I was raised from the Holy Bible and I think it's wrong that alot of people have sex before marriage. I do get sexual urges somtimes but I can hold them and so can you.

wow u sure are dumb as a girl to have had sex at the age of 14 who does, that was not a smart option you chose, if your "bf" as i should call it offered u sex and wanted sex, u shouldve just nicely decline, but gj screwing up some parts of ur life by losing virginity at that age, u shouldnt have done it and not regret it now.

It's not wrong, it's just incredibly stupid. Yeah, I'm all for kids having sex! Woo!

^Actually, it's BOTH wrong and stupid. just think about it, "sex" is a thing you go through when you've met all the requirements and the average "right time" for "sex" comes when your 18 or above, i highly assume. So I don't think it's right if an 8th grade girl sucked dick and got in through all courses. It's just disgusting. But if you hear if a college junior did that, I wouldn't be shocked at all. who would be? It's the right time at their life to do those shit. go with my words, everyone.

I don't think its wrong, as long as you're mature enough to take responsibility and use protection.

This upset me. I will tell you why, you should never EVER call someone dumb. Her actions might have been wrong but she CLEARLY expressed remorse and a mature reason for not wanting to have sex again. I think personally people are not dumb...its the actions they take that are dumb. I also think that your choice in words were dumb. k thanks. :)

There is so much wrong with most if not all of your posts that i wont even go into details

There is no such thing as an age to be ready to have sex, as long as your doing it with a decent purpose (i.e. reproduction) its morally alright, but who really cares about morals anymore, people make "morals" nowadays to try and make their actions seem better than others. People try to justify sex before marriage by saying "im gonna be with this guy the rest of my life, so what does it matter?" chances are they prolly wont, so this is really nothing different than casual sex imho, but whatever. As long as your capable and ready to deal with the consequences, it really doesnt matter when you start having sex if you dont plan to be abstinent.

i think anyone younger than 16 who had sex is wrong, but thts just me. besides 16 is the age consent for most states so...younger than tht u basically breakin the law but hey, do whatchu gotta do just be prepared for consequences

I'm 14 (how many damn posts have started this exact same way???) and I've seen a lot of guys use girls like this. I had a friend who had sex with a guy multiple times and then he broke up with her when he found a girl "hotter" than her and told her he was only using her for sex. In your case, I think it was wrong because you don't think he loves you. But it's too late now. Sex is an emotional thing for girls. I don't have an ideal age in mind. I think that when you decide to lose your virginity you should be comfortable with the person you're doing it with and you should know that they are going to be there to support you emotionally. You should be able to talk to him/her about sex, using protection, STDs, etc. You should also be prepared for any of the consequences. If your partner's going to bail on you if you get pregnant, then it's probably not the right time/person.
Just, continue to be safe if you're going to keep at it.
P.S. If you're having doubts and asking US if it's wrong, then you probably aren't ready for sex. But oh well, as I said before, it's too late now.

i say having sex should be when your really mature . i noticed by having sex with really understanding the consequences can be fatal ...but hey we live in a sex- crazed society that promotes ...well sex. just look at all our commercials.

condoms can break and not prevent stds.
and you're 14, imagine getting pregnant!!
i think it's definitely wrong. especially if you're not mutually in love. you're too young, why risk throwing away your life?

You know, age sometimes has nothing to do with it. It's mostly the maturity level. No one who isn't mature enough to have sex shouldn't be having sex. No matter if you're 14, 17, 22, or even 35. You seem mature, I don't see why not.

Sure in some close-minded opinions that is WAY too young. As long as you're responsible, what is age but a number?

Honestly I wouldn't do it.
I've 17 and I have no intention of having it until I find the right guy who can handle the consequences of having children or what not.
If you're doing it to please him or you're doing this because you want to and because you "love him", those aren't really good reasons, but can you truly ask yourself if you're ready to have a child, if the condom "accidentally" breaks?

It's your life though, you can't change what you've already done :T

If you trust him enough that if you DID have a child with him, you COULD both raise the child together, then yes. You have to trust him and love him enough that if you had to raise a child together for the rest of your lives, you could.

[font=Courier New]Umm I'mm quite young soo think having sex in a few years seems a bit icky (lol) to me but pretect ureself, i would wait until i was def. sure but it your life. so um bii

Just because he says "I Love You" doesn't mean it's alright to have sex.


I know some people regret having sex at a young age. I mean, I regret doing it at a young age -- I was older than 14 though -- but luckily, I am still dating the guy that that I lost it to. Not many people are that lucky. Like what others says, just be ready for the consequences. What with inflation and all, taking care of a baby is going to be difficult. I mean, you have to be at least 16 years old to work, and the higher paying jobs at least require children to be 18 years and older or have a high school degree. Keep that in mind.

nope i dont see anything wrong with it
i don't understand why people make a big deal of having sex
okay sure there's the chance of pregnancy and stds

but it sure as hellll worth it

contrary to popular belief, i don't think sex is related to love.

it's only natural for someone to want to have sex.

im the same age and the same thing wit me 2 were really in love itz ur opinion and ur life u do wat u want to juss b protected!

love blah blah blah

anyway

as long as you know what you're going to do if you ever get pregnant and there's no STDs involved, i guess so

Personally i thin it is too young but to each is own i waited till i was 18 but everyone has their own wants needs and desires. We all learn from out own actions

Woahh, its not even legal here till 16.

But like... lol, who the hell listens to that

I reckon if your ready for it... yeah go for it.
I mean, well, yeah you've already done it.
Don't think its wrong if you understand the consequences and stuff though.
If you love him go ahead...
If things dont turn out that well in the end, "we all make mistakes" no?
Personally, I think 14 is way too young. But its all about you, not me, isnt it :P

it's your choice what you want to do; noone elses.

Hm, think of it this way. . .4 years ago you were 10. lol


Well, I think that really depends on you.
You can't let anyone else tell you whether it's right or wrong.
Doesn't really matter, you have to make that decision yourself.
What do you believe in?

Do what you want. Think about it this way, it means something to you, and obviously others here are having a hard time grasping that for some reason.

You clearly shown that you know the risks and your careful and no, the condom is unikely to break unless he's thrusting long, hard and fast for a very long time. If it is a concern then use 2 condoms.

What it's really about, is your age of mental maturity and you've shown that your responsible. So yes, go right ahead and get humped like a rabit.

Well, for me no. For you it's up to you. I think it's wrong since I grew up in a holy family and I'm planning to stay a virgin until marriage.
But don't get me wrong I have thought of doing it but whatever. I would feel guilty about doing it. So yea I'm waiting.
Way too young. But it's up to you. But you might regret it.