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 Apr 9 2007, 12:08 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook.  Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383  |
My best friend told me yeserday that she had sex with her boyfriend and she wants to tell her mom but she isnt sure how, and i dont really know what to do; if i should tell her parents for her or something? Can anyone help?
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Apr 9 2007, 12:15 AM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
idk.. i wouldn`t tell my
parents if i had sex with my bf, wow. like, if it really isn`t that big of a deal to her why doesn`t she just do it? |
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Apr 9 2007, 12:22 AM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Idk...shes weird...
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Apr 9 2007, 12:24 AM
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 vengeance. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
I think it would be more right, if she herself, were to tell them.
But thats just my opinion. 
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Apr 9 2007, 12:26 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
it`s HER parents.. im guessing only she`d know how to not make them freak the hell out. so iunno.. its really simple haha. telling someone something isn`t something you ask how to.. really.. it's probably easier if someone else told her parents for her but if she`s the one wanting to tell, then she should be the one to do that
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Apr 9 2007, 03:57 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
um... wouldn't you feel it extremely awkward to tell her parents that she had sex?
if she wants to let her parents know, she should be the one to tell them- directly. i mean, it's probably really hard to go ahead and do that but... if anything, she should be the one telling them. even if you told for her, i'm sure they'd have questions for her anyways. |
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| *Monochrome.* |
Apr 9 2007, 06:07 AM
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Let her deal with the dirty work.
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Apr 9 2007, 09:37 AM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
Is she afraid she's going to get in trouble?
SHE should be the one's to tell her parents...it'll just sound weird coming from you. |
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 9 2007, 09:56 AM
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Are we sure this isn't.. someone else.. we're talking about?
 Even so, how much does she really want to tell them?  How old is she?
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Apr 9 2007, 11:05 AM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Apr 9 2007, 10:56 AM)  Are we sure this isn't.. someone else.. we're talking about? Even so, how much does she really want to tell them? How old is she?lol its not me its my friend taylor and shes 14 |
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Apr 9 2007, 11:07 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Moved to Relationships.
I have no idea whatsoever. 14 is such a young age to have sex IMO. |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 9 2007, 11:29 AM
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You shouldn't do it for her. She's the one who lost her virginity, not you. I think she should just put aside time and beef up and tell her mom while they're having a private conversation.
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Apr 9 2007, 11:56 AM
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think of the conequences..... well for me i rather tell my mom but knowing her.... ahhh i just keep it to myself, my boyfriend's mom knows... i think thats good enough lol
she should do it for herself... if shes that comfortable to tell her, then yeah go ahead |
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Apr 9 2007, 12:13 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
You shouldn't get involved in her problem.
 If your friend is the same age as you, then that's a really young age to be having sex at.If she's that open to let her parents know, then she should just tell them in the most succinct way... But I guess the issue is how her mom would respond. |
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Apr 9 2007, 01:19 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
14? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Tell her I wish her good luck when she gets pregnat and/or starts regretting having sex while she's still a child. |
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Apr 9 2007, 04:40 PM
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BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 9 2007, 1:19 PM) 14? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Tell her I wish her good luck when she gets pregnat and/or starts regretting having sex while she's still a child. she must think she's grown...it did say she did it more than once..O.o |
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Apr 9 2007, 06:02 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(GhEtTo_DuChEsS @ Apr 9 2007, 5:40 PM) she must think she's grown...it did say she did it more than once..O.o :X Wow.. she must be a stupid child. |
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Apr 9 2007, 06:52 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
Don't tell it to her parents for her.
Leave the decision up for your friend. She can choose whether she wants to tell her parents about it or not. But anyhow, just don't tell it to her parents. |
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Apr 10 2007, 01:11 AM
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considering it's her body, she should be the one telling her mom. 14 is really too young to be having sex though.
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Apr 10 2007, 02:57 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
Tell her that you think she should tell her parents.
But, only when she's ready. I still haven't told my Dad. But, I did tell my Mom. I wouldn't ever ask my best friend to tell them, either. That's really weird. |
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Apr 10 2007, 07:08 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
y would she wanna tell her mom..? thts awkward already. Parents dont needa know tht much information..
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May 23 2007, 01:50 AM
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maybe she wants to get in trouble for it.
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
May 23 2007, 01:54 AM
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That is so weird. If she doesn't know how to tell her parents, then tell her to sneak the boy into her room and have sex with him; then, you call her house asking for her, her parents answer and go to give her the phone and WHAM.... they know!
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May 23 2007, 02:17 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
no.. don't tell her parents. have her do it herself. the only way i can think of is to just tell her to tell her parents and face the consequences [if any].
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May 23 2007, 02:35 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 9 2007, 11:19 AM) 14? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Tell her I wish her good luck when she gets pregnat and/or starts regretting having sex while she's still a child. Okay, every single response you have to teenagers having sex is that they will automatically get pregnant or screw up their lives. Sex is not an automatic death sentence. I have been having sex for almost 3 years now, and hey no babies OR STDS. Get laid already. Sheesh. QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 22 2007, 11:54 PM) That is so weird. If she doesn't know how to tell her parents, then tell her to sneak the boy into her room and have sex with him; then, you call her house asking for her, her parents answer and go to give her the phone and WHAM.... they know! 
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