ahhh Summer time again

Summer Romances...
what do you think about them?
what makes them so great?
do they have less meaning than a regular relationship?
do they mean anything?

Summer romances has happened several times to me, so I like to know what they really mean and what you think.

i had one. the ending was a bunch of shit. it was good while it lasted. i think of summer romances as like..a no commitment thing. im sure that im wrong in lots of cases but tahts just my perspective of it. personally, i think its better because you feel more in love and giddy and also, its during the summer. you have all the free time in the world to hang with them. thats whats so great.

1.) Summer romances are cute
2.) Well there's no school to keep you busy so you practically see each other everyday for the whole 2 (or more) months
3.) Well I think of its meaning the same as a regular relationship (seeing as how it goes the same way)

I think summer romances are soo cute because of the weather and schools out so you see them longer and you don`t have to worry about reports or anthing.

I hate them

cause they dont last. and then later one its all pain and then its like POOF nothing ever effin happened.

Well aren't you a right little ray of sunshine.


what do you think about them? Heeey if you can catch a summer romance then, go on with it. I personally, think they're great depending on how they go.
what makes them so great? Depending on how the relationship is, I'd want it to last all through school and the rest of the summers. Im not real a fling kind of person. More of wifey material as my friends say. But ain't no problem in a one night stand ;D
do they have less meaning than a regular relationship? Only if you make it that way.
do they mean anything? Of course. Summerdays and especially summernights, together all the time. Free days, no school, no homework, no nothing to keep you away from eachother ( except maybe parents or whatever )

haha i dont look at everything negatively


i just had a few and none of them were worth my time

cause its like a year later you meet them again and your like HEY and their like
uhh you are who again?! hehe

I've never had one, because I never really go anywhere during the summer, & if I do it's with my family so.. no guys to talk to, & no guys to talk to me.

But they just seem really special to me,
summer seems to be the most romantic month, with the warm weather.
& I've always wanted one.
Reminds me of the Notebook.

i haven't had one

oooh. that would SUCK.

i personally dont really like them because they'll end, and it'll hurt.. uh a lot if you grow quite attached to the person.

I think that because there's so much free time, you may feel infatuated with a person, hang out with them so much that you get tired of them or the other way around. And eventually you/they lose interest, and you're not even friends much less boyfriends/girlfriends. That's happened to me before.

I guess it's so great because you have all that time to spend with them.
I dunno...summer just puts you in this non-commital state of mind. Everything's really relaxed. It just makes perfect sense ot have some fun care-free relationship during the summer.

But don't take my word for it. Seeing as how I've never been in an actual relationship.

Haaa. They're ok. Cute. It's just a fling to me. It's summer, have some fun.

If it only lasts for the summer, is it really a "Romance?"

Isn't REAL love undying?

Maybe they're in love with SUMMER, or the thought of being in love, not with the actual person...

who knows? I guess I don't...

summer romances are swell. i personally find them quite fun & interesting & u don't have to worry about never seeing each other cuz school doesn't get in the way.

I had a summer romance a few years ago. I personally think it's an ecstasy dream, but i'll remember it for a life time. She would considered to be my first love, but now she's gone.. From June through Oct. Each year when summer comes, I still remember her and miss her.

yea the first time i was in a summer romance
i loved the girl
we cuddled and watched movies many times
i thought she just had a very flirty nature
the fact that she might of liked me didn't even cross my mind
therefore i never asked her out
turns out she really liked me (she and her friends told me later)
school came and i never didn't see her much
she went out with this other kid for like a week
i knew my chances to be bf/gf with her were gone...
that summer was the best summer of my life
i'm just sad that i couldn't finish the deal
that is my biggest regret in life so far

Well, for some people.... "it's time to get a summer job, work work work"

and others, "it's time for summer school..ewww!!!"

-_-;;;

but people who dont need to get a summer job and dont need to go to summer school. they can totally have a reallly gooood summer romance

i remember my friend, katie said "Summer Romance always ends up in a beach." -_-;;;;;;;;; maybe cause she lives in california now -_-;;

But I think Summer Romance sounds cute.... but I like winter better.... cause you can cuddle with that person next to fireplace and PLAY SNOWFIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xD ..... summer is always the beach... i kinda DO AGREE WITH MY FRIEND. summer is not always the best TIME TO DATE XD im jk... well to some people... who *** ********** yeah. ^^;;

for me, going to school is more of a way to hang out with guys rather than summer... ehh. probably because i live so far away from everyone.

what do you think about them? umm... well... they're cute! i m having one rite now sorta...
what makes them so great? it's in summer!!! we can spend a lotta time tgt since we dont hav skool...
do they have less meaning than a regular relationship? nope...
do they mean anything? well... u'll probably remember it forever... it's reli special imo... cuz u two can spend alotta time with each other...

*sigh* i m sorta having one rite now n i reli dont want summer to end... we're going to different high skools but we're still gonna live on the same street... well until like next january... cuz im gonna b moving... but we'll still live pretty close to each other...

what do you think about them? --> I think they're nothing big... people praise them as more than they are.
what makes them so great? --> who said they're great? the way i see it, it's sad, because it'll end when summer ends..
do they have less meaning than a regular relationship? it only lasts for the summer (hence the word SUMMER and no other words) so yeah, they do. because they're just SUMMER... it's kind of dumb if you only like them during the summer. and if it lasts through fall and winter, then it's NOT a summer romance... it's just a romance.
do they mean anything? they mean fun in the sun... but that's all i guess. which isn't as good as reality.

I'd love to have a summer romance. They're great if you don't want a serious commitment.

Well I think their kind of pointless, and is just another way of using people. You date them for the summer get what you want and then thats it. I suppose their good for people that don't want to be in a serious relaitonship. But if you don't even want one of those relationships then do you think you just want one of these care free summer ones.

i know some people who hooked up in the summer but didn't have the intent of it JUST being a "summer romance."

my friend met her boyfriend at warped tour (which is this weekend, but they met there last year) and they've been dating for a year.

and my other friend went to elementary school with her boyfriend (but now they're in high school), got together in june, and have been dating for 3 years.

i take it those are the opposities of a summer romance? hah yeah.

but to answer the question, i guess it just depends on what you get yourself into. meaning, are you in the relationship for the sake of being in one, the sake of getting action, or the sake of the person- because you really like them.

if anyone wanted the relationship so badly, i think they could've made it last past summer.