. follow along and work it out if you care.

perfectly stated! i agree