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| *StanleyThePanda* |
 Jun 5 2006, 10:03 AM
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That is deffinately very possible.
I've been close friends with guys before and it hasnt turned into anything else. |
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Jun 9 2006, 09:30 PM
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 banana ham!  Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,050 |
I have A LOT of close guys friends, but someone always end up liking liking the other person or something like that. But i also have two close guys friends that is nothing more.. but one of them was my ex. but we`re cool now. we`re more like brother and sister kinda thing..
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 9 2006, 09:31 PM
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QUOTE(StanleyThePanda @ Jun 5 2006, 11:03 AM)  That is deffinately very possible. I've been close friends with guys before and it hasnt turned into anything else. yea same. yay some quoted me and completely agreed. 
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Jun 9 2006, 09:40 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
From all your responses, it seems that all of you agree that a guy and a girl can be close friends without turning it into something more...but I have one more question for you guys:
What do you do to keep the friendship as close friends and nothing more? |
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| *This Confession* |
Jun 9 2006, 09:42 PM
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You only stay on a friend level. Not everyone does get along good enough to be in a actual relationship and both agree upon that. Some as well are to worried about losing the friendship if they do get in a relationship. Really its a matter if both parties can keep it at a friend level and if one does grow some kind of feeling for the other then you need to talk about it.
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Jun 11 2006, 02:16 AM
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 DAM ITS SHELBY Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,864 |
I THINK ITS POSSIBLE.
because im one of those people. my best guy friend is not what i look for in a relationship. no thanks. hehehe. and we've been friends for 9 years. but i also have another guy friend. i spent a lot of time with him also and i like him.. it just depends. |
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| *mipadi* |
Jun 11 2006, 05:01 PM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Jun 9 2006, 10:40 PM) What do you do to keep the friendship as close friends and nothing more? You can't really do anything. Either it stays friends, or one person starts to want it to be something more. |
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Jun 11 2006, 05:18 PM
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Yesssss!
I'm close with tons of guys at my school, especially with my "brother". We've known each other for 7 years, so yeah. Really tight friends =) |
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Jun 11 2006, 05:25 PM
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 ||Leon/Silent W[hisper]|| Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 257,387 |
QUOTE(AzNxBaBi @ Jun 3 2006, 7:19 PM) I don't think a guy and a girl being close friends is the only thing that will happen. Unless the guy is gay or vice versa. Spending a lot of time cause other peopel to think the guy and girl have soem sort of relationship. & You know peopel keep askign and then feeligns develop. That's just one of the ways how guys and girls cant' just be friends. Cause i know lol .. Yeah soemtiems it does jsut come naturally too. :] I disagree.i mean im 100% straight and my best friend for life is a girl.And the girl who i used to like,me and her are still close friends. |
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Jun 11 2006, 08:57 PM
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of course it is possible for a guy and a girl to be close friends...
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jun 12 2006, 03:11 PM
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Of course it's possible. It's possible to love your best guy/girl friend as JUST a friend and not anymore than that.
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Jun 12 2006, 08:30 PM
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 ..♥.A Girl With Talents.♥.. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,238 |
I think that a guy and a girl can be close friends...but its so hard not to flirt...But I have close guy friend and yer we flirt sometimes but Were good mates and were really close friends!
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Jun 13 2006, 05:28 AM
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of course it's possible.
at least I think it is. =/ I have about ten close/best guy friends, and I have never ever liked a single one. Actually, maybe three or four of them have liked me at some point or still like me, but they also respect the fact that I have a boyfriend that I love. (except my bf and I were never close friends). But I think it's hard to keep it at a 'close friendship' level if feelings do develop, because you can't really stop a heart. I still act normally around my close friends that I know like me as more than a friend, but I can tell it's uncomfortable for them since they know I won't like them back. |
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Jun 13 2006, 10:25 PM
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Yes, if you can keep it that way.
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Jun 13 2006, 10:42 PM
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ABSO-POZZILOOTLEE
..lol...yea its totally cool 2 be real good friends wit the opposite sex... 
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Jun 14 2006, 04:38 AM
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I think you can be close friends.
I have alot of guy friends that i'm really close with, and we're JUST FRIENDS! So i definitely think its possible. But if something does start to happen between that guy and girl, then it'll happen. If one doesn't want it to, they just have to be clear with the other. If they are good friends, the other person should respect that. -Mel |
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