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 Jul 4 2006, 06:46 AM
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nicorie  Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,679  |
Okay dudes, I know most of you had a girlfriend at one time or another. And we as guys know that we’re not women and we don’t how they feel or what they are thinking inside of them (cause you know they may say that they are fine but really they are not). But anyways, during your period of the relationship have you guys experience a dramatic mood swing? Like from one extreme feeling to another. For example, yesterday she was all loving, “I don’t want to let go of you” type of feeling to a PMS “give me space” feeling. Man…sometimes these sudden changes gets me all the time. Its like, “what did I do wrong?” Okay the real question is, “What do you blame the sudden change of emotion on?”
a. its her time of the month b. something about you that stressing her out c. something that in her own personal life that is stressing her out d. that is just her e. etc. The reason why I asked is because I’m never given the real reason why the girl is so suddenly pissed off. |
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Jul 4 2006, 08:40 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
It can be any one of those, and don't always blame it on PMS. Because not all girls go through PMS.
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| *Kathleen* |
Jul 4 2006, 04:14 PM
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^ Yeah, that irks me the most when guys say it's just PMS that's making you angry.
 Because nine times out of ten, it's not. Why don't you just try actually talking to her instead of assuming PMS?
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Jul 4 2006, 07:29 PM
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nicorie Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,679 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jul 4 2006, 5:14 PM)  ^ Yeah, that irks me the most when guys say it's just PMS that's making you angry. Because nine times out of ten, it's not. Why don't you just try actually talking to her instead of assuming PMS?yea. i'm the nice guy you know? i always try to talk to her but she always gives me this answer that is hard to believe. I mean like her words dont match her actions (she says that she is fine but she is quite). so yea... i just don't know when to give her space. |
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| *Kathleen* |
Jul 5 2006, 12:32 PM
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Mmm. Why don't you tell her that you're trying to help, but you don't know what to do. Try to get her to be more open with you about her feelings, and what ever it is, you're there for her. *Shrug* I mean that's what I would expect in a situation like that (albeit I'd never find myself in a position like that).
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Jul 5 2006, 12:36 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
When a guy assumes a girl is upset because of PMS, more likely than not (that is, if she ISN'T upset because of PMS), THAT assumption alone will make her angry/angrier.
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Jul 5 2006, 05:35 PM
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 another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
I tell my bf [well ex now] if im on my monthly so he doesnt get all pissed off at me because of the way i act.
Think about it, when is she acting like this ? Is it once a month or is it constantly ? |
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Jul 12 2006, 03:24 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
QUOTE(chasingvictory @ Jul 4 2006, 7:29 PM) yea. i'm the nice guy you know? i always try to talk to her but she always gives me this answer that is hard to believe. I mean like her words dont match her actions (she says that she is fine but she is quite). so yea... i just don't know when to give her space. maybe she's just an irritable person? hmm... idk... this is kind of a dumb answer... but sometimes i just get impatient for no reason... maybe it depends on the time of day, or how much sleep she's gotten. |
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Jul 31 2006, 09:00 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,886 |
QUOTE(yanners @ Jul 4 2006, 8:40 AM) It can be any one of those, and don't always blame it on PMS. Because not all girls go through PMS. [i]UMM at one time or another a girl does go though PMS. if she doesnt then somethings wrong. sometimes a girl doesnt get it untill she's like 15 or so they do get PMS. && mood swings.... PMS is the reason. it makes you feel like total crap. & you just want to be alone[mostly].[/i] |
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Aug 1 2006, 12:05 AM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
i don think it's cause of PMS maybe something else is stessing her out and it also depends on how often she has those mood swings
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| *ECD & C0* |
Aug 1 2006, 05:10 PM
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i guess it could be any of them
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 1 2006, 07:18 PM
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I don't know... sometimes I want to vomit when I try and figure it out...
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| *Kathleen* |
Aug 2 2006, 05:42 AM
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QUOTE( @ Aug 1 2006, 8:28 PM) i'll tell you what, some girls do go through "hmm, i cant decide which one but i cant let them know theres 2 of them". oh yes my friend, you need to check up on that immediatly. Okay. Uhm. Come again? 
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