so what you think about the whole "love" thing?, just curious |
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so what you think about the whole "love" thing?, just curious |
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![]() Infinite's End ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,597 ![]() |
Even if one of you die, or you drift apart, it isn't always the destination that makes the journey worth while. I'm not sure love is real but I really want to believe in it! :)
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I'm forced to believe in it. it bit me. Ouchie
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![]() You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 ![]() |
i think that... well no one's perfect, so in any relationship there's going to be problems and room for improvement. but if you find that certain someone, there really could be true love. hopefully
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QUOTE Love Love is not a fire where the simplest thing like a spark can make it happen. It’s funny how people describe love as a fire, while maybe others describe lust like a fire as well. Lust is a powerful emotion some mistake for love, lust is a sudden yearning for that person and sometimes it can very powerful. The simplest thing can spark lust within a person, a simple touch, and a small flash of skin, just seeing a beautiful woman. All those things can spark lust. So yes lust is like a fire, the simplest thing can start it, it burns greatly for a certain amount of time and can last longer if you feed it more wood (temptation) but in the end it always burns out. You see love is not like that. Some people describe love as a spark that lasts a lifetime. Well I’m sorry, sparks don’t last a lifetime, a spark lasts a second. If you notice the spark or noitce it but don't think about it, then that is all it will be, a spark, a small fraction of time where you felt a yearning but nothing more. If you think about it and feed that spark some wood (thoughts and attention) then it will start a fire, if that fire is fed too much wood it can become uncontrollable and wild. Do you know what happens when they fire becomes uncontrollable? Rape… assault…death. Why would anyone compare love to a spark? Because they do not know what love is. Why compare love to a fire? What’s so great about a fire? Anyone can make a fire. Love cannot be a fire. Love is a long process that takes hard work and effort. Like building a car, or climbing a mountain. It takes time, patience, dedication; it is not an easy thing. Love is a special thing so shouldn’t it be compared to something special? Like climbing a mountain, building a car or a house with your bare hands? Those are special achievements that, like a fire, anyone can do; but it takes a certain amount of dedication, patience and effort to do it. Some of you may be asking: “Well sure all of those things are special and are a long process but a car nor a house last forever and sure climbing a mountain is a amazing thing but after you’ve climbed to the top then that’s it. You did it, nothing else, what did you gain?” That is a good question. What do you gain from building a house or car with your bare hands or from climbing a mountain that lasts a lifetime? A memory, that will last a life time. That memory is something you will cherish for the rest of your days. It’s something you can look back on that will make you happy. If you are feeling sad, you can always think of the good memories you had and that will make you happy. That memory or memories is what you gained and that is love. Love is like your more pure, happy and charitable memory. You will never forget it and it will never forget you. Dont confuse love with Lust. i like that. love... well, i believe in it, but i'm not searching for it. and i know life isn't a fairytale, but inside, i'm just hoping for that day i get swept off my feet. |
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I definitely believe in true love. I know that love can hurt, but I've accepted that love is as beautiful as it is dangerous. I'm willing to risk it.
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![]() Lyn ![]() Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 426,851 ![]() |
SERIOUSLY, love is taken for granted. some people use the word " love " too early in the relationship.
BUT the people who seriously OVEREXAGGERATE are total losers and say that they dont believe in love because one lousy person broke their heart. i understand if it happens to you constantly, after like how many tries, but yeah. i dont understand what i mean though. ![]() |
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*Intercourse.* |
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Death? That's an unreasonable reason not to love. Everyone is going to die someday. It's not the end that counts; it's getting there that matters. If love enriches the journey, and it generally does, then it's a valuable part of life. People worry too often about the end; life is about enjoying the journey. Enjoy it while you're in it, don't agonize over its eventual end. Rejoice for the path you have taken in life, for those you have known that may have die or will die; revel in the memories, not the sadness. Life is not about worrying over its conclusion; it's about enjoying it while it lasts. Yea I don't think anyone could have said it better. I think you were really look more of less on the negative stuff because you had a bad experience once. Life is about taking chances and if your not doing that then you aren't living to the fullest. |
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Death? That's an unreasonable reason not to love. Everyone is going to die someday. It's not the end that counts; it's getting there that matters. If love enriches the journey, and it generally does, then it's a valuable part of life. People worry too often about the end; life is about enjoying the journey. Enjoy it while you're in it, don't agonize over its eventual end. Rejoice for the path you have taken in life, for those you have known that may have die or will die; revel in the memories, not the sadness. Life is not about worrying over its conclusion; it's about enjoying it while it lasts. Agreed. |
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![]() daughter of sin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 ![]() |
Love hurts.
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![]() What a sick, masochistic lion. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 ![]() |
i think it's putting yourself into a very vulnerable position, giving your partner the power to hurt you more than anybody else could and yet, at the same time, make you happier than anybody else could... without even trying.
i deeply believe that in the end, no matter how much hurt you may go through for it, you will find love that's been worth all the pain. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 ![]() |
God is love. Love is God.
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![]() Being happy...is all that matters ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 ![]() |
Love is beautiful, but can be such a pain.
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 424,645 ![]() |
love is beautiful, especially when its true.
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![]() samantha ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 465,904 ![]() |
I fell in love for the first time, but now I can't get out of it...
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![]() banana ham! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 ![]() |
I believe in love, but not at this age. I chose the second one.
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![]() Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 515,221 ![]() |
love is my inspirations
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