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Samus4u
post May 31 2006, 04:32 PM
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i like this girl but we really don't know each other well. i told her how i felt about her she didn't say anything she just smiled and walked off. this has really confused me, does she think im joking or something
 
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post May 31 2006, 04:39 PM
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she probably just didn't know what to say when you told her
 
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post May 31 2006, 04:42 PM
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It's not a crush if you don't know her. It doesn't even look like you two are friends, much less more than friends. And you have to be really good friends before you confess you have a "crush" on someone. Otherwise, they'll just get creeped out by you and get that stalker vibe.
 
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post May 31 2006, 05:21 PM
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i suggest you get her out of your mind, because like ^^ said, you're gonna seem like a stalker... so wait a while before talking to her again, and then just act like friends.. JUST friends, and pretend you don't like her anymore... then once you become really good friends, THEN you should tell her again...
 
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post May 31 2006, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ May 31 2006, 5:42 PM) *
It's not a crush if you don't know her. It doesn't even look like you two are friends, much less more than friends. And you have to be really good friends before you confess you have a "crush" on someone. Otherwise, they'll just get creeped out by you and get that stalker vibe.

wtf are you talking about, i was madly in love with cs the first day i got it
 
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post May 31 2006, 06:31 PM
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well..she prob. isnt comfortable about it at first when you tell her..since she knows you for a little
 
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post May 31 2006, 08:57 PM
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QUOTE(magicfann @ May 31 2006, 5:35 PM) *
wtf are you talking about, i was madly in love with cs the first day i got it


Lol...
 
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post May 31 2006, 09:15 PM
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QUOTE(magicfann @ May 31 2006, 6:35 PM) *
wtf are you talking about, i was madly in love with cs the first day i got it


JEFF! I TOLD YOU TO GO AWAY. ohmy.gif

Agreed with Katt. Doesn't really sound like a good idea to crush on someone you hardly know.
 
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post May 31 2006, 09:17 PM
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^^ Yeah..find someone you really know.She might be someone different once you get to know her.
 
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post Jun 2 2006, 08:40 PM
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try to get to know her first before you tell her you have a crush on her...
 
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post Jun 2 2006, 11:27 PM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ May 31 2006, 5:42 PM) *
It's not a crush if you don't know her. It doesn't even look like you two are friends, much less more than friends. And you have to be really good friends before you confess you have a "crush" on someone. Otherwise, they'll just get creeped out by you and get that stalker vibe.

you don't have to be friends to have a crush on someone -_-
 
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post Jun 3 2006, 12:44 AM
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well you gotta keep talking to her about it.

not too much...but then again not too little.

youll see its not too hard to find out.
 
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post Jun 3 2006, 03:11 PM
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She probably didn't know how to react to it.
 
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post Jun 3 2006, 10:35 PM
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eyy everyone umm not to be rude but could yall stop using my post to do everything....if it doesnt have anything to do with the subject then yeah please dont put it up here....tnkz byee

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eyy everyone umm not to be rude but could yall stop using my post to do everything....if it doesnt have anything to do with the subject then yeah please dont put it up here....tnkz byee


sorry i put that in the wrong post =X sorry
 
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post Jun 5 2006, 04:44 PM
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no she doest think your joking. is she shy? it could have been that she didnt know what to say it most likely flattered her. i no i did this to someone because i didnt no how to react =D
 
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post Jun 7 2006, 10:26 PM
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she obviously didn't know what to say... i bet when she got home she was like "wooow omg that is so awsome..."

if you were laughing and smiling big and saying that then she probably thought you were joking but u'd know if she was cause shed be like "okkkayyyy... uhh shut up" or somthing well thats what i do

but yeah think about it
 
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post Jun 8 2006, 01:35 PM
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hey thanks for the comments i know i dodn't really know her but i will talk to her and maybe we will get to know each other.

once again thanks.
 
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post Jun 8 2006, 05:33 PM
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QUOTE(magicfann @ May 31 2006, 6:35 PM) *
wtf are you talking about, i was madly in love with cs the first day i got it


LOL! AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO UNDERSTOOD THAT?>
 
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post Jun 18 2006, 04:09 AM
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hey after 3 weeks i went back to tell her that what i said was wrong because we didn't know each other that well but as soon as i started she says that i didn't tell her anything. why did she say that.
 
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post Jun 18 2006, 05:09 AM
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I don't get why she said that and I'm a girl, maybe you didn't explain it better. I mean if you have a crush on her then if you really want to do something about it then make a effort to get to know her, don't go into a relationship with out knowing someone, I mean of course being in a relationship is to get to know someone but before that you should know each other at a well enough level that its not just going to be some silly dumb relationship. Your learning though. Although I don't know how old you are 0_O? I'm guessing middle school or so? But your still learning, so your going to go through some learning relationships to learn what you really want out of a girl and it takes time and patience.

I wish you luck. happy.gif
 
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post Jun 18 2006, 05:38 AM
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It's possible that she may have found it a joke, but I guess until you go up to her and ask her:"Do you think anything would ever go on between us?" or something similiar to that, Then I don't think you will get an answer. But, Best of luck. I hope things go well
 
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post Jun 19 2006, 10:30 PM
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When you said you don't know her that well, exactly where do you two stand? Classmates, friends of a friends or simply someone who was there at this gathering once and that was the only time you talked to her? I'm just curious.

But either way, if she just walked away, there can be so many possibilities about what was going through her mind, it's hard to find out exactly what's going on. Unless you ask her yourself, but I woulnd't really recommend that since you might scare her before you even get to know her better. That's when a friend comes in handy, that is, if you trust them not to screw things up. If you know someone whos also friends with her, you can always try approaching her causally and see how she reacts or if she will bring the subject matter up.

At this point, you can't really do anything. Even after dozens of surveys of a girl's opinion of what just happened, you can never narrow down to the reason for her actions. Even if it's close, there's still many possibilities, especially when we are all different =]

Good luck.
 
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post Jun 20 2006, 04:31 AM
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QUOTE(seremela_culnamo @ Jun 19 2006, 11:30 PM) *
When you said you don't know her that well, exactly where do you two stand? Classmates, friends of a friends or simply someone who was there at this gathering once and that was the only time you talked to her? I'm just curious.

Yes, Unfortunaltely we must have more information in order to assess the "problem"
 
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post Jun 20 2006, 10:04 PM
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Yeah.

Trust me,
It freaks us girls out when you hardly know us and just say you like us.
It makes us think you are just saying that because of our looks or body.
We want to know the real you and get to know you better and you get to know us better before you just barge up to us and tell us you like us.



Hope this helped. :D
 
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post Jun 23 2006, 08:08 PM
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QUOTE(Samus4u @ Jun 18 2006, 2:09 AM) *
hey after 3 weeks i went back to tell her that what i said was wrong because we didn't know each other that well but as soon as i started she says that i didn't tell her anything. why did she say that.



okay... everyones different... but i'm going to be the one to give you some hope in this...
me and my boyfriend are TOTAL opposites! we just new each others name... and then one day he added me msn messenger and told me he liked me... i was kinda freacked out and was like umm ok i have to go... well after that we just started talkin slightly... and then he asked for my number nad i gave it to him... then he started callin... and gradually we started talking more... well the moral of this is... we've been together for a while now... amazingly... we are still soooo different... i think thats why we get along soo great! we absolutely luv each other... but just give her time... come on SLOWLY!!!!! i mean slowly... talk to her and get to know her... and let it gradually happen!! alright well i hope i helped!! i'll check back everyonce in a while incase you need some more advice just post!
 

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