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14/15-year olds who have sex = No-No
animalinside
post Apr 10 2007, 07:10 PM
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^ You are still the creator of many racist posts and topics, and please dont call me your homeboy, im not worthy...Ive read more than enough of your posts to make my assumptions

I dont really care what you claim you are, but i have a strong feeling that your spirit is more than demolished by now.

F.Y.I. maybe you should have a reality check once in your life...those people at your high school that you cry about prolly dont like you for a reason....and its prolly the same reason why many here have a problem with you..just saying though..but you prolly wont listen to me since you're not too used to doing that sort of thing anyway.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 07:21 PM
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QUOTE(Brilliance @ Apr 10 2007, 8:10 PM) *
^ You are still the creator of many racist posts and topics, and please dont call me your homeboy, im not worthy...Ive read more than enough of your posts to make my assumptions

I dont really care what you claim you are, but i have a strong feeling that your spirit is more than demolished by now.

F.Y.I. maybe you should have a reality check once in your life...those people at your high school that you cry about prolly dont like you for a reason....and its prolly the same reason why many here have a problem with you..just saying though..but you prolly wont listen to me since you're not too used to doing that sort of thing anyway.


Haha say whatever you want, what your saying isn't hurting me at all. I have a good soul, and a good spirit. And trust me, I understand teens are very tempted to have sex sometimes and they need that pleasure, but those who sacrifice it for the future are very good people and those are people God will truly love. And I'm sure I don't talk about people at my school that much ... and those people are most likely about 2 or 3. Not that many to take care of. But thanks for your wonderful contribution. I don't mind getting into problems on a internet forum.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 07:55 PM
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Hey kid... Did you read my post? Christians shouldn't have sex after marriage. GAWWWWW~!!!
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 08:01 PM
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QUOTE(krn_kiddo254 @ Apr 10 2007, 8:55 PM) *
Hey kid... Did you read my post? Christians shouldn't have sex until marriage. GAWWWWW~!!!


That's my point exactly ... but sex in college is rather more not shocking than sex in high school ...
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 08:03 PM
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QUOTE(Statistik @ Apr 10 2007, 9:01 PM) *
That's my point exactly ... but sex in college is rather more not shocking than sex in high school ...
If the point is to not have premarital sex, then sex in college (without getting married) is just as bad as sex during high school.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 08:31 PM
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I dont see what's wrong with a 14/15 yr old having sex.... much younger than that and yeah, I can see the problem.
It all depends on when the specific person is psychologically ready for it. Some 14 yr olds are. They understand risks completely, they know what they're getting themselves into, they're responsible about it, and they're ready for it emotionally.
I do understand that plenty aren't. It all depends the person.
You can't make generalizations about when it's okay for people to do those kinds of things. There are plenty of 18/19 yr olds who are less ready psychologically than some 14/15 yr olds.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 08:47 PM
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So, what's the difference between having sex in high school or college... isn't all sex before marriage wrong... isn't that waht "good christians" believe? So, aren't you contradicting yourself there? and I know people who are 18 and 19 that act like they're still freshman in high school.... if you're mature metally and you fully understnad the risks of having sex then you shouldn't judge them. You have no right to judge any one.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 08:59 PM
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QUOTE(Statistik @ Apr 10 2007, 6:21 PM) *
Haha say whatever you want, what your saying isn't hurting me at all. I have a good soul, and a good spirit. And trust me, I understand teens are very tempted to have sex sometimes and they need that pleasure, but those who sacrifice it for the future are very good people and those are people God will truly love. And I'm sure I don't talk about people at my school that much ... and those people are most likely about 2 or 3. Not that many to take care of. But thanks for your wonderful contribution. I don't mind getting into problems on a internet forum.


I find it quite sad that you actually think im attacking you, your actions towards these people on this internet forum are the same as taking actions on people in real life. Therefore, all your cursing, judging, etc. are just as bad as going out into real life and sexing up lots of people before marriage.

You really cant use religion to defend your views if you only use it as it suits you, that just makes you a hypocrite (which is also another sin). You may personally find yourself "holier" than the sexually active people, but honestly, you're the same in God's eyes as long as there's still sin within. You really need to learn more about what you're claiming before you start condemning people citing ungodliness. You're hurting yourself more than you think.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(bitesnkisses @ Apr 10 2007, 8:47 PM) *
So, what's the difference between having sex in high school or college... isn't all sex before marriage wrong... isn't that waht "good christians" believe? So, aren't you contradicting yourself there? and I know people who are 18 and 19 that act like they're still freshman in high school.... if you're mature metally and you fully understnad the risks of having sex then you shouldn't judge them. You have no right to judge any one.


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I'm not sure if s/he knows what s/he's talking about sometimes, haha.
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 10:58 PM
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so wait wait wait.........



if you and a hot and bothered christina milian were locked in a room together.............
 
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post Apr 10 2007, 11:12 PM
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QUOTE(Statistik @ Apr 10 2007, 6:01 PM) *
That's my point exactly ... but sex in college is rather more not shocking than sex in high school ...
Well if you're a believer of premarital sex, then doing it in college is just about the same as high school. You're only regarding the age differences but define premarital. It means before you are married. Not necessarily college unless you're married by then.
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 02:36 AM
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QUOTE(Statistik @ Apr 10 2007, 7:21 PM) *
Haha say whatever you want, what your saying isn't hurting me at all. I have a good soul, and a good spirit. And trust me, I understand teens are very tempted to have sex sometimes and they need that pleasure, but those who sacrifice it for the future are very good people and those are people God will truly love. And I'm sure I don't talk about people at my school that much ... and those people are most likely about 2 or 3. Not that many to take care of. But thanks for your wonderful contribution. I don't mind getting into problems on a internet forum.


Go back to John 3:16, just the very beginning. "For God so loved the world..."
World means everyone, regardless of your religion or lack of a religion, regardless of your spirituality or lack of spirituality. Nothing you do is going to make God love you less or more, nor does God love anyone else more than He loves you. If He loves, then that's the end of it. There is no *truly* loves. You're special, but you're not that special.

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Jason, before you claim you're good again, go look up the word humility, and not just in the dictionary. If you claim to be Christian, you go by the definitions of the Bible as well.
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 05:32 PM
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In your very first post it says
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"i believe after you graduate high school is the perfect time to start that shit."

You believe that's the perfect time to start having that shit? But yet you agree with the Christian teaching of having sex after marriage at the same time too?

Come on son give me a break.
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 05:56 PM
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Hazadrous, I don't exactly believe in God, so I could care less about what he wants. Don't preach to me, preach to your so-called 'brethren' who thinks he KNOWS everything and is 100 % sinful. Of course you won't do that, instead you choose to 'correct' me and 'preach' to me which makes YOU an idiot. Typical Christians.

Jason, SHUT THE HELL UP. Christianity my a-ss. I am not a Christian. Stop imposing your religion beliefs on people. We don't give a shit.
If people choose to have sex at a certain age (no matter how young they are), you are in NO position to judge them as long as you're not related. Even then, you shouldn't pass witty judgements.

Calling people stupid for not seeing things you Christians should see is IDIOTIC.

You have no right whatsoever to talk about it. It's called RESPECT, you thick head.

If you want to remain a virgin till you get married, good for you. But you should know that there are people who won't, there are people who aren't part of your 'family'. F-ck, this is stupid.
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 06:10 PM
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This should be closed.
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 07:27 PM
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QUOTE(krn_kiddo254 @ Apr 11 2007, 7:10 PM) *
This should be closed.
Why do you think so?
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 07:51 PM
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I truly believe if I had sex at this current age, god would send me to hell.

Are you kidding me? So everyone at your age who has had sex is automatically damned? XD.gif

I'm not saying its okay to have sex at an early age. I agree with you on waiting till at least after high school. But for you to say a person is DAMNED over it? sheeesh.

Are you not aware that in biblical times, and even as late as a hundred - two hundred years ago that women werent getting married at the ages they are now? Somtimes girls were married off as early as 12. So are they damned too? Where in the Bible are you getting your information... or is this something you came up with on your own?
 
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post Apr 11 2007, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(suddenly she @ Apr 11 2007, 3:36 AM) *
Go back to John 3:16, just the very beginning. "For God so loved the world..."
World means everyone, regardless of your religion or lack of a religion, regardless of your spirituality or lack of spirituality. Nothing you do is going to make God love you less or more, nor does God love anyone else more than He loves you. If He loves, then that's the end of it. There is no *truly* loves. You're special, but you're not that special.


OMG thank youuuu. throb.gif

That's exactly what God would say.

It's so ignorant that people believe you have to conform to a certain religion and be a certain kind of person to escape from burning in hell.
 
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QUOTE(kimmytree @ Apr 11 2007, 8:02 PM) *
That's exactly what God would say.

It's so ignorant that people believe you have to conform to a certain religion and be a certain kind of person to escape from burning in hell.


Ahh, blasphemous! rolleyes.gif I'm sure God is much more profound than I am. wink.gif Thanks though.

Anyway, I think someone needs to clarify the exact discussion point of this thread so we won't have people like me bursting open the doors de la thread and overturning tables of Jason, sin, and wickedness when this wasn't meant to have religious content at all... no offense to Jason intended, and I sincerely apologize in advance if you take it badly.

not-so-subtle allusion to Jesus overturning the merchant tables in the temple.
 
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post Apr 12 2007, 03:31 AM
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Euh, excuse me but this WAS meant to have religion contents.
In fact, Jason was the first person to mention 'God' and 'Christianity' so I don't exactly see what you're trying to get at.
 
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post Apr 12 2007, 11:00 AM
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My friend's little 14 year old brother (actually he looks more like 18) has a kid and so does my 16 year old cousin. It doesn't change the way I look and/or think about them because I'm not one to judge and most importantly I'm their friend. It's their life and they made their choice even if things will get much harder.
 
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post Apr 13 2007, 04:56 AM
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I've been thinking about this a while.
I don't think sex is a definite wrong or right thing.
It's kind of simply based on your opinion, no? Plus your religious beliefs and morals.

My opinion: I don't think 14/15 year olds having sex is exactly appropriate. But it's just my opinion. If somebody had sex at a young age, I would probably judge them upon a first impression but it wouldn't affect my views about them substantitally, unless they were totally irresponsible and blatantly having random sex or whatever.
 
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post Apr 13 2007, 02:44 PM
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Are people at that age even mentally ready for that sort of thing? Mentally, and physically? It sort of just seems wrong to me. They are still kids and why would kids even want to do something like that.
 
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QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Apr 13 2007, 5:56 AM) *

I've been thinking about this a while.
I don't think sex is a definite wrong or right thing.
Sex, actually, is supposed to be a very sacred unity.

Though, it's obviously been horribly watered down.
 
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Their bodies, their choices.

Throw 'em a condom to stop the chlamydia and let them have at it if they want to.
 

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