You're still with him?

Taylor``

Aparently she is. Atleast nothing did happen, but I think from the article and such it means being sexual abused meaning you don't exactly have the say in saying no.

Yeah I am .. I mean we talked about it after n stuff. I just didn't want to yet.

^ But did he force you to do it? And did he threat to leave you or something like that?

Taylor``

lol you're so curious. uhm. no he didn't. if he would have done that.. that fool would have been gone instantly.

No I've never been abused or raped.
But the fact is none of us can say anything about what it's like, until we have. Because we DON'T know what it's like.
So I think that we both should just stop talking about it like we know enough about it to make judgement.

^then you don't really fall under the category of this topic..

This is talking about like boyfriends just raping their girlfriends and stuff like that. I mean if he didn't even come close to that and you just said no and that was it.. then well i don't see it.




who are you referring to?

Haha yeah.. But I'm relieved.

I thought you were one of those people who keep being with a guy despite his abusive behaviour..

Taylor``

Wow.Thats true.Their is a lot of pressured sex.I hear soo many rumors of girls being pregnant because the guys got them drunk and stuff.

^yea.
we have like a 8 yr old in the neighborhood my grandma lives..
but she got pregnant a little while ago.

Dang, why'd everyone jump Holly? She just stated facts that were actually true. My mother was malested by her step-father (hes not her step pa anymore) She occassionally talks about it sometimes, but you can see the hurt in her eyes... And the fact that her mother didn't do anything about, I think thats what hurts her most. & yeah, she lives with that day to day, but she doesn't CONSTANTLY think about it, she lets it set in the back of her head unless someone mentions something about it. I'm sure she still hurts from it, but she doesn't let it control her. Like Holly said, it differs with people on how they get over things.... Ya'll didn't have to jump her..

But back to being on the topic, it's true, rarely nowadays do you hear about rape from some guy off the street... It's usually someone they know, and to tell you the truth, it pisses me off. I had a friend who was raped by her boyfriend, she got pregnant, and has a little baby now. Truth is, shes still with him, she still lives with her parents, who don't even care about her. She lives with that day-to-day, and she will for the rest of her life... That baby will be her constant reminder... It ticks me off, I better get off here before I rant more v.v

yup..this guy ive known since freshman year..but weve only said hi in the hallways so we werent that close..we hooked up 2 wks ago when we were drunk and then he tried to have sex w/ me after prom a few days ago.. the thing is he kept making up some bs about how much he likes me..blablahblah..psssssshhhhhhhhhh

yeah right ..i didnt fall for it

i adore you.
I know plenty that have been raped and such.
So its not like i was completely clueless.

This has happend to me once or twice.. wioth my boy friend.. I tell him hes cute and he comes back and says .. " They why dont you f**k me?" This shocked me because he ment it... I dont need that shit. But I still love him :-) Its fuked up.

^
That doesn't exactly fall under this thing either, i mean if he just said it then woop-te-doo. But i mean if he forced himself on you and invaded you then that would fall under this...

Fool, chill out.

Let them say whatever. Stop quoting everybody.

Reviewing this...Holly...i notice you disagree with certain people's aspects on this matter...and that's respectable to show your point of view....But different people take meanings different ways...you don't have to call them out for not meeting the details that you see fit....although i do respect your opinions...i think you should tone it down a bit. and let people interperate this the way they feel fit.

^ehm okay.

and to who ever you are. I didn't bother to look at your screen name
Don't call me a fool
kthx.

and don't tell me to stop quoting everybody.

hahah my name is lorena.

and i already told you.

SMAAAASH.

0_O

Now now.....ladies play nice....

Hahah. Bella .. you're hella stupid.

Although I know that this happens a lot, this is a totally different thing then people thinking girls feel pressured or 'just let them' have sex.

Girls like sex, too. Provided it's good sex, and it's not always about the guys, you know?

sorry if i know nothing but why would their boyfriends rape them? I mean, like ex bf or still in the relationship? if they love their boyfriends then why don't they just have sex then instead?