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 Dec 22 2006, 06:55 AM
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Why is it wrong for a guy to be a virgin. Be honest when I ask this, would you make fun of a guy if he was a virgin till he was 18. Most of my guy and girl friends lossed there viginity between 12 and 14 with someone that the broke p with not to long after. Some people used to make fun of mew when I was a virgin. i for one was proud because I was waiting for something special and it would be better then anything they had. I refused to ever date. I got asked out a lot in middle school and once in elementry 0.o but always said no...until i met Rachel and we had sex when I was 15 and she was 18...we are still together though and that was over a year and a half ago. Sorry, I am getting a little off topic. so anyway, why do guys make fun of dudes who havn't had sex? and as a second question have you ever felt pressure into sex.
Statistics say that 8% more men feel pressured into sex then women. I though this was intresting and I would like to here your imput. |
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| *kryogenix* |
Dec 22 2006, 08:40 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her.
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Dec 25 2006, 06:58 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
Yea, I don't think there's anything wrong with a guy being a virgin.
It can be a turn on for some girls too, |
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| *IVIike* |
Dec 25 2006, 01:26 PM
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just make your own decisions its not more mature if you have had sex... really the mature thing is to stay a virgin until you find that special someone.
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Dec 25 2006, 03:03 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
There is nothing wrong with it. It's just most teenagers today that seem to have a problem with it. I guess they think it's wrong because a guy who wants to wait around seems as if he has feminine qualities, because you're more likely to hear a girl say that she wants to wait for the perfect guy.
I think it's impressive. It shows that you're really determined to do it with someone who means everything to you. |
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| *salcha4u* |
Dec 25 2006, 03:18 PM
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This topic reminds me of Joe.
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Dec 25 2006, 05:04 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
It's not wrong.
Guys just think it's cool, which is fine if you don't 
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| *onewaysalcha* |
Dec 25 2006, 07:50 PM
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This topic reminds me of Joe.
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Dec 25 2006, 07:53 PM
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 R U A Q T ? [; Group: Official Member Posts: 7,276 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,631 |
QUOTE(onewaysalcha @ Dec 25 2006, 4:50 PM)  This topic reminds me of Joe. lmao. so what if they lost their viginity at 12, 14, whatever? i'd say that's pretty lame. QUOTE There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her. word. 
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Dec 26 2006, 12:23 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
it's not. i think a guy staying virgin tells the girl that cares for her and would rather save it for later.
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Dec 26 2006, 12:31 AM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
QUOTE(Jerico Drum @ Dec 22 2006, 3:55 AM) Most of my guy and girl friends lossed there viginity between 12 and 14 with someone that the broke p with not to long after. Between 12 and 14?! Gosh... |
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Dec 26 2006, 02:14 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,067 |
i dont see anything wrong with it...i was still a virgin when i was 18 because i chose to be...i had many chances but turned them down...nothing wrong with it in my opinion.
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Dec 26 2006, 06:35 AM
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 我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
why are so many girls replying to a guy's problem?
wanna know why? cause a guy who isnt willing to have sex doesnt have confidence. they have conviction, but on the outside, they appear to not have confidence to go all the way. in that sense, they are not truly a man. or course we have a ton of hopeless romantics on this forum. and its admirable to save yourself for marriage. but many just dont have the patience or the strength of will to truly love someone w/o sex, or they just dont care. |
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Dec 26 2006, 06:53 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
QUOTE(lanbexx @ Dec 26 2006, 7:35 PM) or course we have a ton of hopeless romantics on this forum. and its admirable to save yourself for marriage. but many just dont have the patience or the strength of will to truly love someone w/o sex, or they just dont care. That's kinda sad 
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Dec 26 2006, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(onewaysalcha @ Dec 25 2006, 4:50 PM) This topic reminds me of Joe. Hella mean. |
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Dec 26 2006, 05:04 PM
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我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
why are girls inputing hopeless romantic advice to a guy asking a serious question to other guys?
since, ya know, girls dont exactly understand guy problems. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Dec 27 2006, 12:43 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Dec 22 2006, 7:40 AM) There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her. finnaly something smart from you i agree. |
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| *x1227x* |
Dec 27 2006, 01:34 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Dec 22 2006, 5:40 AM) There's nothing wrong with it... I think a girl would be impressed if you told her you stayed a virgin just for her. ^ agreed.
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Dec 27 2006, 01:58 AM
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my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
QUOTE(lanbexx @ Dec 26 2006, 3:35 AM) why are so many girls replying to a guy's problem? hey, there are guys in the girl's locker room too. Don't lose your virginity just to blend in with everyone else. I mean, unique is different but unique is definitely special. |
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Dec 27 2006, 02:13 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
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Dec 27 2006, 08:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
there's nothing wrong with a guy being a virgin. most girls would be pretty impressed with you &it could be an "learning process".
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Dec 27 2006, 08:46 PM
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QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Dec 27 2006, 5:33 PM) there's nothing wrong with a guy being a virgin. most girls would be pretty impressed with you &it could be an "learning process". Thats one way to look at it. Another way is seeing how pathetic you are and that you can't get any ass. |
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Dec 27 2006, 10:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 569 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 490,667 |
I don't see anything wrong with anyone staying a virgin til they met the right person. Even if they were 18 or older. Age is just a number.
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Dec 28 2006, 01:55 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,664 |
It's not wrong..... just weird... i like my men READY... if you know what I mean!
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