guys won't ask me out, can you help? |
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 Apr 29 2006, 03:45 PM
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 i think you're stupid.  Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203  |
I don't know if i'll sound like a huge jerk when i'm explaining but if i do i apologize.
The only time I’ve ever been asked out was by this really weird guy. All my friends have been asked out by someone that’s actually nice. I think I’m pretty. It’s not like I don’t have friends, I have lots of friends. And a bunch of them are guys. So I don't know why they wouldn't notice me. I’m not shy at all. I flirt sometimes too. Has this ever happened to anyone else? What can I do to make them realize that I want someone to like me? |
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Apr 29 2006, 03:51 PM
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 Antho a.k.a the Afrodisiac Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 396,805 |
No doubt, you're a cutie (w/ a big booty), so why wouldn't they ask u out.
 I'll do it then. colleen92, i been watchin you watchin me and i just wanted 2 know, would u make me 1 of the luckiest dudes in cB and go out with me?(Random act of Kindness #1) |
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Apr 29 2006, 03:52 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
of course. I love you. forever....and ever.
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Apr 29 2006, 03:56 PM
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guys might say stuff like "oh, looks don't matter in a girl, as long as i love them." they're wrong. they DO care about girls' looks, and they will try to get with a pretty/hot girl. it seems shallow, no?
just wait it out until a guy does notice you. or something like that. |
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Apr 29 2006, 04:21 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
I was the same way. Until, the guy im recently w/ asked me out. Just wait, and the right guy will come.
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Apr 29 2006, 04:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
guys might think you're not girlfriend material.
how old are you, btw? if you haven't reached high school yet, then don't sweat it. i've been asked out twice, but i didn't like either of them but i only saw them as friends. maybe you just haven't found the right person yet. |
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| *This Confession* |
Apr 29 2006, 05:36 PM
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just be patient
the day will come although you could go out on the limb and ask someone out yourself. and this happend to be all through school.. ive always had more guy friends. but sometimes they just see you as only that and sometimes they don't and just don't have the guts to ask a girl out.. which i find odd and funny at the same time.. just takes time i don't know how old you are as well but if your like in middle school or something lower. you still got plenty of time.. [or even high school] |
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Apr 29 2006, 06:41 PM
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 wooo..... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765 |
i was the same way...but then one guy asked me out and he was AMAZING...only my parents found out about him
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Apr 29 2006, 10:34 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ Apr 29 2006, 6:36 PM)  and sometimes they don't and just don't have the guts to ask a girl out.. which i find odd and funny at the same time.. they've told me who they like...(it's that bad lol) and a lot of the time they won't ask them out. so even if one did like me...i probably wouldn't know... 
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Apr 29 2006, 10:56 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
just wait...someone will come along
why not you go up and ask them out? |
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Apr 30 2006, 12:20 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Be patient.Theres really no good explanation why guys won`t ask you out because..every guy has a different taste for girls.I think that you should just ask someone out yourself or give hints more.
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Apr 30 2006, 01:21 AM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
^Yeah. I agree.
The time hasn't come for the guy to ask yet. :] |
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Apr 30 2006, 01:56 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Don't stress about boys. You're only 16, it's not that big of a deal. Hell, the worst relationship I had started when I was 16. They're much more trouble than they're worth. Let things flow naturally.
Moved to Relationships. |
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Apr 30 2006, 06:43 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Apr 30 2006, 2:56 AM) Don't stress about boys. You're only 16, it's not that big of a deal. Hell, the worst relationship I had started when I was 16. They're much more trouble than they're worth. Let things flow naturally. Moved to Relationships. well i'm not quite 16...and i know i'm young, but it just makes me...i guess kind of jealous that everyone else has had someone that likes them...but i haven't
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Apr 30 2006, 08:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 282,125 |
maybe guys just dont see you as anything more than a friend. and if you like someone, go ahead and ask them out.
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May 3 2006, 06:54 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,079 |
Guys will ask you out if not now, soon. You just have to be patient and don't get desperate, you don't want to say yes to just anyone.
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May 3 2006, 07:00 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(hirador @ May 3 2006, 7:54 PM) Guys will ask you out if not now, soon. You just have to be patient and don't get desperate, you don't want to say yes to just anyone. ew! sick no! lol i'd never get that desperate there's only one guy i have my eye on.
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May 3 2006, 07:06 PM
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 Wow, i dont know whats going on... Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977 |
You think guys won't ask you out and thats bad?
Girls won't even look at me twice. Now theres something wrong there. |
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May 3 2006, 07:16 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
you need to dress in short skirts, listen to hip hop, and get a bigger cup size kthx.
QUOTE(colleen92 @ May 3 2006, 8:00 PM) ew! sick no! lol i'd never get that desperate there's only one guy i have my eye on. Kind of contradicting your first point? |
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May 3 2006, 07:20 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
Yes, it's happened to me. But, it takes time for people to notice you--I mean, maybe you haven't fully...blossomed or however you want to put it. If you want/like/love a guy--then aim for him. Work hard and get him. If you want a guy to ask you out, work on him. I felt that way too last year. Every guy that I liked only liked me as a friend. When I look back at it, I'm glad they didn't like me back! LOL! But, someone will notice you and like you as much as you like them back.
It's like when you're looking for something you lost--if you don't look for it, you'll just come across and bam! You found it! In a way, that person will be like that. |
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May 3 2006, 11:18 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
1. Be patient
2. If you're confident about your looks, don't sweat it, you must be 3. Just because a guy asks you out, doesn't mean you should go for him, you know? 4. Do what you do best: be your self, no one else 5. Flaunt what ya got 6. Good luck!!! x 939648888 |
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May 4 2006, 05:04 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,786 |
They're probably intimidated since you act like "one of the guys." you never know, someone might like you even if you don't think so!
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May 4 2006, 06:21 PM
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i just saw your pictures on your myspace, and i don't blame the guys
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May 4 2006, 06:54 PM
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i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ May 4 2006, 7:21 PM) i just saw your pictures on your myspace, and i don't blame the guys that was extremely rude. |
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May 4 2006, 07:15 PM
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just givin you a reality check
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