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AimeeLynn
post Jul 26 2006, 09:40 PM
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SRY ITS SOO LONG =//// im 15 years old
ok... summer vacation for me one of the favorites of friends && family. Going to the beach && all... mellow.gif

yep not me... this sucks, i feel i am so limited to going anywhere... i mean ANYWHERE. i am middle child of three. I am the goody-goody, i get good grades, im known in my school as the quiet girl who is smart. yay! not... my parents dont let me go anywhere w/o my family. and i look gay cuz i c 10 year olds in the mall w/ there friends... and me tagging along w/ my WHOLE family.

my sister goes out w/ her friends but gets lousy grades, my brother who is 6 goes out more than me... i ASK for freedom since [i believe] i deserve it, but i dont. all my friends [i beileve] dont talk to me over the summer because i have to always say" no i cant go".i go to a PRIVATE school that EVERYONE is rich && popular and some like me isnt
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basically i feel:
1. i got no real friends
2. no freedom/trapped
3. depressed
4. etc..
i had to let this out and ask for help

:sad:do u think im overacting??
what should i do?? sad.gif
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 09:49 PM
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Hmm.. This sounds like me.

haha

Um.. Think of all that you do have not all that you dont.
It helps with the depression!
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 09:53 PM
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Awww its okay :]
Well how old are you? -
Maybe your over reacting a little but then again i feel you, because thats how my parents were with me going out places..like they have to know where i am going ,who im with what time im comming back & blah..but now ther okay with it..but its kinda hard cuz i have older friends, like im more friends with highschoolers then middle schoolers [im in 8th] i have to lie to my parents about my friends because all of them have cars & my mom will be all there guys they might try soemthing on you & bleh. But your parents are just maybe worried about you ? they dont want nothing to happen ya know. Just talk to them tell them , mom can i go to the mall with a couple of friends...name everyone say what school they go to & what time ya'll are going & time ya'll are leaving. Give them all the information, so they have nothing to be worried about. i hope this help? :)
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 10:11 PM
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tell your parents how you're feeling right now
i agree with stfulinda, tell them everything they want to hear/know like where you'd be and when you'll be back and who you're going to be with. i'm sure they'll have no problems letting you go out
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 11:22 PM
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Yeah, the best you can do is tell your parents how you are feeling... I know how you feel tho... You see all those kids hanging out outside of school and it makes you freaking nuts...
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 12:43 AM
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you gotta talk to someone ya know? it's not good keeping it all to yourself. someday, everything will explode right out and you'll breakdown. parents who send there child to private schools just wants them to turn out good. your not over reacting, its okay to feel that way once in awhile. if you have aim or anything. you talk to me if you don't mind chatting with strangers. i know how you feel, believe me.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 10:21 AM
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All I know is that your grammar sucks ass.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 10:50 AM
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Instead of just saying your life sucks you should really be thankful for all that you have... I know that seems hard becuase you seem jealous of all the kids that go out and do things, but you really have to realize that you have alot. You are only 15, and you have your whole life ahead of you. Next year I suggest you try to get a job somewhere and save money for a car. As soon as you turn 18 you will be completely free, and you can just drive off.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 12:30 PM
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no offense to your siblings but maybe your parents don't want you to be like them. maybe they're so proud of you that they don't want to risk all of it. as for your no " real " friends, you may not notice it but you probably do have real friends. i would make a list of all the people you talk to and then narrow it down to 1 or 2 people that you really care about. and then i would talk to them and tell them about how you feel. if it helps, talk to them on AIM or myspace, it doesn't put alot of pressure on you. you should start off with small things for the freedom. like, go running around your neighborhood or something. small things that won't worry them too much! hope you feel better!
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 12:31 PM
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CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 01:36 PM
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goody goodies usually don't get the freedom they ask for. Mostly because the parents would think you're the anti-social one.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 01:38 PM
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QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 27 2006, 2:36 PM) *
goody goodies usually don't get the freedom they ask for. Mostly because the parents would think you're the anti-social one.


agreed.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 02:33 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jul 27 2006, 11:21 AM) *
All I know is that your grammar sucks ass.

yep, i know mellow.gif

QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 27 2006, 2:36 PM) *
goody goodies usually don't get the freedom they ask for. Mostly because the parents would think you're the anti-social one.

yep i know that
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 02:58 PM
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I agree w/what Josh said, ... in both comments.

Just talk it out with your mom and dad... Seriously, sit them down, and explain how you feel, don't throw a fit or anything, just explain to them you feel like a prisoner in your own family, that it depresses you that you can't hang out with your friends, talk about your good grades, explain that you just want a teensy bit of freedom, etc.

The mall thing, don't get embarrassed! I go with my mom all the time, and I'm 17.. (18 in a few weeks) I love going with her, we get laughs out of silly things. She'd let me go alone of course, but I'd rather not.

You just have to make a stand to your parents. I did that years ago, thats why I have the freedom that I do. My mom trusts me because I've proved I'm trustworthy..

Do your parents not approve of your friends for some reason? Have them explain why you can't go anywhere.

Just really, talk it over.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 05:20 PM
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QUOTE(xCrys @ Jul 27 2006, 3:58 PM) *
I agree w/what Josh said, ... in both comments.

Do your parents not approve of your friends for some reason? Have them explain why you can't go anywhere.

yea they said i have bad taste in friends, they are "different" then me
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 09:33 PM
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^i get the same thing.

I'm the middle child, was just the youngest. But I don't really go anywhere. Outside of public school I didn't hang out with anyone from the school. I don't really have any real friends. That actually live here. They end up finding some new crowd and well I don't see them anymore. And talk to them out of blue moon, or well until school started again, although i got taken out of public school and ended up being homeschooled
So wooo no friends. haha. Oh i'm 15 as well


I don't go to the mall with friends. I always go with the family..
Thats just how it always is, but i wouldn't be embarresed about it. Be happy you have your family by you. Some kids their parents could care less about them and just let them go off like that.

When i start being homeschooled I went through this complete depression. But for other reasons, and then not having anyone to talk to.

But Be happy you have a life. And that you get to expierence so many things. life goes on and you'll do more things when you get older. And when your 18 you can just leave and go somewhere that you've always wanted to go. Even when your 16 you'll recieve more freedom, and if you don't

Talk to your parents

Thats the only way their going to understand. If you don't talk to them about how you feel and such like you've told us then their never going to get it.



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CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!


yea thats called stupidity.

don't try it.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 09:44 PM
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If it means it's harder for you to earn your freedom, it means you will probably have more freedom when you are legal. Maybe have join some school clubs or activities. That way you can do some stuff after school with your friends and you would have a reason.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 10:12 PM
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hmm that sounds EXACTLY like my life. like i've lost contact with soo many people cuhz they don't invite me to go anywhere anymore JUST BECAUSE they that i probably won't be able to go ]:

well i guess the only thing to do is to talk to your parents. and let them meet your friends. if they know who your friends are, they might actually let you go out with them. mann if only MY parents would actually agree to meet with MY friends x__x
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 10:30 PM
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QUOTE(GreatBigBallsOfFire @ Jul 27 2006, 1:31 PM) *
CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!



lol cutting isn't the answer
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 12:12 AM
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what do you think it says....if so obvious.
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being the middle child sucks ... i definitely feel you girl....
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 12:19 AM
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this sound like me too. but since im a senior in highschool, my parents have to give me my freedom. or..i`ll throw a bitch fit. haha. but you should really just one day tell your parents that you are going out to the movies(when you`re really not) with a friend and then, knowing that they`ll say no, just keep quiet and act sad and say that you wouldnt want to let the "person" think of you as a flake. just have courage. if this didnt make sense..then iono.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 01:45 AM
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You know, seeking an online forum for help doesn't do anything, neither does ranting about it.

I think it would be best if you solve this yourself without having to go back here at all.. unless you're bored then you can have fun with us.

In my opinion, it's better to want real friends than to hate them. That's my case right now.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 03:25 AM
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^ Hey, everyone needs to rant to someone sometimes. I didn't and I just exploaded, and did the thing Hollz called stupidity... But that was when I was 16.

As I never said earlier, tell your parents to shove it! The older you get, the different crowds you're going to hang out with.

You have to grow up sometime, and being a part of a different crowd is part of growing up, considering in the outside world: people won't act the way you want them to.

As everyone else has stated (and me) talk to your parents.

I hope things get better for you soon.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 03:55 PM
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wow i feel like that alot. not with that exact situation but still..limited freedom.

i think you have to talk to your parents and point out that you are responsible enough to go places without them.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 05:05 PM
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That sucks, I don't know how you feal since i've always been popular cooly.gif
But I do know if you where me I would say f**k my parents and go hang with my freinds.

btw-even tho im popular i still get good grades :P
 

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