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And the Spotlight's on you..., ever been put on the spot by a potential date?
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post Sep 15 2006, 12:14 AM
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Have you ever been put on the spot when someone was trying to ask you out?

Like, has anyone ever gone through so much trouble to ask you to go out with them, or go to a dance with them, or do whatever with them, that you feel OBLIGATED to say "yes" even when you don't really want to?
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 01:16 AM
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Omg! That reminds me of the most embarresing thing that happened to me, this guy asked me out while he was standing in front of the class and all of a sudden, a kid comes out of no where saying "whos that?" and all of a sudden my enemy, started pointing his finger at me and started shouting, "its her, its her. He wants to go out with her! Ouuuuuuuuu!" It was so embarresing, cry.gif and I just smiled at the guy and let him down gently afterclass. I guess that's the easiest way. Instead of flat out saying no and letting everyone feel sympathetic for the guy. And then have them ask you 32657325 questions about "why wont you go out with him?", "why, hes cute!", "if I were you I would" and all that boooshie stuff.
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 01:29 AM
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oh! i remember at a freshmen dance i was sitting near the speakers with one of my friends. this guy asked me to dance and i glanced at my friend and told her to go with him but she pushed me towards him. so it was a slow song and everything and we were kinna talking and out of no where he asks me out! it was kinna like... o_O. i thought i'd misheard him so i asked him to repeat himself and he pulls me closer and asks again! small kine awkward...
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 08:52 AM
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Yeah, but when I'm in those situtations I generally take the person aside and tell them the truth about how I feel. Something like, "Look, you're putting me under alot of pressure right now, and I don't appriciate it. I don't realy want to go out with you. I'm sorry if I let you down. If you want to go out with me I would need to get to know you better first, and even then I may not want to go out with you."
 
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post Sep 15 2006, 01:39 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 15 2006, 5:52 AM) *
Yeah, but when I'm in those situtations I generally take the person aside and tell them the truth about how I feel. Something like, "Look, you're putting me under alot of pressure right now, and I don't appriciate it. I don't realy want to go out with you. I'm sorry if I let you down. If you want to go out with me I would need to get to know you better first, and even then I may not want to go out with you."




Cold baby ice cold ,and i Love! it.But anyways when that happensi just say im sorry and i really dont want to be rude but im afraid its a no i mean your better off taking someone else.I wouldnt want to waste your time or mines.
 

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