Hi guys.
I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me.
I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad.
On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!

And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think?

Is she going to cry ? This thread will make her sad and uncomfortable about herself.

Okay.
Naturally,I'm the kind of kid who hates kids like you.
the kind of kid who'd take your picture,and throw darts into your forehead all night for FUN.
but you know what?
you sound so.......needy.
I'm just gonna help you.

They probably dont hate you because your popular,though it might have come out like that.When you get mad at a person,you start thinking about all the things you don't like about them.Sometimes there are so many you forget your point and when your actually tell them it comes out completely different than what was meant to be.

Since your so "popular",you have other friends right?Well whoever yelled at you probably though that you were their BEST friend,and whenever you would go off with someone else,or not pay attention to this person because you were paying attention to someone else,they may feel a little left out.I know this is true,the same thing goes on with one of my friends.

you also sound a bit conceited,your firends might just be a little unhappy with how you veiw yourself.When you walk around talking about YOUR achievements,and YOUR gifts,talking about how YOUR special,does it really give them room to make them feel special too?No.maybe they were tired of you making them feel like sh*t.

Of course I'm crying. It's really depressing.
I hate myself right now.

QUOTE(Nugget @ May 27 2006, 3:09 PM)

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!
-Christine

QUOTE(ashopely @ May 27 2006, 3:51 PM)

I agree.

QUOTE(Smoogrish @ May 27 2006, 5:01 PM)

No offense, but it seems you're a bit over the top with yourself. Tone down a bit on your "i'm so perfect" things- if you go around saying things like that, people definitely aren't going to like you, in reality and online.

QUOTE(John Fu @ May 27 2006, 5:07 PM)

Most people hate popular kids because they're so god damn concieted. Surely you probably did something so... concieted that got them hating at you.

QUOTE(TATiisoHO0D @ May 27 2006, 8:41 PM)

to tell you the truth i wouldn't like you from the very start...

QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ May 27 2006, 8:53 PM)

^
I dont like your either. No, i'm not kidding. i really HATE you.

QUOTE(brownsugar @ May 27 2006, 8:57 PM)

Besides..since you're so perfect, you shouldn't need our help. :)

QUOTE(×__Elle. @ May 28 2006, 12:41 AM)

To be perfectly honest, I'd hate you too.

Now, everyone who checks out this thread says that I'm conceited, cocky and that he/she would obviously hate me.

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QUOTE(helllla jankyyyy @ May 27 2006, 8:36 PM)

Yeah well you sound really cocky.
& Emma Sue is not the nicest name ..
I don't really think its a NICE name at all.

[font=Arial]I never said that Emma Sue is the nicest name. NEVER! Personally I hate it right now. My stupid parents chose it and it's not my fault..


And I have problems too:
I see my parents twice a year and they don't care about me and my brothers. Today is my brother's birthday and he is sad coz our parents didn't even call him. What do u all think about this?
I broke up w/ my boyfriend coz one of his friends threatened me that if I didn't she would do several things to my brother and to my boyfriend. Do u find this easy? I cry every day.
Since we broke up he started smoking and drinking. It hurts to see him like that especially when I'm so afraid to tell him what's going on.
I have many friends but I used to consider her as my best friend. That's why I asked 4 advice.
Now I'm even more depressed coz so may people I don't know hate me.
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(:( :( :(

er... yea, i must say i agree.

Thats not why they don't like you. They don't like you because you come off conceited and actually believe you're all the things your friend said about you. A modest person wouldnt say "they dont like me because i'm popular". You probably are nice and popular. =) I think you're nice actually. Just don't know you are.

Here's how:
Realize that..
1. Every boy doesn't like you.
2. Some people in the world will not like you.
3. You're not perfect.
4. You're not the cutest and sweetest person ever.
5. you are semi conceited.

^Once you've realized that and come to terms with it here's what you do:

Fix it, become less conceited. Then apologize to your friend, sincerely. Tell her you're sorry you've been kind of cocky lately and that you've changed and really miss her friendship.

^don't apologize like that.


If she's still mad, then she's not a very good friend.

why? surely if you dont know them, it really doesnt matter one little bit?

oh, and drop the sue from your name. emma is a lovely name. the sue kills it.

agreed.
like HXC.
haha.

i don't think that your friends dumped you because you're "popular, beautiful, smart, perfect...", i think it's because YOU view yourself that way.

i think emma sue is a fag

Quit being mean to the girl. She'll end up commiting suicide or being a wrist cutting maniac.

They don't hate you because you're popular and beautiful and everyone loves you. They hate you cos your cocky and concieted and they can't stand you. Quit being so full of yourself, learn a LOT of humbleness and people won't have a problem with you. Have you ever heard the saying 'He/She with many friends has no friends'. Stop rooting for world popularity, cos there will always be people who dislike you, no matter how perfect you think you are. That girl obviously isnt your friend, and you shouldnt miss someone who is such a bitch. Go and find all those other people who you say like you so much and make close bonds with someone. Its better to have 1or 2 really best friends than 100362732 friends.

Basically, get over yourself. Nobody is as special as you make yourself seem. Also like the saying, nobody is perfect until your in love with them. Seems like you're pretty much in love with yourself, which is the problem. It all comes to be humble.

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On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

^^Your really full of yourself. MODESTY will make other people like you more.



I STILL think that they are just jealous though.

[quote name='Emma Sue' date='May 28 2006, 7:28 AM' post='2064938']
Of course I'm crying. It's really depressing.
I hate myself right now.


Now, everyone who checks out this thread says that I'm conceited, cocky and that he/she would obviously hate me.

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You brought it upon yourself -_- If you can't figure out how...-_______- I lose hope on you. And don't get too depressed about these things. Not everyone has to love you (as many people said). The more you complain about people hating you the more you seem annoying. Stop making yourself seem like an attention whore

Haha!

I'm sorry, I don't mean to laugh, it's just that we don't often get problems like this around here. Most people are upset because no one likes them or they have some sort of problem, not because they're well-liked and popular.

It seems everyone else is either telling you a) you shouldn't be upset because you have it better off than most people, or b) you're conceited. Now, it's quite possible that you are using your life and your friend's words to brag, but I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are really disappointed that your friend doesn't seem to like you anymore.

You seem to have learned a valuable lesson: All the popularity in the world doesn't matter if the one person most important to you (or at least very important to you) doesn't like you. And you make another good point that everyone who heeds this thread should take to heart: Even the person who seems to have it all has problems, and those problems bother that person, just like any of our personal problems bother us.

But a lot of people did make a good point: Sometimes, the reason you think other people don't like you, is not the reason they don't like you at all. Let me use a personal anecdote as an example. When I was a junior in high school, I had a great group of friends. But I was always really paranoid that they didn't like me, and that I wasn't their favorite friend. Long story short, by the beginning of my senior year, they all pretty much stopped hanging out with me. I thought was because I was dorky and "not cool", because I didn't drink and smoke and party a lot, because they were too wrapped up in themselves to be my friend, because I wasn't tall and handsome and didn't attract all the girls. That wasn't the reason at all, though. It was because I was f**king annoying. I was always talking about my problems and whining about how no one liked me. So they stopped hanging out with me.

My point? Maybe it's not because you're popular and every boy likes you; maybe it's how those things make you act.

It's not bad to be popular and well-liked. But it's bad to hang onto it so tightly, to broadcast it so loudly, that people get sick of you. I'm not accusing you of doing that—but you know if you are or not, so keep my wisdom in mind.

And finally…maybe it's a self-esteem issue. I'm not accusing you of anything, but let me ask you honestly: Do you like yourself? Are you happy with who you are? A lot of times (especially in high school), people who claim to have a lot of friends, and claim to have a lot of admirers, really suffer from a lack of self-esteem, and use their number of friendships to cover that up. Remember that it's not the number of friends, but the quality that counts.

Those are some thoughts to keep in mind.

ok there's this popular girl that i absolutely hate... and everyone loves. why? because she's so FAKE. perfect- pretty, 'fun', talented (she seriously is), smart, etc. this isn't why she's fake. it's because she either fakes modesty, or is full out conceited and snobby to the ppl she doesn't hang out with. maybe it's just me. i don't know.

sometimes being confident can make you look arrogant.

well.. no offense
but you did sound kind of concieted..
their jealous though
when you just go along with it as well and have a bf
its like rubbing it in pretty much to them.


^very true.
Although i rather have the person i care for the most then ever be popular for one day.

Actually
there may be something else this girl sees in you that she doesn't like..

^like above that fake part.
thats why i dislike people because their concieted and fake.
People shouldn't care what other people think and be content with who you are.
If no one likes you, you learn to accept it because people are different so some people aren't going to get along wtih others.
its life accept it.



Also if you go these friends and talk and talk about yourself.
sorry but thats being conceited and people don't want to hear it.

could have put that a little nicer..
Really no ones perfect
and you even if your in love its still not perfect.




Mostly. you need to change how you look at things
because how you pretty much explained it
you look at your life as its perfect and you have these group
of people because your so nice and stuff.

Maybe if you look at the situation in their eyes maybe you'll figure it out.

^ I really don't know why you're quoting me and saying im mean when the hordes of other people are saying 'I think I hate you too' , 'Emma Sue's a fag ' and such. & I was just quoting an old saying with the you're not perfect til somebody loves you. Dont talk to me about it, talk to the person who made it up. Well, anyways In my opinion it's as nice as it could have been while forcefully getting the point through. Truth hurts honey.

Wow..what a hard life

In life, even though it sucks, not everyone is going to like you for some reason, and your friend probably has been thinking about those qualities of yours that probably bother her, but something you might have done, might have taken her to the breaking point to say those things. But either way, talk to her (screw her if she ignores you, you're just trying to be nice here) and find out what's really going on.

how can u be popular if everyone hates you? Thats something I never got. I was popular in school because I was friends with just about everyone. People liked me and I liked them. I was friends with freaks geeks goths band nerds and pretty girls. But I wasnt considered "popular." And then the popular people were the most hated a-hole bitches in the school. And they had no friends but eachother. How can u be popular if your on everyones hate list? no offense, but you dont sound very popular to me. Popular generally means people know and like you, and from the way you desribe urself, no one likes you. Because your conceited and probably assigned the title popular to yourself. Just be sincere with people. Stop talking and whining about your obvious lack of real problems. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sorry. When there are people out there being discriminated against because of the color of their skin or how small their house is and the fact they cant afford nice clothes or a good meal, I just cant give a sh*t about the fact that you are sad because you are popular yet no one likes you. Its time you take a good look in the mirror and change your priorities. And I'm not saying thing because I'm a jealous ugly person because as you can see I've no reason to be jealous. Expand your world of me me me and try to find out whats wrong with your friend instead of just whining because she doesnt like you. Maybe theyre all tired of hearing about how wonderfully beautiful talented and smart you are. Maybe they want you to tell them how beautiful talented and smart they are. Maybe they would like to go a day without hearing about your problems. Open yourself up for others. Being born pretty and smart doesnt make you anymore interesting, deseving, or better than the next person. Try making friends with people who might hurt your reputation, and try not flirting with every guy in your school. Nothing pisses a girl off more than another girl, who can choose from 500 other guys, going after the one she wants. And like I said be sincere. Care about those around you and move on to the world outside of your compact mirror.

You dont need friends like that..........

Haha ... you can't be serious.

Anway, like many people said, you sound conceited and cocky. If I'm honest I just think your messing about, because your making yourself seem so perfect .. people do have flaws you know.

If a friend was saying 'Don't ever talk to me again, I hate you' they wouldn't go on to give you compliements. Anyway if your being serious which I very much doubt then you can't please everyone, and people do get jealous. Just tell them to piss off, and get on with their lives.

"Some girls."

Anyways, I don't know why you're all attacking her, she has a problem she needs help with. Telling her how conceited she is really doesn't help.

Why doesn't this seem credible to me?

HA!
that made me think of some other word.
like,I was so proud.
because I'm not a very bright kid
anywho's.
I'm gonna be all "creative"

you sound really narcisstic.
like alot.
and if I actually knew you,
I'd be the kid you hated with a passion.
because I'd kick your ass.
kids like you seriousely annoy me.
get over yourself.

^ .. Who are you talking to.

the thing is, the only real way to fix her problem is to work on her ego. No one like someone who cares only about themselves. Friends are the people who are supposed to be there for you. And to fix her problem the first thing she needs to do is fix herself.