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post Sep 15 2006, 06:51 PM
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some of my friends can be EXTREMELY nerdy/geeky, even compared to me... i mean, it's not wrong or anything, it just gets sooo annoying sometimes. i know it's just part of their personalities or w.e., but i always feel like telling them to just stop talking wacko.gif and when i have no idea what's going on (like if they talk about star wars or something) they still keep on talking, like i understand what's so funny...

i dunno... *sigh*. does anyone else go through this?
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 06:55 PM
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Sometimes. Except they're not nerdy. I'm more nerdy than them, but I don't show it because I know that they don't like discussing science..

I always feel left out when they talk about Anime or Asian singers and stuff like that.. I just don't like that stuff. I find it annoying too. =/
I just sort of ignore it and sooner or later they stop talking and I jump in with something random.

Maybe you can just be like "What's that mean?" or something like that. Or you can learn to like the things that your friends like.. That's always an option.
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 11:18 PM
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You could always watch the stuff they do so you get what their talkin about. I mean who cares if your nerdy or not. You should base yourself off of what other people think. Take your friends for example, i bet they could careless if they sound nerdy because their laughing and having fun right? Think about that.
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 11:59 PM
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^ well the thing about what people think IS a factor, i have to admit. but nerdy is more like a description of what it generally means, you know? it's just that i'm NOT interested in that stuff... shrug.gif it was just something on my mind i guess.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 12:03 AM
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i totally understand you. everyone has different interest and different ways to talk.

and it's not fun. but, we learn to get along. that's no problem.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 12:06 AM
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Well, even in a group of really close friends, everyone has their own interests. Okay, so your "nerdy/geeky" friends like Star Wars. So what? There are lots of other interests that you have with your friends, and your other friends might find that common interest annoying to them, too. As long as you can find that balance without making people feel left out, things'll work out.

If you sincerely think that you're being left out too often, then let them know. If they're your true friends, they'll do something about it.

Then again, I also really don't like party poopers. I have a friend who hates pretty much all things Asian - music, movies, celebrities, even the culture (she's 100% Asian, though). And everytime we discuss things about it, she rolls her eyes at us. Yeah, she might be feeling left out, but it doesn't mean she should disrespect our interests, you know? Make sure it doesn't go out of line.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 12:07 AM
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Hey!

Don't hate because they're smarter than you are and can keep up conversations on higher levels of intelligence.

You should listen to them. Maybe you'll learn something that'll help you out in the long run.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 12:18 AM
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I have friends like that too. Except they're overly anime obsessive. I'm not obsessed with anime, but they are OVERLY, so yeah. shrug.gif I guess that's a similar situation. I do agree with [X]poised though. You should listen. I actually learn stuff from them while they keep talking about anime shows. But if they do get to the point where you can understandanything, since they are your friends, ask them to explain what in the world is going on. Not that hard. :P They should understand. Or change the subject. XD
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 12:24 AM
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QUOTE(electric shock @ Sep 15 2006, 10:18 PM) *
I have friends like that too. Except they're overly anime obsessive. I'm not obsessed with anime, but they are OVERLY, so yeah. shrug.gif I guess that's a similar situation. I do agree with [X]poised though. You should listen. I actually learn stuff from them while they keep talking about anime shows. But if they do get to the point where you can understandanything, since they are your friends, ask them to explain what in the world is going on. Not that hard. :P They should understand. Or change the subject. XD


ahh i find people who only talk about anime 24/7 really annoying x___x' thank God i don't have friends like that. lol. no offense to anyone tho -__-'
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 06:14 AM
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QUOTE(electric shock @ Sep 15 2006, 10:18 PM) *
I have friends like that too. Except they're overly anime obsessive. I'm not obsessed with anime, but they are OVERLY, so yeah. shrug.gif I guess that's a similar situation. I do agree with [X]poised though. You should listen. I actually learn stuff from them while they keep talking about anime shows. But if they do get to the point where you can understandanything, since they are your friends, ask them to explain what in the world is going on. Not that hard. :P They should understand. Or change the subject. XD




a few of my friends are obsessed with anime guys.



i mean, wtf. they're not real. laugh.gif
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 03:18 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 16 2006, 3:14 AM) *
a few of my friends are obsessed with anime guys.



i mean, wtf. they're not real. laugh.gif






I like anime but to be obseesed with it thats is just plain freaky.



NO that came out wrong i mean weird.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 05:39 PM
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quite a few of my friends are like that, and i've grown to love them for it : rolleyes.gif
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 05:41 PM
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I'm friends with all the valedictorians, you don't know how annoying it gets.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 06:04 PM
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QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 16 2006, 4:14 AM) *
a few of my friends are obsessed with anime guys.



i mean, wtf. they're not real. laugh.gif

laugh.gif My friend has "crushes" on anime guys.
It's unbareably funny when she mentions about her dreams with them.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 06:28 PM
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Wait wait wait you cant be serious she has dreams with them are you serious blink.gif uh...uh your friends sounds like one hell of a freak i mean seriousley with an anime guy no offense but your friend sounds desperate. XD.gif XD.gif XD.gif
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 07:38 PM
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QUOTE(salcha4u @ Sep 16 2006, 5:41 PM) *
I'm friends with all the valedictorians, you don't know how annoying it gets.

Valedictorians? Your school has more than one?
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 07:44 PM
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^ My middle school had one for every academy. And salutorians too.

They're not always nerds though.. Sometimes they're just suck ups.
The others are actually interesting people.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 08:07 PM
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Or maybe they're just smart people who work hard. Don't be jealous cause our GPA's are higher than yours. ;)
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 08:50 PM
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Valedictorians? Your school has more than one?

They're in the running.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 10:13 PM
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yeah i have some so so friends like that, they start talking about WoW and crap and then thats when i get up from the lunch table and go sit with some other people.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 10:46 PM
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If you think your friends are too nerdy for your own good, then maybe you don't even deserve their friendship. Friends are supposed to appreciate each other's qualities, not hate them.
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(Summer Rain @ Sep 16 2006, 10:46 PM) *
If you think your friends are too nerdy for your own good, then maybe you don't even deserve their friendship. Friends are supposed to appreciate each other's qualities, not hate them.



i heard that on sesame street once
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 11:02 PM
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^haha evan you're so funny _dry.gif
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 11:27 PM
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listen, just tell them your too cool for them, and start to give blowjobs to the jocks.

transform into a school slut and become that popular chick you always wanted to be.

thats what i did
 
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post Sep 16 2006, 11:32 PM
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Nerdy ...

I guess they are.. With their 4.0 GPAs and straight As .. and me, with the 3.5 GPA and As and Bs. *sigh*
 

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