My boyfriend and I have been sorta having problems. Its a long distance relationship so its kinda hard. We started going out March 27th 2007 and we broke up twice already basically trust issues. We broke up on April 4th because i didn't answer my phone because i was at my friends house and got back together. Then we broke up again on the 5th because i was on the phone with my dad and didn't pick up and got back together. He him self says he doesn't trust me. Am i doing stuff for him not to trust me? By going to my friends house and talking on the phone with my dad? Is that not trust worthy? So far today which is the 6th, we have been fine.

I think the relationship is rather boring. I like him but when we talk on the phone neither of us have anything to say. Basically its hey whats what are you doing blah blah blah then silence. Then we end up having phone sex which is alright but i rather not do that ever day like once and awhile is ok then he gets mad because i wont do it.

I think the only reason were together is the videos i send him and the pictures. I barely get any pictures or videos back.

I also think he thinks i do stuff wrong by reading this, Do you think i am doing anything wrong? and also i wanna know what kind of relationship do we have?

Thanks in advance!

Well he seems to have trust issues so tell him that you can do what you want and assure him that you're not doing anything wrong. Give him an ultimatum, if you don't trust me I shouldn't trust you and a relationship can't work if we don't trust each other. Tell him that you have a life besides him and that you don't wanna have phone sex every day. If he can't handle that then just leave him. He should respect your choices.

I dont understand his trust issues either.. i tell him i trust him.. and tell him why can he just trust me and hes like i dont know.. i think maybe he acts like that because he was in other relationships were he coudnt trust but i dont know. i know i tell him im like if you cant trust me i dont think were gonna work and stuff.. i think that he wants me to make him my everything which isnt gonna happen but thanks

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no, your not doing stuff for him to not trust you. you're only talking you your dad on the phone. he's your DAD. and your boyfriend got mad over that? so, in order for him to trust you, you can't even talk to your dad on the phone but you have to answer every single call he makes? ...

your not doing ANYTHING wrong. he shouldn't be breaking up with you for that. unless you did something realllly wrong in the past, then maybe that's why he can't trust you. but if you didn't cheat or anything, then it's not your fault.

your guys' relationship is not going to work in the long run. he is way too clingy & paranoid, you're going to end up getting fed up with that. i think you should say how often you see him, that's an important detail because if you don't see him a lot then, that's a mess. long distance, depending on how far apart you guys are just sorta sucks in general, unless both of you are willing to trust each other completely & see each other as much as possible. you can't just have a relationship based on phone sex & just over the phone in general. i think you should dump him for good & find someone more interesting & closer to you. that's my opinion.

So you guys have been together for 11 days and already broke up TWICE? o.O Wow. That's ... amazing to say the least.

As for him, I don't think he's a good boyfriend to you. Relationships are about trust...and if he can't even trust you over the smallest things, such as going to your friend's house or talking to your Dad over the phone...then how is he going to trust you in your long distance relationship. Trust is VERY important in ANY Relationship, but more so in long distance...if he can't trust you, then the future will indeed be very very rocky for you two.

Also, if you have nothing to talk to him about over the phone...then doesn't that tell you something? Sure there might be "chemistry" between you two online, but overtime, being able to have deep conversations is a very important aspect of a relationship. Being able to talk to each other freely is a way of connecting to each other...and if you can't do that...then well...maybe you really shouldn't be with him. Also, one thing I find to be odd is how you don't have anything to talk to him about over the phone. I remember when I started going out with my boyfriend...I had SO much to talk to him about that I wonder if I'll ever run out of things to say o him...half a year on Sunday and I'm still telling him lots and lots everyday.

I think you should either a) have a heart to heart talk to him about his issues or b) break it off. If nothing changes, I see that you two will have a very rough relationship...possibly not lasting for very long.

he broke up with me again because i told him i was going to the movies and he ask if i was going with a guy and i said no because thats the truth i was going with my best friend amanda and he didn't believe so he said it was over so i told him it was over for good but yea he lived 2 hours.. it suck cuz neither for us have cars so we never really saw each other but your right im going someone more interesting & closer to you. thanks



he just broke up with me again becuase a trust issue its like he wants me to give up everything for him and im not ready just to give myself to someone but im pretty sure its over for good because im getting sick of it

and like i wanted to open up to him and taslk to him bout stuff but i thought he would make a big deal since he makes a big deal bout little things.. like usually i can talk forever on the phone with people but he was different so i did notice something wrong there

ohh about online his computer broke so that why we used to always use the phone


but i decided its over for good

and thank you

pic of u plz

fyi tell him he is not worth ur time
own him

Okay, let me tell you from experience on different relationships, all of which have covered the same issues you're going through: IT'S NOT WORTH IT. I guarentee you... you could be spending your time on someone so much better. This is so not worth the trouble you're going through.

And you've only been together for what, a week and a half? Wtf. This is stupid. DUMP HIMMMMM.

If your boyfriend can't even trust that you are only on the phone with your dad then why even bother to be with him. There's probably someone better more close to home.

i know i dont understand him but its over for good.. yea i didnt cheat on him or anything but thanks



the only way ill send you pics if i get to know you
do you have a screen name on aim?
mine is I 1 L 7 Y

and by the way i broke up with him thanks



yea thats true.. i broke up with him for good.. i gotta look for someone better and closer thanks



yea i know its stupid butyea i broke up with him thank you

Give up now because it ain't gonna work.

good for you

Im having quite similiar problem wif my bf at the moment, and Im tryin to move on. I realize its really not worth it, even i still love him, deeply. I know its not easy, u need to try hard. I suggest u to move on, u have to believe that there is someone out there who will love u and treat u better than he does.

Break up with him, quick fast and simple.

Thats true. Keep believing and keep going. This guy isn't worth it. One of the foundations of a relationship is trust. Without it you might as well be single.

Sounds like you guys really need to talk. I've been in a few relationships like that, and they suck. Hope it works out for you, honey!

Wow he sounds possessive. And if you find the relationship boring anyways, why were you with him in the first place?