He went off with my 'friend', I still love him... |
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 Aug 21 2006, 04:13 PM
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Yeah the topic title and description pretty much says it all.
He went off with her and I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I do =/ We still talk and there have been all these hints that he still likes me. But we never really talk about our break-up or his new gf so I don't know what to do, can anyone help? |
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Aug 21 2006, 04:16 PM
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get over him, if he left you and went to another girl. Get over him, I'm sure your plenty young and have plenty of life to live before meeting your "one."
QUOTE 1.Distance yourself. 2.Call him or her and ask, “Do you want to continue to see or talk to me?” This is the straightforward and sometimes the ultimate way to know when to let go of a love interest. 3. If you no longer feel the chemistry or you are not happy, let it go. There’s nothing worse than being in a relationship where you are not happy. 4.If you don’t trust him or her, let it go. Trust is a must. If you know that your love interest is seeing you and someone else, let him or her go. 5. If you have to give up your identity just to be with him or her, let it go. This is a must let go situation. If the person that you’re interested in doesn’t like certain things about you and constantly criticizes you for them and does not positively reinforce ways the both of you can work on both of your habits, likes, dislikes and lifestyle, let it go. And if you want to talk to him about it all then get the guts and go up and talk to him, or call him even. And just say that you wanted to talk. And that the only way for you to get over it is to talk about it and know certain things if you want to know anything and so on. |
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Aug 21 2006, 04:28 PM
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you should stop talking to him.. or at least try to drift from him. it's not good for comunication between you & him if he's with your friend and you still love him. if he talks to you, then talk to him. but don't start a convo with him.
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Aug 21 2006, 04:36 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 456,210 |
yeah everyone says he still likes me, we had known each other for over 4 months and were really close and hes only known her for a couple of weeks, I've had two friends who just after we broke up he confided in and said he still loved me and regretted breaking up with me. Its all so confusing but one things for sure I'm definately not friends with her now.
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Aug 21 2006, 09:22 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
let him go. if he comes back then you can decide...but its not fair to his new girlfriend when an old one keeps comin up. (no offense) but put yourself in her shoes, would you like an ex doin that?
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Aug 21 2006, 09:28 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ Aug 21 2006, 5:16 PM)  get over him, if he left you and went to another girl. Get over him, I'm sure your plenty young and have plenty of life to live before meeting your "one." And if you want to talk to him about it all then get the guts and go up and talk to him, or call him even. And just say that you wanted to talk. And that the only way for you to get over it is to talk about it and know certain things if you want to know anything and so on. Yes. Absolutely.^ 
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Aug 22 2006, 12:52 AM
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he left you for another girl. forget about him.
there are plenty of other guys out there for you. |
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Aug 22 2006, 12:54 AM
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 Quiet, Doggie! Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 452,267 |
QUOTE(skittle_xo @ Aug 21 2006, 2:36 PM) yeah everyone says he still likes me, we had known each other for over 4 months and were really close and hes only known her for a couple of weeks, I've had two friends who just after we broke up he confided in and said he still loved me and regretted breaking up with me. Its all so confusing but one things for sure I'm definately not friends with her now. forget what 'everyone' says. 'everyone' is full of BS. they're usually just out to create drama. i know you feel like you still like him right now, but eventually you'll get over him. you'll meet someone better and then you'll realize that he wasn't worth it. |
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Aug 22 2006, 03:08 AM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
Get over it, it's healthier for you.
Don't waste your time giving a damn, when you could've had someone else, maybe even better. Don't deprive yourself from having a life! The way I look at it, he wasted your time. He was stupid enough to leave you for someone else. But if you do believe that he still cares...yaddah, yaddah, yaddah...and take him back....yaddah, yaddah, yaddahs...then i suggest you tell him he has to really know what he effin' wants! And to not pull a stupid crap like this and waste your time! Hope that helps 
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Aug 22 2006, 07:51 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
You love him and he likes you? Man.
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Aug 22 2006, 09:00 PM
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^ Chyeah, really. This is a little desperate. He treated you like shit, you can do better. TRUST MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE, you're only wasting your time.
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Aug 22 2006, 09:00 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
Seriously, he left you for another girl. What does that say?? Certainly not, "I still like you". You should really just try your best to get over him, he doesn't deserve you anyway. As some people said, there are PLENTY of worthy guys out there. Why waste your time with a guy who just isn't? I'm not saying it's going to be easy, but its what you really need to do.
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Aug 22 2006, 09:24 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I meant that people are kinda playing loose with the word "love".
Just move on. He's clearly an ass. |
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Aug 23 2006, 05:09 PM
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^in all sincerity, i love the way you word things.
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Aug 24 2006, 11:07 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
lol how about giving yourself some more respect and dignity? if the boy runs off with your friend do you think he loves you? i mean shit at least run off with anyone but he goes with your friend? why do you have to be guided by what people say? the guys actions is what counts and what he is showing is that he never loved you. besides you can get over him your still young and it was only a four month realtionship you cant have learn all that is to know about someone in four months.
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Sep 27 2006, 11:02 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
:( you have to let him go sweety.
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Sep 27 2006, 06:24 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that. It must be hard for you but you need to find a way to forget about it all. I know it may not be what you want to do, but you need to space yourself from him until you're sure you no longer have feelings for him (in that way)
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