Should schools have sex-ed? Yes or No ? Give me your opinions :] (BTW this should probably be in Debate but yea..)

I never really thought about it.
I guess it's better to have it then not to have it.



=MOVED TO DEBATE=

I'm a junior, and i've never had any types of sex ed. So I dont know.

I think there should be some type of sex ed, to teach students saftey and what not.

...its like learning to crash the car before you know how to drive it.

at least thats how it was for me.

....or how not to crash the car?

Haha, the first time I had sex-ed was in 4th grade or 5th grade, and I had NO IDEA what they were talking about. Then in middle school I had a muchhhh better idea, but to the point: yes, it's a good idea. I'm an advocate for abstinence, but I know that most other people believe in pre-marital sex, which is fine for them, so I'm glad that before they do anything, they at least know what's safe.

yes but at the appropriate age. i dunno about 6th grade - when i had it - but i think it should be like 8th grade or 9th cause i guess your hormones tend to kick in more.

I was supposed to have Health in 8th grade, but I had band the whole time so there was no time in my schedule.

To pass high school in NYC, you have to at least earn one credit for health, meaning that you have to pass at least one term of health class.

It should be required because people have to know. They can't just go out there having unprotected sex.

You know... I had a year of sex ed in sixth grade... We had to make models of the penis and the vagina... AND make a game on them. Someone made a ring toss out of breasts. It was retarded. They also told us to use plastic wrap if condoms weren't available >.<

And this was in sixth grade, mind you.

^ Oh my God. Thats weird. And in 6th grade??

I had very basic health classes in 5th and 6th grade in public school. I've been in private school ever since, and I've had NO classes on it since. I'm a Junior by the way. Everything I know, I know from when I was like 10. I dont want to even begin to imagine what I dont know.

And thats why I think students should be educated on it in middle/high school. Not to actually learn "how" to do it, but how to stay safe.

when i used to take it as a part of health class in high/middle school, I used to find it boring.... Many kids already know a lot about sex, but then again, many are ignorant with the consequences. So to answer to the question about having Sex-ed in schools, well I believe that it is good--- only if they teach abstinence along with it.

Whether or not Sex Ed is taught in school, teens are going to have sex. I think we should just face the reality and at least teach teens how to put on a condom, how to get birth control, the risks of getting STDs or pregnant, etc. Plus, it'll be good for teens to know that stuff for the future when they are ready to have sex.

And while I laughed through Sex Ed with everyone else, I'll be quite honest that I'm happy I'm educated with it. Keep Sex Ed!

Oh, and btw, as to the age it should be taught: teens are losing their virginity at younger ages these days (sad, but true). Seventh or eighth grade sounds good to me.

I think it's defintiely a good thing to have sex ed. but im not sure about having it in 6th grade! thats kinda odd. i didnt have it until highschool

we started at 6th grade briefly going into sex ed from 5th and part of 6th they covered puberty and then the basic information about sex, and i think that it is good because they should be informed.. esp look at the upcoming generation they are already starting.. so might as well teach them about it and the consequences. its better that they know.

think about sexual assault, kids as young as 3 months old are getting assaulted both men and women, they should know what sex really is and what is right and wrong, and what they can do to help themselves if they get sexually abused constantly or just even once. or not at all knowing is better than being innocent. kids these days are not that innocent as the way they were before back in the day when MTV or even television existed. you kno?

Oh. You were there back in the old days?

HAHAHAHAHA! I'm starting Sex-Ed next week! I think it's perfectly fine when you're at a reasonable age. I'm in 8th grade, so I think it's okay.

You gotta learn about it sometime.



holy crap. that's really funky!

Lol that is funny ....... I had to take it last year........ But i think they should have it because you don't know what kids do these days.......lol

I just read an article on BBC news on this.


http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6062670.stm

I agree with the article, kids should be taught sooner. If they're taught too late.. well, nothing good is going to come out of that.
And the article also mentions that kids are starting puberty sooner.

First time I had sex ed was in 5th grade, but the separated girls and guys. Girls talked about periods and tampons/pads, guys talked about erections? I don't know. I guess that was semi-helpful so girls don't think we're bleeding to death? Haha!

Second time was in 7th grade, which was co-ed & we cover the general aspects of sex like the consequences and stuff like that, but it was superficial. We mostly just watched videos. I remember this one video of two, neon colored stick figures that danced around the screen and got into suggestive positions. LOL! And we watched the sperm traveling up the vaginal passage (wonder how they got that shot?), and at the end, we watched this birth video. This birth video was very graphic, mind you. You see the women all grunting and panting and in pain, then all of a sudden, it just suddenly zooms down into her va-jay-jay and we're like, "omfg! this is porn at its worse!" i am so scarred for life.

Third time was in 10th grade, obviously co-ed. It's part of the health unit at my school, which is a required class to graduate. There's only one unit on sex/stds/pregnancy and it's obviously more in depth. Plus, the health teachers at my school are really cool. They're fine with immaturity sometimes & they teach in a way that is informative, not bias. I think that's really important in sex ed. Kids should be taught about sex, not taught to be against it. The more you tell a teenager, "don't do this", the more they'll want to try it. You know what I mean? And plus, I just absolutely hate it when people shove their opinions in my face. Thanks, but I have a brain of my own & I'll decide my stance.

Sex ed should not be allowed in schools. Yeah, it gives kids an idea about sex, but trust me... I never had sex ed and I know what sex is. You don't need a school to tell you about things. It's really your parents responsibilities to tell you these types of things.

Morals tend to drop when people are taught that certain things are less than they actually are. Sex, I'm sure is fun. I can't say. I feel that it's a maturity issue. I really don't feel like people, especially teens, know the consequences of sex. Sex outside of marriage is something that shouldn't be taken lightly because it really can ruin people's relationships with others.

Everybody I know that has had sex before marriage has either regretted it or has had messed up situations because of it.

According to that person that said that they had to make models of a penis and vagina, it sounded like the teachers were making a mockery of sex. It's ridiculous. People, in my opinion, just aren't mature enough to have sex before marriage and I think sex ed ruins it.

Yeah, but not all parents are like that. My parents never talked to me about it & I know parents that purposely shun their kids from sex education. This one parent wanted her kid out of sex ed, thinking it was a way to protect her child by not exposing her to "sex". What are you really doing by shielding kids from sex? They need to know what it is and the consequences behind their actions. STDs, like HIV, that leads to AIDS are the causes of thousands of deaths each year. Not to mention, there are certain types of cancer linked to STDs. These STDs can be prevented. But do all teenagers know that? Do all teenagers know the signs of STDs and the consequences they have to live with by acquiring STDs? No, they don't. If there is a way to prevent life-threatening diseases, personally, I would like to know.

You said that you feel teens don't really know the consequences of sex, and I totally agree with you. So shouldn't they be educated in school? Parents are not always willing to have "the talk" with kids. Should the kids pay for the parent's mistake in not telling him/her about the consequences of sex? No.

It seems like a solution for schools to offer sex ed. There are some schools that just teach abstinence. I think that is wrong. The more teens are told "not to do something", the more curious they are. I think that we should be educated from a non-bias viewpoint so we are allowed to make a decision independently, but know the consequences of our actions.

yeah at the appropriate age and if they don't just teatch absidence. i hate it when they only teach that its so stupid because kids are going to do it anyways so why not make sure they are safe when they do it?

Sex ed was actually more helpful than it seemed. I think we should have sex education. Who gives a shit if it encourages sex, people are going to do it anyways, especially in high school, so why not give them a little warning?

AHH, I SAW THAT VIDEO IN 5TH GRADE TOO!
i kindof forgot what the video said about guys. it just said something about growning hair and growning longer penises. LOL

we had to watch both, boy and girl, videos even though we were split up. i guess it was pretty helpful. i mean, if you didn't have sex-ed, and blood was coming out as you were peeing, you'd freak you out, right?

i think there should be sex ed. i started sex ed when i was in 6th grade, didn't work for some people in my grade.. because they ended up getting pregnant and dropping out of school. but i think that kids should know, plus kids now a days are having sex at much younger ages. they should have knowlege of the consequences of sex such as pregnancy and STDS. my parents didn't have sex ed when they went to school and so they had to learn on their own but they do support sex ed in school so that we, the upcoming generation, have knowlege of such an issue. knowing what you can do about it, if you do get pregnant or how to prevent stds, etc.