How to get over and Ex....., Tips please |
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 Jan 29 2007, 02:32 PM
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Well, obviously I just got out a a relationship since this is my second post about exes. Long story short, I was the one that broke up with him cause he was insensitive about how I felt on 2 separate occasions.
1. We went to his former fling's birthday party and he insisted on no PDA and for us to laylow. Basically not act like a couple....Also, he didn't want to tell her about us....yet...He didn't want to hurt her feelings.  2. He's going to the prom with someone else. Ok, not that big of a deal, except for the fact that he didn't tell the girl HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND!!! Worst part about it is: I can't get over the douchebag....... 
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Jan 29 2007, 04:19 PM
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You cant? Do things that ocupy your mind to keep someone off your mind.
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Jan 29 2007, 04:26 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
^that's the ticket.
I don't know what else to say. Throwing out your anger on Voo-du dolls and pillows? I think it's important to be at peace with yourself with your decision. Think of the reasons you just posted, keep that in mind and make yourself belief it was for the better and you have better things to do with your time then spending it with a guy who doesn't appreciate you ehough. Good luck chica. 
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Jan 29 2007, 05:46 PM
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Thanks yall :)
Ps: I was talking to someone else about this and he says "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"........>_< |
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Jan 29 2007, 05:48 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
I just got out of a relationship too.
Well I'm trying to keep my mind off him, hanging out with friends, listening to music etc. Also going out with someone new helps a lot. |
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Jan 29 2007, 06:35 PM
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QUOTE(xosugarkissesox @ Jan 29 2007, 5:48 PM)  I just got out of a relationship too. Well I'm trying to keep my mind off him, hanging out with friends, listening to music etc. Also going out with someone new helps a lot. I hate the fact that i'm scared to go out with someone else in case he wants me back....  But like these guys said, we gotta remember why we broke up with them in the first place....
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Jan 29 2007, 06:47 PM
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Same!
My ex broke up with me though. He said there's a possibility we can go out in the future so I'm almost scared to move on. But I guess thats what we have to do.
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Jan 29 2007, 07:41 PM
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QUOTE(xosugarkissesox @ Jan 29 2007, 6:47 PM) Same! My ex broke up with me though. He said there's a possibility we can go out in the future so I'm almost scared to move on. But I guess thats what we have to do. hmmmm sounds like there's something else behind the breakup.... |
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Jan 29 2007, 07:44 PM
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I just replied to a similar situation in another topic... I don't know if this one is quite as serious, but here:
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 29 2007, 12:16 PM) Alright, well... you have to get the idea of him out of your head. Eventually you will naturally get over him. You have to accept the fact that it's over. He is not coming back. It sounds like you are hoping he will ask you back out again. You have to stop.
It's natural to be sad, and there is nothing with you. You're just hurting because of lost love. You will be able to love again. Be strong. I know it seems like the end of the world. When I broke up with my first girlfriend it was as if my whole world turned grey. I felt like everything was over. My life was worthless, but I was just being ignorant. I felt like there was nothing left because I had invested so much time and effort into her. All the time I had learned to spend on her was now free, and my life felt like there was a giant hole in it. The truth is that there is so much more to life than just relationships. You're in highschool, and you should be having fun. Pick up on some of the old activities you enjoyed that were replaced with your relationship when you started dating your boyfriend. Hang out with some of the old friends you had. Participate in an after school activity. Do something, and enjoy yourself. Don't take this relationship two seriously. This is one of many relationships you will probably have before you find the man of your dreams. Don't let this discourage you from entering the exciting world of relationships again. Instead, learn from the mistakes you made while you were in this one and better yourself. Finding Nemo: Dory: Hey there, Mr. Grumpy Gills. When life gets you down do you wanna know what you've gotta do? Marlin: No I don't wanna know. Dory: *singing* Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming. What do we do? We swim, swim. |
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Jan 29 2007, 07:45 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
QUOTE(?Melina? @ Jan 29 2007, 2:46 PM) Thanks yall :) Hellz yez, as soon as you can, woman!Ps: I was talking to someone else about this and he says "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"........>_< Kidding, kidding. Just....resist! Don't call him for a while, don't date anyone for a little bit, just take your time and get your mind off things. |
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Jan 29 2007, 09:57 PM
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QUOTE(?Melina? @ Jan 29 2007, 7:41 PM) hmmmm sounds like there's something else behind the breakup.... Well we used to fight a lot, and I guess he just got sick of it. |
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Jan 29 2007, 11:36 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
You take everything of him, his sn, his email, his phone number, the teddybear he gave you on your birthday, anything that reminds you of him or was touched by him, out and I mean in the garbage.
This way you mentally dumped him. |
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Jan 30 2007, 12:47 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Just.....I want to tell you to stop your bitchin' but that's not nice.
You gotta act optimistic no matter what. Cause you're just gonna be bitchy when you're not. No offense to you. It's in general. Any one will be. Instead of trying to not think of him...Think of him cracking his head open or something. Haha. |
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Jan 30 2007, 02:27 AM
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Ace Spades Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,526 |
why do girls love assholes so much? Well, if there's a good answer to this question then stick with it. . .
but there isn't. |
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Jan 30 2007, 02:44 AM
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Hmm I guess its hard to fully get over someone alot of people say you never really do there is always that " like " feeling towards them,,,,You need anything right now to keep your mind off him like FRIENDS they help alot go out and have fun and yes the whole "meeting other guys" really helps too because your bound to find someone else you like more ..That whole BS about not wanting to hook up with anyone incase he wants you back ?WTF he's already screwed up TWICE and your still considering taking him back... why so he can do it again cuz if they screw up once their bound to do it OVER AND OVER!Now Im kinda sitting here wondering why you even make this topic if your considering taking him back if he comes back?,,,of course you wrote it for our advice but only really you can help your self and you said your not willing to try to find someone else but ya know what thats what most of us girls are going to tell you ..because we know its the best way to get over someone and plus the end results are usually good when searching for someone else!!...
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Jan 30 2007, 02:56 AM
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Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(noheadnorman @ Jan 30 2007, 2:27 AM) why do girls love assholes so much? Well, if there's a good answer to this question then stick with it. . . but there isn't. I think it's because they relate nice guys to friends. So, I mean, that's why guys aren't all romantic and stuff. I mean, they are to an extent, but they don't go out and buy them flowers all the time....get them personal gifts. Cause, that's what friends do. |
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Jan 30 2007, 03:14 AM
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