I'm only doing this poll to find out if people really care about weight. I see so many girls becomeing annerexic, or getting depressed over having a high metabolism... I'm talking about girls in general. Don't think about anything except the way that they are built.

Me personally I don't care about a girls weight as-long-as she is healthy, and she doesn't eat like a pig or stave like a homeless person I find them attrative. Of course I have to get to know them first, but if my girlfriend was starving herself or eating her self into a new bathtub (because she couldn't fit into the old one) I would be pretty discouraged... On the other hand, if her matabolism was to low or too high... I wouldn't mind at all, becuase it would be something beyond her control... why should I find her unattrative if she is who she is...

There are girls that are depressed over having a high metabolism? HUH? This is odd - I agree with you. The thing is - I don't believe that girls are like that (the whole.. feeling pressured about their bodies) mainly because of their boyfriends and guys in general. I actually blame it on society - the media, rather. They're the ones exploiting all the stick-thin girls, pasting them in ads everywhere you look.

It's true, but many times it's like they can't even help being the way that they are... they beat themselves up, and they only do it becuase of the way society protreys women.

I'd perfer a skinny girl.
I mean, she doesn't have to be TOTALLY skinny.

I'm shallow, honestly, I wouldn't date someone like Mo'nique. Actually, I don't know. I havn't met someone overweight before.

It's alright to be shallow. The whole piont of this topic is to see whether or not weight accually matters... if it matters to you. Then I want to hear it.

Yeah, my good friend has a ridiculously high metabolism, and she's naturally a stick figure. She's a size one, but she has a big appetite. No matter how much she eats, it's just impossible for her to gain weight. And she wants to be fatter (fatter, not fat) just because she's so thin that she has no curves.

I can totally feel for her... I'm the same way... honestly the only way she can gain wieght is if starts working out.

Well my wife is not skinny nor is she fat she is tall and big bone. But when you talk healthly that is not obease, that is not healthly. And also you can look at being to skinny not healthly also.

Now myself I was a twig till I hit 30 I am 6'2" and weighed 145 then all of a sudden wham am 210 now I think I am over weight.

weight doesn't really matter to me *as long as shes not like bones or not able to get out of bed, i really just look for a girl who makes me happy and laughing most of the time, if i like her who cares what other people think

seriously.

Psst. You spelled obese wrong.

And I agree with what Kathleen said. It seriously pisses me off. Gaah.

As long as it aint extreme fat or skinny.

I work out, man, and I'm still 100 pounds. Wtf....... And I eat A LOT.

Anyway. I also blame it on media. You see all these It girls and people want to be like them. The thing they don't know though is.. photoshop. They edit EVERYTHING. A friend of mine is a photographer and the stories he's told me.. oh my.

To be honest, to me it doesn't matter, although I prefer not having skinny girls, but that doesn't mean I would never date a skinny girl. I like women who have a little meat on them.

Hey, me too. We're a match made in heaven.

I prefer skinny girls, not very skinny - just plain skinny. Haha. I am thin and I've got high metabolism and I am not depressed. Honestly, being fat doesn't exactly bother me, my boyfriend is big.

Haha THANK GOD, I thought I'd never find someone like that!!

^ count me into that club. Im a skinny f**ker.

And also, i like skinny girls. Im sorry if that perpetuates eating disorders, or whatever, but i LIKE SKINNY GIRLS.

^ Well what's your definition of skinny girl?

Like a tooth pick.

oh, and kathleen...congrats on becoming an official member. >.>

heartquasm: guys dont like me because i'm obese
heartquasm: :-D
never tangible: more cushion for the pushin'

hehe.

obesityrocks

I like a girl with some meat on her bones. Not too skinny, not too chubby to the point where her stomach sticks out yenno. Just inbetween.

skinny-medium imo

I'd have to say a girl with a little meat on them. TOO skinny is...creepy.

I voted skinny.
I don't find ANYTHING wrong with average + over average girls.
I'll hang my head in shame if I must.